Excuse me, how do I enlighten myself, what is my problem?

When there are many things, because you have to do it, there is no time to hesitate, so you have to deal with it right away, just in a hurry.

When things don't have to be solved right now, you're likely to drag on time.

This is mainly related to mentality and work habits.

When there is a lot of pressure, there are many things that need to be done. Learn to decompress instead of running away from things. Although there is pressure, there will be motivation, but if there is too much pressure, the motivation will become resistance.

Just do what you are doing at the moment, don't think too much, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

Do you know what real work stress is?

Because a lot of people have developed a habit of waiting for tomorrow, and there will be a lot of things piling up, and tomorrow will be very stressful.

The more stress you have, the more you want to escape, the more you want to escape from it, and the more you run away from it, the more stress you get, and so it goes into a vicious circle.

It's one thing to do what you're doing at hand, it's one thing to do it well and not to do it, it's another thing to do it or not to do it, so that all your time is full, and your mind will be at ease.

You will be satisfied in a state where you are at ease.

Make good habits and don't complain.

In your spare time, you can read a book. Listen**. Or go on an outing, since you don't know what you're thinking, don't think about anything, try to relax, and let yourself be in a very vacuum.

Friend, your requirements for life are too high, lower your posture, do what you can, and the most important thing is to follow your heart no matter what you do. You tell me?

Maybe your life is too smooth, and it is difficult to achieve a goal at the top, and it is important to enjoy life and pay attention to the process.

It's sweaty, it's still rare to say that you're like this!

You're shirking some kind of responsibility, aren't you? I think it's like this. You should be clear about what you know! Finding the source will solve the ......

Everyone has such a stage, it's good to stick to the past....

It's just that no real goal has been established.

In fact, there are a lot of things that fail the college entrance examination! I'm also a bloody example First of all, let me share with you the experience of a friend of mine. She also failed the college entrance examination and entered an audit school, but at the beginning of the school year, she was admitted to their school's brand major ACCA, through her own efforts (PS can only be admitted to this major after entering the school threshold).

Now people have been busy taking various exams, and they are preparing to go abroad or something! It's really busy! How can I say it, I can basically see a bright future!

I'm also so-so in college.,Anyway, the goals I just entered the school have been achieved.

In other words, in fact, many people have the feeling that you feel that you are losing the runway of college. However, it's not like you can't be outstanding! Moreover, I think you should have left a lot of good memories in your college career!

And you can't just dismiss your former classmates based on their performance in high school

Finally, don't compare yourself with others, please compare with yourself. Think about how you can make yourself better! Moreover, imagine yourself standing at the bottom of the pot, and then every direction is upward. --You're so smart, you'll figure it out in no time!

People don't need to see how others live, see how others walk, live their own lives, there is a good saying, people are more popular than people, so don't compare with others, even if you are not as good as people now, you can't say it in the future, employment is all over the street, it depends on whether you are willing to do it or not, whether you are willing to endure hardships and sit up from the grassroots level, the road of life is still long, and there will be nothing after you are in your 20s.

Try to make everything okay.

The reason why people are annoyed is that they have too much attachment and value many things, such as money, career, and fame. The Buddha said that the reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things. Let go, you will be at ease, learn to let go, then your mood will be natural and peaceful.

It's hard to take your time, but once you do it you'll benefit for life. In addition, you have to develop the idea that everything is a life experience, whether it is good or bad. It is recommended to take a look at "Lao Tzu", his inaction, indisputability, and going with the flow are exactly what our today's floating bath society lacks.

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Read more philosophical books and go to the gym every day to vent. Leave them first ...

Look at inspirational books like Jack Ma, Kai-Fu Lee, Yu Minhong's books, and so on

Thousands of miles of books are only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet. The Great Wall is still there, and Qin Shi Huang is not seen.

This is a limerick poem in the book of Zhang Yingjia, the secretary of the Ministry of Rites of the Qing Dynasty. It turned out that Zhang Ying's family was repairing the mansion and had a dispute with their neighbors over the land boundary, and the two families were both famous families in the local area, and no one was to be outdone. After Zhang Ying learned about this, he wrote a letter to persuade his family, and the content was only the poem above.

After receiving the letter, Zhang Ying's family gave up three feet of land on the original boundary according to his wishes, in order to show that there was no longer a dispute. When the neighbors saw the Zhang family handling the matter in this way, they felt that there was something wrong with it, so they followed the example of the Zhang family and gave up three feet of land. So a six-foot alley bloomed.

This is the famous "Six Feet Lane" in Tongcheng, Anhui Province.

The wall was not damaged, and it did not bring any inconvenience and loss to the landlord, the landlord actually just had a feeling of being bullied, insulted, and disrespected, so he was very aggrieved, and he was angry when he thought of these mailboxes. Maybe it was because the neighbor had misbehaved in the past, so that the landlord had a knot in his heart that had not been solved, and the matter of the mailbox broke out again, and his heart has been uneasy.

Forget it, the landlord, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and the relationship with people is not good, and I am always uncomfortable with pimples in my heart, why not take a step first, smile and pass, and make my mood and life more free? ! The mailbox has become a fact, and you are always unhappy in your heart, which will only make the neighborhood more stiff and your own mood worse; If you choose to accept it and laugh it off, at least you are happy in your heart; If you can go further and laugh at your neighbors, you can gain a good attitude and a good reputation for tolerance, and if your bad-tempered neighbors reconcile with you because of this, it will be a surprise, and the bank deposit will have an extra interest, hehe

Be happy

Persuade the landlord not to be careful, even the nails are counted so clearly, to persuade yourself to broaden your horizons, don't stare at the big things of the nails The wicked have their own wicked grinding, and there is always retribution

Calm and calm ......Arguing with others is a waste ...... to yourselfIgnore him, ignore his ......Listen more softly** and distract yourself.

It's better to forget it, it doesn't matter if you live, it's good to be suitable for yourself, if you can communicate, communicate more, and the relationship will be better, mainly depends on yourself. You can isolate them, ignore them, and there's nothing to do without violating your rights.

A few miles are only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet.

1 All men are born the same, knowing nothing and doing nothing.

2. Temperament, knowledge, and temperament are all acquired.

3 shortcomings everyone has, or a lot, or very few, but it doesn't matter, life is a very long thing, slowly correct is, don't deceive yourself, have the courage to face yourself, feel that it is not good, correct is, take your time, and one day you suddenly find that you have no time to change, you have become an excellent person.

4. When you see someone else's mouth, please don't be envious, because you can't see the effort behind him, and he may have been the same as you a year ago.

5 The last point is that at your age, it is a period of confusion and sensitivity, everyone comes over like this, don't be afraid, it will get better.

6 Come on, come on, enrich yourself, when others are doing nothing, waste their time, please do something meaningful, you are so weak, is your inner insignificance, a strong heart, is the foundation of strength, never believe in pie in the sky, to put it bluntly, it is the sweat that others can't see, don't learn, don't do, don't be brave, you just want to be better?? Do you think that's possible?

I think why do you think fame and fortune are so important, I think it's more important to live today, and it's not advisable to always worry about tomorrow's events. And the things you worry about don't necessarily happen, and some of the things that do happen can't be solved by worrying. One of my relatives is worried about this and that all day long, sometimes he can't sleep, and he recently had liver cancer.

Be kind to yourself, love yourself more, and live in the moment. May you be a happy person!

Think about how many days a person can live in a lifetime, think about the days to come, and know what you want to do now;

In fact, I used to be like you, I had low self-esteem and felt that I was worthless.

You can learn something that is easy to interest in, such as calligraphy, piano, dance, etc., and the advantages are cultivated slowly.

Make some cheerful and heartless friends, and over time, you will become more informal, and you will soon forget about setbacks.

Keep yourself busy. Think less, do more. This will enrich you a little bit.

Believe in yourself, say to yourself that you can do it, and you can get through anything.