Urgently ask to meet the parents, go to meet the parents, what questions will the parents ask?

Updated on parenting 2024-07-14
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Think about it from another angle, if you really want to be with him, you can't escape, you can't see it once or twice, and his family must know that you have low self-esteem three or four times.

    In fact, seeing parents is your attitude on the one hand, and their family's attitude on the other, if their family really wants him to find a big money, highly educated, CEO, etc., it can only be said that their family does not want her to find a true love, but to find a wallet to marry, even if it is herself, she will not agree.

    His family asks you about your academic qualifications, work, etc., and is truthful. You have to understand that you are yourself, she loves this you, and she may not love you when you become a god. Since you feel that you are inferior to others, you should be a little more honest than them, not to mention, you will be exposed in the next second if you make up a lie.

    What kind of self, what kind of words, basic politeness to have surprises, let you be honest with them. Confident you have, are you just not confident in your academic qualifications, and not confident in her feelings? What's more, the variables in the future are too great, the person who asks for food on the street today may be your top boss tomorrow, give yourself such confidence, okay?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Go, the ugly woman still has to see the family. Ask you about your academic qualifications, be honest when you work. Otherwise, wait for the goofs. You don't even have a chance.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How terrible it is for a person to lose self-confidence! Even if you are worth millions, no matter how high your education is! If you don't have the confidence to hold your head up in front of others, others will only look down on you more!!

    Success doesn't require cowardice and low self-esteem Let's be honest If this is not destined to be your life Let go and find yourself! What could be happier than doing what you love?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Academic qualifications cannot be said to be a person's character, and a person with academic qualifications does not mean that this person has a character. If his family doesn't even understand this, then I advise you to forget it, this kind of family can't live together!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Academic qualifications are not very important! The point is whether you love him or not!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is nothing in the world to disturb mehrsis.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What should I do if I "meet my parents" for the first time in my life?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It means that he has approved of you, and he wants you to meet his family.

    When he invites you to his house, he has accepted from his heart that you have decided that your relationship is for the purpose of marriage.

    When he decided to let you go to his house, he just wanted his family to see you and accept you. Introduce you to his family. Then your further relationship becomes clearer.

    When every girl gets along with a boy, the happiest thing is that the boy should let him come to this house. Only by going this far, it means that the relationship with boys should be a matter of course.

    At this time, you must think about it, if you accept him from the bottom of your heart, and you plan to talk about marriage with him, you can go to his house. Q, you haven't made up your mind yet, and I suggest you think about it carefully. Because as long as you agree to go to his house, it means that you have accepted him and you have decided to marry him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is usually a warm hospitality, and most parents will also give a meeting gift, and the first time we went to my boyfriend's house to meet the parents, we were excited, nervous, and apprehensive. For a couple of lovers, if they can continue from the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend until the end of the time when they can meet their parents. It means that the relationship between the lovers has been very stable, and they have a good emotional foundation, so that they will plan for their future, and let their other half go to their parents to see if their other half is suitable.

    And at this time, no matter who goes to meet the other parent, there are many complicated feelings, so I will talk about it in detail below.

    1. Excitement.

    For the first time to meet their significant other's parents, they must be very excited the first night, and may not even be able to sleep all night. Because they are very much looking forward to this time, hoping that they can get the satisfaction of the other party's parents, and hope that they will have a good performance the next day.

    Second, nervous mood.

    When you are sleepy when you meet your other half's parents, you will definitely feel nervous, because after all, this is the first time you have met. At the same time, because there is a certain embarrassment when you meet Xiao Chichun for the first time, you must need your lover to help you alleviate this embarrassment at this time. If you feel very nervous at this time, you can prepare a glass of cold water, which can effectively relieve your nervousness.

    3. Nervous mood.

    When I met my girlfriend's parents for the first time, in addition to being excited and nervous, I was sure to be apprehensive. Because you must be worried about whether you meet the expectations of the other parent. And it may also make the other party feel unsatisfactory because of their bad performance when they meet.

    At the same time, when communicating with each other's parents, they will definitely be asked about the details by their lover's parents, and they are also more nervous at this time, because they don't know if they will be satisfied with their situation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    <><1.Find out what your boyfriend's house calls when you meet that day.

    Find out who is in your boyfriend's family: such as father, mother, grandparents, grandparents, younger siblings.

    Why do you ask all this? Understand clearly, you can avoid the embarrassment of calling the wrong person on the day of meeting, and you can also give gifts according to the situation of your boyfriend's family, and your family will think that you are a caring girl.

    2.Find out about your boyfriend's family situation.

    Ask about the other parent's occupation (whether they are retired or not). Tease Zheng.

    Why do you ask all this? You can find topics for conversation from your profession and hobbies to enhance your relationship. You can also ask your boyfriend about the time of his parents' vacation, and talk about visiting his or her parents when they are on vacation. You can also ask if there is anyone else besides your parents at this meeting.

    3.The interests and hobbies of the boyfriend's family and how they get along.

    Ask the other parent's preferences, such as interests, personality, favorite gifts, and how they usually get along with each other at home.

    Why do you ask about this balance? Understand it so that there can be topics in the chat afterwards and you can get some reliable advice from your boyfriend on how to get along with his family.

    4.Understand the man's family etiquette.

    For example, in some places, you must eat with a bowl, and in some places, you must not hold a bowl when you use rice, etc., although these customs are quite troublesome, but they are also very important, and details determine everything.

    5.Arrive on time or early.

    First impressions are very important, don't be late, after all, it's not good to keep your elders waiting for a long time at any time and on any occasion.

    6.Do a good job of image management in advance.

    Do a good job of skin care in advance, try not to stay up late a week before meeting your parents, otherwise your complexion will be unrefreshed, and you must leave a good impression on his parents when you see him for the first time. If you want makeup, light makeup is fine, so that people can look comfortable, and you don't have to carve a mountain to concave the shape.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, the purpose of the teacher's meeting with the parents is to strengthen the relationship between home and school, communicate the child's learning and life in school in detail and detail, and at the same time understand the child's situation at home. Some parents send their children to school, except for holding parent-teacher meetings and meeting teachers who teach their children, they never bring sales to school to communicate with teachers about their children's situation at other times. Teachers meet parents, regardless of whether the child's grades are good or bad.

    This all shows that the teacher has been.

    are paying attention to everything about your child, some parents are afraid to see the teacher, because they are afraid that the teacher will nag their child in school and how bad the performance or grades are, think about it, if the teacher blindly says good things about your child, and finds that the problem is not corrected, is this really what parents need? Teachers pay attention to the child, find out the child's shortcomings, contact the parents in time, even if they are busy, as a parent, they should come to school in time to talk to the teacher. It is really not easy for a teacher to pay attention to so many children in a class, and it takes a certain amount of time to discover the strengths and weaknesses of each child.

    Parents should be happy when a teacher is looking for a parent, because the teacher is always concerned about their child... I'm sorry, I've been nagging for a long time. I forgot to ask.

    What should teachers do when they meet parents? Are you in the teacher's perspective or the parent's perspective? But it doesn't matter from the perspective of teachers or parents.

    In short, teachers communicate with parents frequently, which will only be beneficial to children and harmless.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Be polite, enthusiastic, and confident.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. Dress simply, neatly and maturely.

    2. Prepare to book a hotel and wash the dust for your girlfriend's father.

    3. Prepare a small gift for her father in advance, it doesn't have to be too expensive, because you are still in school, a book, a lighter or just a tie will do.

    4. Don't waste your parents' hard-earned money too much in order to prop up a façade in front of your girlfriend. Because you're not financially independent, be careful. Because you care too much about showing yourself, pretending to be wide in front of your girlfriend and father, and playing big fake, will make him see through it at a glance, and men look at men, very accurate and unique.

    So, remember to be sincere, sincere, and don't pretend. The vision of an old man should not be underestimated. Just show your true self.

    Don't be deliberate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't worry, if you are friends, it means that you are the best in the eyes of your girlfriend, get along with each other and family, show 100% sincerity, and everything will just go naturally!!

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