It s very sad, sad, I don t know if the child should have it

Maybe he couldn't accept it for a while. When my wife was pregnant, I also had this idea. But now the baby is three months old.

Sometimes, ideas are only temporary, and they don't have to be unchangeable. Is it because of economic problems? If not, I'll do it.

It hurts you a lot. Don't believe me?

Don't make a decision too impulsively, it's a matter of two families' lives, calm down the two of you, and then communicate later, if he doesn't love you, then don't let the child suffer.

Talk to him well, if he doesn't love you and doesn't leave, it's also a sin, it's better to find another one who loves you.

I'm not married, but I can understand a lover's heart. In fact, no one is really so ruthless, it depends on how you treat that person, different people, different treatment effects will be different. I never like to quarrel to solve problems, that's the most stupid way.

No one likes to spend time with someone who quarrels with them every day. You quarrel with your husband, I can't say who is at fault, I can only say that your personalities are not compatible, if you want to be together, you must make changes for each other, change is the premise. You love him and you have to change for him, and if you find it painful to change for him, then you don't love him as much as you think.

Marriage is to be exchanged for love, because no one is anyone's private good.

Let the child cry and release his bad emotions first. Parents should know that many times, crying is just a way for children to release their bad emotions. Parents have taught their children how to face pressure and frustration in their usual education, and have also given their children a sense of security, at this time parents should believe in their children, they can deal with good and bad emotions by themselves, as long as they give them a little space and time to be alone, let the children calm down their own good mood, and then talk about other things.

Listen and guide your child to put bad emotions into words. After the child repairs his bad mood, parents accompany the child to cry, wait for the child to calm down, and then guide the child to tell the cause of the incident, as well as the child's good way to deal with it, whether to go against the grain or try to fight for himself again, in short, must let the child say it himself. Listening is the first thing parents need to do, listen to the child, if the child can use words to say the problem, it means that he himself has actually been relieved in his heart.

After speaking, parents can talk about some similar incidents they have encountered before, saying that they understand their child's feelings very well and let them know that you understand him. Parents should not blindly preach and look high, which will only disgust the child and will not have any effect. What you have to do is to let your child know that you are there for him and that no matter what, the child is not alone.

Yes, we love our children, but we don't necessarily get a response from them, and sometimes they even say things that make their parents sad and do things that make them sad.

If the child is still young, such language and behavior can be corrected, if blindly indulged and doted, once the child is an adult, it will be difficult for them to change their behavior, at this time they have not learned to love their parents.

Learning to love is the most important topic in everyone's life, and learning to love can make oneself truly happy and peaceful. You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well! When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need and find the most suitable for you.

If even the closest people can't get along, let alone love others and the world, then it will be difficult for them to live happily in this society.

If the child has no conscience, of course it will be sad, but if it is the consequence of not knowing how to educate the child, it is self-inflicted.

Of course it will, raising children to prevent old age, in the end, the people closest to me don't want to be myself, and my heart is going to break.

I will definitely feel sad, after all, it is my own flesh and blood.

That's for sure, anyone who is abandoned by their own flesh and blood will be sad.

Yes, what mother doesn't like her child to be close to herself, and she will definitely find a way to save her child's heart.

Yes, I will be very sad, it must be that I am not doing well, I will reflect.

Yes, I already have feelings for raising him for so many years.

Absolutely.

The classical theoretical basis for psychology's description of parent-child relationships is called attachment. Attachment refers to a special emotional relationship between an infant and its caregiver, which arises from the interaction between the infant and its parents. It is an emotional connection and bond.

The development of attachment is a two-way process and is the product of the interaction between the infant and its mother.

For an infant to attain secure attachment, parents must be constantly caring. When the baby signals various needs, it should be given a positive and appropriate response in a timely manner, and it is necessary to constantly adjust itself to adapt to the baby's behavior. Therefore, a good parent-child relationship must not be innate, but born out of this positive and appropriate interaction.

Secondly, the parent-child relationship is related to the parent's education style. According to attachment theory, parent-child relationships can be divided into three types. i.e. safe, avoidant and contradictory.

These three types are formed because of the different ways in which parents and their caregivers treat infants. In order for children to obtain secure attachment, parents must learn scientific and reasonable parenting methods, such as being sensitive enough to respond to various messages sent by children in early childhood.

So, if your child doesn't want you, look for the reason from yourself.

Yes, but I will reflect on whether I have done something that makes him feel bad.

Needless to say, my heart must be broken, but such a child really has no conscience.

If my children don't want me, I won't be sad, it's a failure of my education.