I m going to describe my dad, and I don t know what kind of personality he is, what kind of psycholo

First of all, your dad won't buy you milk, there may be many reasons, such as the recent milk powder incident. Also, there are a lot of additives added to milk, and your dad may be afraid that it will affect your normal development. You see that today's children are precocious and fast, in fact, it is also related to additives.

Your family is not poor, and coming back so early from work still shows that your dad has a home in his heart.

Of course, a big man doesn't want to go to the supermarket by himself, have you accompanied him?

Dad is not as attentive as Mom, so I can only let you wear more clothes so as not to freeze. The body is the capital, and it is the most important thing. What more could you ask for?

Of course, you have to listen to the words of your grandparents, that is the behavior of a filial son. Also, if your grandparents' words are unreasonable, your father will listen to them. If your dad listens to your grandparents' unreasonable words and still looks at your grandparents on the surface but comes to comfort your mother behind your back, then it is the right thing to do.

The reason why Dad is not optimistic is because he has encountered a lot of things and has been disappointed in certain things. If you can get your dad back to hope, you're going to have to work hard. Your dad will be optimistic about anything.

Do you want your dad to be machismo? At least Dad can treat everyone gently, that's the most convincing. Machismo will not solve the problem, but will make some powerful people crowd out.

Raising fish is to cultivate the mood, you see that it is not very troublesome to raise cats and dogs, they will shed their hair in the season, so that no one dares to enter the house. Huh

Since Dad is so good to you, you also have to learn to understand his mind. In this way, there will not be so many complaints and dissatisfactions.

Wishing you all happiness to the whole family!

Your dad is a man who cares about his family, but gives up his family's request because he doesn't want to move.

Your dad is a person who respects the elderly, he has a rebellious mentality, he resolutely refuses to do what others force him to do, he has been cared for more by your grandparents since he was a child, grandparents are old, he thinks they are weak, and your mother should be relatively strong, at least in front of your father. That's why it's your grandparents who quarrel with your mother.

Your father cares about you and loves you, and he thinks a lot in his heart, but he is not very good at expressing it, he thinks that milk is not good in his heart, but it is estimated that he has many disputes with your mother, and his thoughts are not consistent, and he is too lazy to explain.

Your dad is a relatively simple person, he likes a simple life, he doesn't like to run around, he prefers to stay at home, but he can't stay at home, and his heart is broken, so he divorced and separated, and quarreling with the old man was just the fuse.

I don't know if I'm right.

If you hate someone, will you listen to her?

Your dad is right. 1。People who make milk don't drink milk.

2。homesickness; Supermarket ......Did you study chemistry? I have nothing to do and figure it out for myself; Caution.

3。What's wrong with giving you as much freedom as possible?

4。Filial piety. 5。What can an optimist do.

6。What can machismo do.

7。Your dad is awesome. Admire, worship.

Hehe, first of all, let me tell you that psychologists have endless patients every day, and they will not answer questions for these virtual scores.

And since you also said that it is your father's character, or some natural temperament, then you should know that this is attached to the soul of this person, and it is extremely difficult to change, just like changing your views and concepts.

If you think this can be changed, can you change your opinion and concept of him first?

My father had a hard time and limited ability. They may be loyal to their families, but they will not express that they do not care about people. There is a problem with communication with your mother, so I don't want to care. You are also older, you can have more contact with your father, talk more, and there will be no bigger problems.

If you look at the world from a different angle, you will show many different colors.

If you are persistent in not wanting to change your perspective, then no one can change what you see.

Introverted, responsible, moral, not like to behave, there are people who can't express things in peace of mind.

It's a person who doesn't like to add, doesn't like to face you, a cowardly performance.

First of all, you make sure that you are not his biological one.

The second thing that is certain is that he doesn't love your mother at all.

Again, she might have had his own ideas.

Normal, somewhat psychologically problematic.

I think the superficial reason for this question seems to be due to your personality. You are both introverts, not good at expressing emotions, and you don't like to show emotions, which has something to do with your self-preservation. I don't know if you and your dad are both people with strong self-esteem and at the same time more sensitive, if so, you choose to be silent, sometimes just to protect yourself, for fear that what you say wrong or what you say may cause others to be unhappy, or worry that others will not be satisfied with your views, that is, you care too much about the feelings of others, so you choose silence to protect yourself.

When you look at it, it seems that personality reasons alone can't explain your phenomenon. Because even introverts stay together, if they approve of their own state, they don't feel "uncomfortable". Therefore, you and your father are more awkward, and they are reluctant to speak, and they think that this state is inappropriate, so they feel "uncomfortable".

I feel like you and your dad still have some deep barrier that prevents you from facing your father. I feel like there's a knot in my heart that hasn't been untied, and you can't really accept your father.

So, it is advisable to go after the real root cause and then try to let go, or solve it, and if it can't be solved, then learn to accept it.

It's good to introspect your reasons for encountering problems, but don't allow yourself to feel guilty about yourself.

In fact, sometimes it's because of personality, it's possible that both of you are introverted and reserved in their communication styles, and they are very similar to each other, so you don't know how to speak, and it's possible that he doesn't know how to speak.

Or maybe he's still thinking to himself, how can I talk to my son?

In fact, the communication between parents and children needs love, because many people do not understand that there is a difference between the way of communication at home and the way of communicating with outsiders (in a narrow sense).

I think you can get rid of the baggage and self-blame in your heart, and communicate with your father naturally, you don't have to find some topics, as long as you have a flash in your mind to say something, or to do something related to your father, let him realize it immediately, don't think too much and be afraid.

In fact, many things are put in the way of yourself, how do you know if things haven't happened yet.

I hope you and your father can have good communication and exchange as soon as possible.

Insecure people like to be around acquaintances.

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I think he may be autistic, right? Not very good at getting along with others, that is, the IQ may be quite high, but the EQ is relatively low.

The formation of this kind of personality is congenital and acquired, and it is also the result of the combined effect of innate genes and acquired environment.

Needless to say, congenital. If you are acquired, it will have a lot to do with not getting the approval of your family since childhood, so many of today's parenting experts will ask parents to encourage their children more, praise their children more, criticize them less, and even if they criticize, don't make personal attacks,—— you are stupid, you can't do anything big, and so on. There is a small family environment, and there is also a larger circle around the family.

In addition, grandparents have no problem getting along with people, and it cannot be ruled out that they do not have this gene to inherit to your father, the same as blood type, father type A blood type, mother type B blood type, children may be A, B, AB, or even type O. Because the father's type A may not be AA but AO type, O is recessive, so only A is revealed, and if the mother's B type is not BB but BO, the combination of ao and bo can be ao bo ab oo, that is, the displayed can be a b ab o type.

In fact, I myself have a bit of such a character, because no matter how young I am, my parents are used to spoiling everything. In fact, such a person is the most inferior, but they are eager for others to take the initiative to approach him, so as to satisfy his vanity. It's also called having a personality!

The main problems of your father's personality are paranoia, low self-esteem and introversion.

Maybe he has always had a knot in his heart that he can't open, which leads to not being able to open his heart to the outside world well, not easy to trust others, and his mentality is not very good.

At the same time, it is difficult to say what kind of family environment will cause this situation, but the important thing is that there may not be much communication with parents when I was a child, but it does have a lot to do with the living environment since childhood.

Behind this kind of behavior, there is generally a desire for attention and a fear of losing the attention of others. But he doesn't know how to express it, so he has been showing it in this form of scolding and domineering, but in fact, he is very, very cowardly in his heart, afraid of losing the attention of others. Desire to be loved.

First of all, having such a dad is not your choice. You can't choose either. And people's behavior is mutually influential, you can't change him, but you can change his reaction when he loses his temper.

Let's just suppose that when he lost his temper, you also quarreled and scolded, or you didn't say a word, and you were wronged. Your reaction is directly linked to his actions.

You have to break out of this reflexive pattern of behavior.

In fact, it's a simple way, the next time he loses his temper, hold him, shoot his eyes directly into his eyes, and say to him: Dad, you can lose your temper, and we love you too! See how it goes!

In this case, you have to ask who your father will respect in his relationship, and you can explain the situation to him. Let's educate the elders with the elders.

I usually spend a little less time with my father, but my father can still see that he loves me, my personality feels double, at home I am the kind of introvert who doesn't like to talk, but I am very extroverted when I am outside with friends, so my father usually follows me, he knows my princess temper, so he often follows me, and buys whatever he wants.

Sensible and well-behaved. But he didn't know that I had low self-esteem.

Sometimes, some characters are born, and some are acquired, that is, the family environment, um, the economic aspect, all kinds of things, can cultivate a person's character, that's it, my dad um, for my character well, the evaluation is still okay, at least I'm a normal person, there's nothing well, the kind of character that does something out of the ordinary is relatively gentle.

I think I'm introverted and slow-paced, and my dad thinks I'm too quiet, so others don't understand my thoughts at all, but in fact, people have been looking for themselves all their lives, some people listen to their own hearts, some people are disturbed by the outside world, poor things, people who listen to their inner voices, have found themselves, and people who are disturbed by the outside world have not been able to do so in their lives. If you are not satisfied with your personality, you can change it, but don't be what others want to be, if you don't want to be too extroverted, stay introverted, and if you don't like to be surrounded by everyone, just be quiet.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question, my dad is more open to my character, and won't ask too much, because everyone has their own personality, as long as they don't endanger others, face their own character, and if there is no change, they will be encouraged and guided correctly.

Steady, rest assured, it's a little bit of a bad temper.

I think I'm very cheerful and reassuring to him.

Every time I regret it, there will be some shadow of my parents, but I don't think this can be a problem for myself.

Because we can better inherit the advantages of our parents through self-improvement, and at the same time, we can continue to improve ourselves and correct our shortcomings, so that we will become more perfect, and we can be better at learning to communicate with others, so that we can make our future development better.

1.Be humble and respectful when communicating.

It is very important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make the communication stuck in the middle of the communication and unable to communicate, and even lead to the abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

2.Let go of your self-esteem when communicating.

Unnecessary self-esteem and pride can only become a stumbling block to communication, so at the very least, you should abandon your so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

3.Be open and honest in your communication.

It is very important to be honest with each other in the process of communication, and there is no concealment, honesty is an important step for you to deepen your cooperative relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication.

4.Articulate the content of the communication.

No matter what the problem is, why, how to do it, what the reason is, etc., you must fully explain to the other party, even if there is no reason to act, you must also inform the other party of your own considerations and ideas, and get the other party's understanding and support in action will be of good help to the development of communication and the next development of the situation.