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Anonymous users2024-02-13China pays attention to tradition and blood. Imagine an ordinary ordinary person, after a lifetime, what can be left in the end? What to leave behind? What can prove that he once existed in this world?
If he didn't contribute to the world, didn't give others unforgettable help, or anything else that would help others remember him, then at least his children remember that he or she gave me life. This is the continuation of the bloodline.
Of course, our parents are good to us, not so that someone can remember him, but the feelings that have been accumulated for thousands of years since the beginning of human history. It can be said that it was our parents who "created" us, teaching us all kinds of knowledge bit by bit from nothing, and cultivating our ability to survive ......
People have feelings, but feelings are the most wonderful. When you put all your heart and soul into teaching a child, how can you not worry about him and worry about him?
Frankly speaking, I heard the phrase "my mother travels thousands of miles without worry" for the first time today. Maybe many times "the mother travels thousands of miles without worrying", but if that son also has a child, I believe he will also worry about his child.
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Anonymous users2024-02-121. The sequelae of traditional education.
Traditional education has always been often eaten, every family, every child in the past, in the parents are good at being traditional education is more prevalent, this traditional education for children's lives is too cruel to the previous generation of parents, always adhering to the traditional education to educate children, and traditional education will always let parents to maintain the majesty of parents, maintain the purpose of parents. As the role of the father, it is the form of the head of the family, so the father of the previous generation always educates the child with the driving and majesty of the family, and the child is precisely because of the majesty of the father and the image of the patriarch, and always has a fearful attitude towards the father. Therefore, under such a traditional education concept, the relationship between children and fathers is an incompatible and discordant relationship, and the relationship between fathers and children is also prone to contradictions.
2. The previous generation of parents had old-fashioned ideas.
In fact, part of the reason is that the previous generation of parents were not exposed to many new things, and the ideas they were exposed to were not trendy, and parents did not have more understanding of education, and the education of children did not pay attention to communication and spiritual education, but only focused on children's academic and material aspects. The father's thinking is more old-fashioned, thinking that his responsibility is to support the family, that is, to provide good living materials to the child, in the child's communication and education is not required to participate in the father's participation, the father always thinks that the child communicates, the child gets along, and the child trades is the responsibility of the mother. Therefore, he is not overly involved in the communication and life of the child, and always leaves his responsibilities to his wife.
The father's old-fashioned thinking leads to problems in communication between the father and the child, and the father will always lack a sense of existence in life, and will always be unable to get along and communicate well with the child.
This is because the father's ideology is old-fashioned or under the traditional education, the normal situation leads to a bad relationship between the father and son of the good generation, and the relationship between the rich and friendly children is relatively weak, and there will even be various contradictions, which intensifies the relationship between the two parties. The tension between the father and the child in the previous generation has made it impossible for the father and the child to establish a good and deep relationship, and the parents of the previous generation have not realized how important the father-son relationship is in the growth of the child, and they have not realized that the good or bad of the father-son relationship can determine the growth of the child and the harmony of the family.
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