What should I do with my husband and my mother?

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", there will be no pain, and there will be a way.

After reading your words, it's a long time.

Your mother's intentions are good, she wants you to live a good life and let your children enjoy a better education.

Your husband's worries are nothing more than the fear that you will return to the county seat and leave him, and the second is that he is afraid that he will not make money and your mother's family will laugh. In fact, talk to your husband once, after all, it is more advantageous to return to the county, and he will have more space to do business in the county than in a small place. Persuade your husband more, dispel his concerns, and he will go to the county seat with you.

Your husband is too stubborn to understand your difficulties. It's best to persuade your husband to go back to your hometown so you can get a job. Women must be self-reliant.

I think if you don't want to have a rift between the husband and wife because of this, you should listen to your husband, although the mother is also good for you, but if you want to affect the marriage like this, of course, you should be with your husband for a baby, and the mother can slowly explain to her that I believe that the mother will slowly understand.

After getting married, your husband always asks his mother to communicate with him if there is a problem.

The husband is a son, and he can talk about everything with his mother, and he is a husband, and he is even more intimate with his daughter-in-law, and it is appropriate for him to communicate in the middle.

Hello, my husband is looking at my in-laws' family, you should consider this issue from several aspects, one is his family.

The second is his character, and the third is your relationship.

First, you can explain to him that you are the closest person to him when you get married.

Second, make it clear that your interests are legally the same as his.

Third, strengthen your relationship and let him gradually come to your side [hug] and wish you a good mood

I think I should talk to my husband about this situation and make it clear to him: the two of us live in our own small family, don't always pull your parents in. If your husband doesn't listen to persuasion, you can consider divorce.

Talk to your husband to understand the real situation, you can persuade your husband, let your husband know that what your parents say is not necessarily right, and let your husband weigh the importance of the matter.

It is natural for children to respect their parents, if it is too much, you can talk to your husband and have a good relationship with his mother, but don't wronged yourself for your husband.

Two people sit down and talk about the problem, marriage is a lifelong thing, if you can't solve it well, don't delay each other.

If you especially hate your husband's mother, you must control your emotions, because you have to know what your husband's mother means to youAlthough many people think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with, it is better not to get along than this, but why should we be so decisive in our relationship?

Although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, there are many examples of getting along well, we also have to learn from these examples, if we can control our emotions and even put all our energy on each other, I think the other party will treat us in the same way, the most feared is that there are many people who are unwilling to pay in the relationshipEven if they don't get along well, they don't get along well, something that doesn't matter. If that's the case, I think it's really hard to do that.

There is nothing meaningful about how we get along with others. When we get along with people, we should not think too much about our own gains and losses, because this kind of consideration will only make us feel that there is no point in getting along with people, and even feel that this way of getting along will only bring us pressure, in fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still very easy to get along withIf both people can do their best to make each other feel happy and happy, it will be difficult to make this relationship go well.

At this time, you especially hate your husband's mother, and you have to think about what is the reason why you hate her. If we can solve it, we must solve it in a targeted manner, because we will have to face this relationship sooner or later, and we will not be able to avoid it at all. There may be many people who say that there is no need to wronged themselves and will settle for themselves, but only those who have really gotten along with them find that this kind of relationship can be worked, but there are many people who are unwilling.

No matter how good your mother-in-law is, try not to clash with her head-on, after all, she is your husband's mother and elder, and respecting the old and loving the young is our traditional virtue. What's more, once you and your mother-in-law don't get along, how difficult is it for your husband to be caught in the middle? What's more, many happy marriages end because of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

There is a saying that says, "I respect you, not because you deserve it, but because of my own qualities." "Be a younger generation with self-cultivation and socks, generosity, harmony, happiness, home and everything, bless you!