What should I do if the doctor says I don t have a long life, I m only in my 30s, and I still have m

Try to keep your body in the most stable state, maintain balanced nutrition, don't do heavy physical work, don't eat heavy oil and salt.

If you have a disease, you should avoid it.

Don't take the doctor's words too seriously, many people who have been sentenced to death by the doctor will not necessarily change according to the doctor's words. Doctors are also human beings, but they only make their own judgments and give them to the patient, if the patient is scared, in fear, and if he is not well adjusted, he will scare himself to death.

As long as you are afraid that the body will be very toxic, and the disease resistance and immunity will not be the best state, if you take it too seriously, the heart will not be able to bear this pressure, and the body will not be able to bear it, and the heart will collapse.

The drugs that should be avoided or taken must be taken seriously, if those who don't have the confidence to help watch some news or stories in this area, to see something that boosts their confidence.

Psychology and Buddhism learn psychological suggestion.

and emotional self-regulation, which is very helpful for you.

The doctor must know your condition, that's why he said that, everyone has a life, but if you want to prescribe, be in a better mood, be optimistic, maybe it will be useful, although it can't save your life, at least it will prolong your life.

One: try your best to prolong your life, two: it is recommended that you do not tell your family, and three: if it is a very serious terminal illness that requires particularly high medical expenses, it is better to give up and leave the money to your parents.

Take it easy.

Check out other hospitals.

Maybe it's a misunderstanding.

There may be other ways**.

If you want him to say something, don't be so scary, if he can't do it, you can try it in a different place, at least you have to be diagnosed, don't judge blindly.

The doctor cannot ignore what he says, nor can he listen to it all, he must say what he can believe before he can believe it. Otherwise, it can't be believed!

In fact, it is said that there are unforeseen circumstances in the sky, and everyone has everyone's misfortune and sorrow. Perhaps many people will say many things. It is.

I'm really doing it, and then I'm talking about it. Three points are destined, seven points depend on hard work, I think many things are fake, life is life. Everyone's fate is everyone's and different.

Dad just said that you will think that you will live a long life, but many things should come to him, and he will always come. Then you don't know? Demon.

When will he be sick with these? To your side, to your body. ** To this end?

What do I think you should say to your parents and family? I don't think it's really hard to say. You can't say how to say that you told your wife?

I have a terminal illness right now, and I can't be cured. You can tell me to die and then find someone to marry, and that doesn't feel like what to say sometimes? I feel uncomfortable.

Then I also felt sorry for her and didn't give her a better life. What should I do with my parents? What about the child?

Many, many questions, feelings haunt my mind. in their own minds. After all, many things are incomprehensible, and many things are very, regretful.

You feel really sorry for them. I feel like I just didn't cherish it before. In the end, he was empty-handed and left with nothing.

I'm only 36 years old with cancer, I have a wife, children, and parents. I think it's a shame, but please be strong for the rest of the time.

Under normal circumstances, getting cancer in the 30s is relatively rare, but it is not excluded that I had a friend who also had intestinal cancer in his early 30s, but this kind of problem will not die immediately, if you say that you can survive for several years if you take care of it, I think everyone's time is actually limited, if you can make good use of the time in the past few years, it still has its value.

You have to see what stage you are in the early, middle or late stage, if it is early, you can control it, don't be too depressed, it will affect the development of the disease, face the reality, and be honest with your wife, if it is the late stage, the family conditions are not good, you can eat what you want to eat at home, and if you want to travel, go for a walk, don't be cured to the end of the hospital to suffer, empty of people and money, and give your wife and children a debt, so that the living people are better, if you love him, think more about him.

It's not scary to have cancer, just explain your actual situation to your wife. Maintain a good attitude and actively cooperate with the doctor, cancer is not impossible, and there is still a high chance of improving the survival rate.

Heaven treats everyone fairly, and now that you find out that you have cancer, you can spend your lifetime treating your wife and children.

Yes, God is too unfair to you, Cai Cai 36 has cancer, this is a good time in life, I think you still tell the truth to your wife, you should actively cooperate **, although it will cost some money, but your body will definitely recover health, I hope you adopt.

I don't think you need to be discouraged, because there is no way for this kind of thing to happen to you, we can only accept it, you can find a time, and then sit down and talk to your wife calmly.

Deeply sympathetic to your experience, don't think so much about it, the possibility of early cancer is very high now, it is better to actively cooperate with the doctor, your wife's side, if you can hide it, be busy first, it is better for a person to suffer than a family to suffer, just you, you will be ** as soon as possible.

Hello! Having cancer is not scary. Be timely**. With family. Confront. You're still young. China's medical technology is developing rapidly. Hopeful.

This is a deep regret, what kind of cancer did you get at such a young age, in short, your situation is likely to cause a burden on the family, but you should not lose confidence in life, it is possible to continue to live or continue, until the day when medicine can **.

In fact, now that medicine is very developed, there are many cancers that can be controlled and controlled, don't give up, work hard for your family and children, tell the truth with your wife, go to the hospital early, everything will be fine, I wish you a soon**.

Now that medicine is developed, is cancer a terminal disease, so what to do with pessimism, tell the truth with your wife, cooperate with the doctor well, the key to having cancer is to have a good attitude, many cancer patients are scared to death, mentality determines everything in the future, each of us has cancer cells, as long as we adjust our mentality, we will definitely be able to defeat cancer, come on!

Such natural and man-made disasters are inevitable. If you have a good relationship with your wife, talk to her. If you have insurance, it is best to have the children and wife beneficiaries.

Because God may be ruthless, that's why you got cancer at the age of 36.

It is recommended that you adjust your mentality and live strongly.

Don't say anything about God's unfairness and anything like that, sometimes human life is so fragile, so you have to protect yourself and your family.

This is unfortunate news. Indeed, I am very sorry. But if you find it early, you will still have a long time to go in life.

For the sake of parents, wives and children. Be sure to have faith in yourself. Have a strong desire to survive so that you will not let yourself down.

Hello, please be strong, don't fall down by cancer, face the truth, sit down with your wife, talk slowly, find a general tumor hospital, find a specialist to take a good look, relax your mind, I believe you will be able to defeat the disease.

Say whatever you want, the two must be honest with each other, face the reality together, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, family unity, harmony. Cancer can be cured. Be confident in life!!Come on, strangers!!

I think technology is so advanced now, I believe in medicine now. There are a lot of athletes who have successfully fought cancer, and of course they may have good conditions. If we don't have that many resources, we can donate online.

I feel that life is precious, and I have confidence and tenacity in myself. Take care of yourself first, the old and the young, step by step and don't put too much pressure. Many of people's pathologies start with mental illness, so it is important to maintain a good attitude and stick to life at all times.

Should learn to be independent.

Generally, men around the age of 30 have already organized their own families, and if they are still dependent on their parents at such an age, they really need to reflect on their behavior. Over-dependence means that this person does not have a sense of independence, nor does he have the ability to do things independently, such a person will suffer a lot in society, so the most important thing is to maintain his independence and let himself learn to look at problems independently. Cultivate your ability to think independently and do things independently, tell your parents not to help you anymore, you have to try to be independent.

In the eyes of parents, no matter how old the child is, he is a child, and he needs the love and care of his parents. But this kind of behavior can really hurt children, make them get used to relying on their parents all the time, they have no sense of self at all, they feel that they don't need to do anything to live their lives perfectly, they feel that their parents do everything for them is the right thing. Although this will maintain a sense of intimacy with the parents, there will come a time when the parents will grow old and there will be no one else to help them unconditionally.

Parents should let their children develop a sense of independence from an early age, don't do everything by themselves, should give children space to play on their own, and don't be afraid that their children will be hurt, because everyone will experience difficulties and setbacks in the process of growing up, only in this way can they gradually become stronger, become more and more independent, and can make themselves successful without relying on the strength of their parents and othersNot only will they feel a sense of accomplishment for themselves, but it will also make their parents worry less, which is beneficial and harmless.

If it has become a habit for a child to rely on his parents for everything, when one day his parents ignore him, he will have a strong resentment in his heartThinking that his parents are obviously capable of helping him but not helping him, it means that his parents no longer love him, and he will leave his dependent parents and seek help from others, which may harm him and make his parents feel very cold, so it is very important for parents to cultivate their children's sense of independence from an early age.

It depends on whether your family has money, if you have money, you will rely on it, and if you don't have money, you will come out to earn money by yourself, and you can get better if you have children in the society for two or three years.

Find a job you love and move outside to live alone. Stay away from the protection of your parents and let yourself slowly become independent.

I already feel that I am very dependent on my parents, but my parents cannot be dependent for a lifetime, so I should try to be independent, think independently, live independently, find a job, find my other half, and build a small family.

Eggs, broken from the inside are food, and broken from the outside is life. Life is also the same, breaking from the outside is pressure, and breaking from the inside is growth. If you wait for someone else to break you, then you are destined to be someone else's food; If you can break yourself from within, then you will find that your growth is equivalent to a kind of rebirth.

It's just a mom boy.,Try to grow up by yourself.,If you still live with your parents.,Then live separately.。

You should leave your parents and live alone for a while, your parents are not omnipotent, they are the ones you want to love.

Like you, I am also 30 years old, and I still rely on my parents for everything, and I can't quit eating and drinking, and I rely on my parents.

The man stood at 30. You can't rely on your father and mother, learn to be independent, and be self-reliant in order to be productive.

Try to be independent, no one can rely on their parents for the rest of their lives, and parents will slowly grow old.

To learn to be independent, to cultivate their own character, 30 years old is not young, you can't rely on your parents when you are old.

It's up to you.

There are many forces that affect life, and Bazi fate is one of them. The greatest force influencing life is providence, the power of nature. Because man is a product of nature, nature cannot escape the laws of nature.

That's why when natural disasters come, whether they are good, bad, long, or short, they all perish together.

A family planning law allows those who have ten men and eight women to have only one or two children. A financial crisis caused hundreds of millions of people to shrink their funds at the same time. This is the power of national fortune.

The same rich life, born in a developed country, has assets of more than 100 million, in developing countries, maybe only millions, or even less. That's the power of the environment.

The same eight characters, one was born in a barren land, one was born in a barren land of flying sand and rocks, one was born in a land of beautiful mountains and rivers, and one was born in a prosperous city.

The same eight characters, one person is diligent, one person is lazy, one person accumulates virtue and does good, and one person does evil, and the results of his life are definitely different. This is the power of human beings themselves, and they can also affect life to a great extent.

Therefore, fate will govern life, but it cannot determine life. The accuracy of the deification of the eight-character fortune-telling is another scheme, and the statement of one life, two fortunes and three feng shui should be denied, thinking that the understanding that fate determines everything is wrong, and it is futile to expect to explain all the life trajectories with the eight-character scheme, and it is inappropriate to put fate in the first place, and superstitious fortune tellers to guide life.