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Life has always been making choices, and the choice is a matter of a moment, but the result is a big difference!Someone once said: there is a road with a sea of ice on the left and a volcano on the right, and if you go to the left, you will freeze to death, and if you go to the right, you will be burned to death, only if you walk in the middle neither cold nor hot!
There is only one way to be right! But we are difficult to find, and it is inevitable that we will take many detours. People are like this!?
There are good and bad emotions, just like spring, summer, autumn and winter all year round, it can't always be spring, it can't always be summer, etc., right!?We must understand that sweet, bitter and bitter are the only way to go in life, and such a life is realistic! If a person is straight and smooth, it is called strange.
Regulate your emotions, take out a pen and paper, get to the bottom of it, write down the problem, calm down and think about it, and ask and answer yourself!It's actually nothing!?Don't be too pessimistic and think about what you've accomplished.
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Personally, I think it's most important to follow your heart, choose what you like, and don't have no regrets in your later life. It's good to be the most authentic self, don't follow the crowd, just have your own style!
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Text: Wandering the world.
Many times I want to stay quietly alone, but I don't know the inexplicable upset, maybe it's because I see my peers, they are all successful, and I still have nothing to achieve at this age, and my inferiority complex suddenly arises.
So many years have passed, on the road of life, I have also tried some small projects, I once fantasized about getting rich overnight, this dream is just self-comfort, in my heart has always been a hurdle that will not go away, always immersed in my own world.
Watching others continue to grow, and even far surpass, often can't raise their heads in front of them, and never have the courage to completely change themselves, since they are already on a starting line, they have been thrown a lot, and they should reflect at this moment, why they have become the way they are now.
In the eyes of his parents, he has become a dou who can't be helped, always complaining that the development space in front of him is limited, and he can't use his fists and feet, in fact, he is just a stinky skin, without a little real talent, even if he gives you a chance, it is difficult to grasp it, but it is self-deception.
When others come home from work, regardless of the fatigue of the body, they began to improve themselves, whether in terms of academic qualifications, or work ability, always put themselves first, even if they earn the least salary, they will take out more than half to invest, when they see an inspirational girl, spent more than 200,000 yuan, all used to study, suddenly felt ashamed, every time we spend the money on eating, drinking and having fun, we are very generous, but really used to invest in ourselves, it is a little reluctant, that is, the difference is only to buy books, I don't know if it's pretending to be or deceiving myself, but after I bought it, I put it away for many years and didn't learn anything.
The gap between people is empty, and the distance has been widened from this moment, but still no lessons have been learned, and hope is pinned on various success cheats, and there have been many detours, but they still do not repent, and they go to the dark one by one, which is really speechless.
I've seen too many inspirational people's deeds, even if the brain is a little sick, it should be the protagonist's enterprising heart, in an instant can be awakened, some people always suspect that those are fooling people's chicken soup, its practicality is not too serious about the truth or falsehood, the most important thing is that we find ourselves, in our lifetime to be able to wake up in time, re-plan life, at least let ourselves no longer lose their way.
People still have to work hard in a down-to-earth manner, there is no shortcut to success in life, there have been a lot of detours ahead, and they can no longer make mistakes again and again.
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When we are faced with a choice for the first time, we can no longer turn back and go again to walk the road without a crossroads, life will inevitably face the choice of needs, how to choose only by yourself, the answer given to you by others may not be correct, we can only give you theoretical knowledge, but can not really help you choose. We don't know what to do with the first choice, that's because we are still too young, we have experienced too little, when we have experienced more and matured, when we are facing a crossroads, we will not hesitate to choose the road to continue, although we don't know how far the end is, but we must go on, even if we don't have legs, we must continue to climb. Because we can't go back, we can't do it all over again, and time doesn't allow it.
We can't stay where we are, we can't degenerate ourselves, because time doesn't stand still. No matter what choice you face, no matter how you choose, once you choose, you should take responsibility and keep going, you don't know if there is darkness and traps ahead, or light and fairyland, so you must continue to walk, maybe the front is light.
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Career! If you don't have a foothold in society, although you like someone very much now, can you bring him (her) happiness? And career is capital, if you really love him, she will support you and encourage you instead of holding you back, I have given up the people I love for the cause, love is capital!
I can't afford to love without a career!
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At the crossroads of life, you can walk in all directions, you don't have to go left and right, and no one limits you to take a certain pace like a chess piece! Changeable life, different roads and different endings, sometimes you need to take risks, because life is an adventurous journey, and tomorrow I don't know if you will start a new journey in **! As long as your heart is still on fire, you can still move on!
You have to decide the direction you want to go forward, because you have to go the road in the future, and you have to learn to decide for yourself! Don't always hesitate and don't let opportunities slip away, and give it your all when you make a decision! Young is the capital, come on!
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