Because I like it, I insist, and all the persistence is because I don t like it enough

On a high-speed train on a trip, I heard a conversation between two people in the back row, and one of them said, "Many times we insist on doing one thing, because we don't like it, and if we really like it, we don't have to insist on it!" Suddenly, I felt very agreed.

When I was in school, my teachers always told us that perseverance is victory, and as long as you persevere, you will get the results you want. We have been taught this idea since childhood. Looking at what everyone is doing, I want to give it a try whether I like it or not, I remember that when I reported to the interest group in school, I always looked at which group reported more people, and I chose to choose everyone to follow, so many times I worked hard to learn, and the result was not as good as what some people learned while playing.

At this time, the teacher will tell you, it doesn't matter, as long as you work hard and persist, you will be as good as those students who learn well, at that time you will feel that you are too stupid, why others can learn so well, you have worked hard or there is no obvious effect, frustration swallows you step by step, there is no motivation to persist at all, now think about it on the other hand, it must be the choice at that time is not what you really like, so it will not be that you have not achieved the expected effect under such hard persistence!

After work, the boss will tell you that everything is difficult at the beginning, as long as you persevere, you can get through it smoothly! As a fledgling graduate, it is crucial to find a job to solve the problem of food and clothing, and it is too late to consider whether you like it. After working for a month, I began to feel obviously tired, but I saw that other colleagues were full of energy, and I silently encouraged myself, there is nothing difficult in the world I am afraid of people with hearts, as long as I insist on it, I will definitely have performance, I am very serious about learning professional knowledge, secretly pay attention to the sales caliber of my colleagues, and slowly have a little performance, and I insisted on it for two months, but every day I went to work I was forcing myself to do what I didn't like, I felt that I insisted on it very hard, and subconsciously I have been rejecting this job, In the end, I couldn't hold on and chose to resign!

A lot of times we always tell ourselves to just stick with it! But when we keep telling ourselves to persevere, can we stop and think about why we have persisted for so long and have not achieved the expected results, and what we have been insisting on is what we really like? Is it because I don't like it enough that I insist on it so hard!

Fish bones stuck in your throat, but you still like to eat fish; You have been bitten by a dog and scratched by a cat, but you still love animals; is full of tooth decay, but you still have a sweet craving; He abandoned you thousands of miles away, but you are still willing to travel thousands of mountains and rivers to see him. The principle is actually the same, if you like it, you are willing.

Erdan said last night that he had talked to his father for a long time, but seriously, only communication can solve the problem, watching the relationship between Erdan and her father slowly get better, Terra also feels very comforted, in fact, Terra knows that Erdan is very concerned, loves her parents very much, although Terra did not give any advice, or happy for Erdan, only let go of obsession, in order to make the heart comfortable, all the estrangement is generated by the lack of communication, there are more ways than difficulties, there has been no communication, parents will not know what they are thinking, Everyone's concept is different and cannot be generalized, and perhaps through this parents will begin to compromise on many things.

Terrabie didn't dare to have any delusions about the current relationship, just hoped, quietly, to let things happen. As Erdan himself said, who will appear around Erdan, who will be lost, whether it will be lost, and whether what is lost will come back. Comic is very much in agreement with this, many things are relative, the same, who will appear around Tuse, who will be lost, no one can get such a thing, but Tease is willing to wait, wait until the second egg has played enough, let go, and then be willing to start.

Maybe the second egg is away from playing, but this is an uncontrollable thing, and it is also the result of waiting, and the chain has no regrets, because Tease has known a long time ago that there may not be a return for paying, and Tease is not asking for anything in return, if you enter such a relationship with the idea of so many years old, mixed with other factors, it will only make you tired and panic, for these problems, Tease's head can't deal with it at all, and the grace that ignores it, Tease is also very stupid, Instead of guessing what others think, it is better to let yourself live well, which is more troublesome and worry-free. Instead of living so tired, why don't you be stupid and wait quietly, maybe the ending will be better?

The relationship between Tease and Erdan has slowly become the talking point of friends around him, is this really good? I don't know, Terra only knows that no matter what they say, it won't affect Troll, but what Trolley is most afraid of is that it will affect Erdan, because Trolley is inherently more indifferent to these aspects? Hahaha I just found that there is no EQ and IQ at all for the comic against the second egg, for the comic to do for the second egg, a simple summary:

Because I like it, I am more willing to hail than the grandson.

At the beginning, it was to persist for the sake of perseverance and persistence for the sake of challenge, but now, I suddenly find that I like it! I suddenly remembered a sentence I saw, and what I want to trigger now is that I insist on being right, and if I don't like it, I have to insist on it, and then you will be right after reading the service, because what we want to take is the right path, do the right persistence, persist to the end, and be the best version of ourselves!

Thinking that I choose to persevere, choose to challenge, choose to get self-affirmation and happiness from persistence, although sometimes I feel impatient when I am busy, but, consider it, or even don't have to think about it, because no matter what I think in my heart, I am not a willful lady, I am a little public act that wants to insist on myself! So I choose to stick to it and stick to my choice! It's about affirming yourself!

On the road of life, it can even be said that in the first half of my life, in my youth, I could not hold on much, and I could not make many decisions. And now, I want to have my own persistence, I want to make my own choice, and then call for my own world, for my own truth, I think, this is my pursuit, but also my persistence!

I want to be a free and unrestrained bird, I have seen too much, because of the eyes, words, opinions, and regrets of those who choose to lose themselves, when I think of my decision, let myself have regrets, let myself regret myself, I am more determined in my thoughts, I want to meet true love, I want to be my own big master, I think I am me!

I'm not anyone, I'm just an independent person, put aside the world, I can live alone, I'm a caring person, I love those who pay for me, even if I only think about me now, but they are also part of the achievement, their opposition or support, in fact, are part of my life, they have their own considerations, they will respect me, they will affect me and shout, but only me will affect my life!