How should I deal with a smart man and a very resourceful and scheming person?

First of all, they have called you to play ball and games together, and they have indicated that they are not targeting you and specifically rejecting you. These are what you think, and that doesn't mean they're aimed at you. Try to change yourself and blend in with them.

Secondly, whether it's playing games or playing ball, it's good to have your own ideas, but have you heard of "feasibility"? When you're not a leader in a team, playing a supporting role is also a contribution. If you have contribution, everyone will naturally respect you.

I'm good at playing games, I'll teach you. 1.You are a newbie and a supporting role is a must.

2.Try to match them. 3.

After blending in, communicate your ideas to them at the right time. And is your method really working? It works to win, and I think they'll accept it.

If that doesn't work, why should you stick to your style of play?

Practice is the only criterion for testing truth.

It's normal for locals to reject outsiders, and you can be less sensitive to their targeting, maybe they don't mean that. Work is not the same as school, don't be clear about everything.

You can bring some gifts to visit their home and blend in with their life circle, maybe you will be less stressed, but you need to be warned that if you are not all the way with them, or they are not the kind of serious people, you should not provoke them, and learn about their family situation before visiting. If you are not a person all the way, you just pretend to be more confused, is it rare to be confused?

If you can't outwit your opponent, if you can't outwit you, you'll play yin, and if you can't run away, you can only lie down and pretend to be cute

It's very simple, they are xenophobic, they don't like outsiders, as long as they ignore them, talk when they work, don't have too many negotiations the rest of the time, don't have a conflict of interest with them, people like them have a strong sense of revenge.

It's best to go out and have a dry wine and talk about problems at the wine table.

Play stupid, ignore them, and do your job well.

It's good to be yourself, and there's no need to cater to others.

Don't be full of thoughts, empty your brain, people must have the courage to face reality... Wisdom is not innate, it is an experience that he learns after many setbacks, frustrations, and sufferings!

First of all, we must be confident, then we must be good at accumulating the strengths of others, and finally we must communicate widely and dare to challenge, just OK! It's very simple, give it a try|||

Pretend to be confused, because quick-witted people never say they are witty.