My boyfriend s family changes caught me off guard

Updated on society 2024-07-09
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If your parents can calmly analyze the problem, you might as well turn to them for help, knowing that they are the ones who can really be trusted in this world. But if they're angry, it's up to you!

    Try to relax your mind and think about it, he may be very concerned so he has done bad things with good intentions, if he is really good to you, then you should also understand that marriage is not the whole of your life. Marriage is the real beginning of happiness for two people. Some men are not single parents, but they also cheat on women!

    Therefore, you must communicate with him seriously, there will be certain disadvantages for children from single-parent families, but the key to your problem is not here, because if the relationship is not good, you will not have the intention of entrusting your life to him, but whether he can face this matter honestly and patiently! If he doesn't even have the patience and courage to do so, then he does have a mental block, and you can really do it again!!

    Also, I don't agree with what I said upstairs about not explaining, marriage is a big deal, you have the right to know the truth, and concealment and deception are all disasters in the future! is a sign of irresponsibility!!

    Remember, there is nothing wrong with being a single parent, but if you look down on your own man, then byebye!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, I understand what you're doing.

    He would have said, "If I had told the truth at first, you wouldn't have gotten along with me." ”

    He would also say, "I have no choice but to do it." ”

    Alas, I have seen this kind of person, and he should be a very liar.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What about single-parent families? Your boyfriend was born in such a family, he suffers more than ordinary people, and gets less warmth than ordinary people, what you want is to live with him instead of with him, you yourself said, you should care more about him!

    Don't listen to what your friends say that single-parent families have problems with their thinking, there are many divorced parents in the world, and children are victims, but this does not mean that he has a problem with his thinking!

    Everyone will have some white lies, he is deceiving you, but why is that? It's because he loves you and is afraid of losing you, it's for your feelings, not for his own interests to deliberately deceive and hurt you! Everyone will tell some lies, depending on what his original intentions are!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What about single-parent families? Why is it being explained to you? And to explain it to you? Weird, right? If you weren't disgusted in your heart, would he have been able to hide it from you for so long?

    I don't think a single-parent family has anything to do with love and later marriage. Moreover, his parents are still alive, but they are just divorced, which is too common, no big deal. Such trifles are not worth mentioning at all.

    You can tell your parents, but you don't have to ask someone to explain it to your family, right? He didn't do anything wrong, so why did he have to treat him like a judge? Do you need to explain to others everywhere when your parents are divorced?

    What kind of single-parent family thinking and problem,! Many of the most accomplished bigwigs have been raised by single-parent families!

    Your boyfriend is not cheating on your feelings, nor is he cheating on you, nor is it because you have a problem with your mind and looks down on single parents, so he didn't tell you because he didn't want you to look down on you. It's better now, but you still have to involve your feelings and explain it to your family?

    In fact, if the man's parents have no ability, can't help themselves financially, and have to provide for them by themselves, the single parent will reduce a lot of burden! Many high-level intellectuals pick those whose parents are dead to marry!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's all the same! Ask me anything! Children from single-parent families may have more or less low self-esteem!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Nothing tricky, now you should ask yourself if you like him or not, 1If you like it, don't think too much about it, our life is very tired, marriage is to give us a home, let us relax ourselves after tiredness, let yourself live a happier life! 2.

    If what you think is more realistic, give up and make our parents happy......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Explain the problem to him and mediate well.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on the time. In the short term, he doesn't ask, you don't say, it's not deception; But after a long time, it will always be talked about, if you still say that you encounter a similar situation and avoid talking about it for a year or two, you will be suspected of being insincere, and it is not deliberately deceived or deliberately concealed, which is not good for both parties. If you can't accept the objective facts, then don't do it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, he didn't ask you not to say, it's not cheating. What's more, single-parent families don't blame you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Just break up to calm down, don't look for the next one so quickly, otherwise as long as the regretful breakup just break up, don't look for the next one so quickly, otherwise as long as the regretful breakup just break up, don't look for the next one so quickly, otherwise as long as the regretful breakup just break up, don't look for the next one so quickly, otherwise as long as the regretful breakup just break up, don't find the next one so quickly, otherwise as long as the regretful breakup just break up, don't look for the next one so quickly, Otherwise, just regret the points.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone's approach may be different, but if it were me, I would identify with you, understand you, enlighten you, and comfort you. Use your own actions to get you out of the last hurt relationship, until you accept it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Okay, I'll wait for you.

    2. Hello, goodbye.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If he really loves you, he will definitely say that I am willing to wait for you.

    If he just wants to have fun, or wants to get married early and doesn't care who it is, then he will find another love.

    I think that just breaking up and not falling in love is a sign of being cautious and respectful of feelings, which is very respectable.

    Some people have just broken up here, and they are looking for a replacement there, or sustenance. I want to break up, but I'm not responsible for my new boyfriend. If you get this in the future, you won't cherish this feeling.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's the team, if he doesn't love you, why keep it, you can test you with marriage, how old are you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't take it to heart, not about you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can play with guys more, but even if you are a boyfriend, talking to guys more can solve your problems.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't think about it, just focus on your studies, none of them are for you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Study hard and set a goal for yourself.

    When you're stressed, go for a run and stay safe.

    Too much pressure to release.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Make a few female friends, you're still too young, it's not too late to find a boyfriend in college.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Find a girlfriend who looks like a boy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The other party has been in love several times, but it has not been successful, and many reasons may be the things he told you. I want you to be mentally prepared, and the other party is in love with the goal of marriage, this kind of man is more mature in thinking and has a plan for the future. But you're still a very simple girl, and it's easy to get hurt in your feelings.

    Since the other party is so direct, then you can also tell him your current views and future plans, and you also have your own bottom line. If it is appropriate, they will be together, and both parties will be hurt.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because he's rushing to get married. , so will care a lot about your feelings.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is an open and honest talk to you, and congratulations on finding a good man, maybe you don't think it's time, but he is very satisfied with you and wants you to integrate into his life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Although love is very realistic now, I still feel that love is not a choice question.

    But I've been shaken by this matter myself. But what I can't avoid is that when I love, I don't have the ability to choose. If you fall in love, that person is the only one. Moreover, love is mutual. Not unilaterally.

    So, your boyfriend is not dedicated to you, maybe you are just a kind of inertia and a girl's reserve. Trying to look at these two people from a new perspective.

    Don't think that one is your boyfriend, but evaluate their character and personality and the charm that impresses you the most. Let them play fair in their hearts.

    But be sure to keep your distance. Don't get bogged down.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on who you love more, whether you can be a lover or a friend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You might as well ask this person who is very good to you, is he playing games with you because you have a boyfriend and he doesn't need to be responsible, or is he serious about getting you, wanting to have you, and if it's the latter, break up with his boyfriend. A person who is not single-minded, what is there to remember.

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