My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years and have never saved money.

The two of them have to open up sources and reduce expenditure, so as not to be so embarrassed. Since you spend so much every month on favors, you can be flexible, and don't give so much if you are not very familiar. Make a plan for your expenses each month, and you will have a good idea of what is necessary to spend and what is not.

Also, for family members, especially parents, they are happier than anything else when you go back to see them, after all, money can't buy family affection. Also, you still have a long way to go, you have to think about the future life, if he still has a lot of potential, you try to communicate with him, if you feel that he is like that, he can't give you happiness, maybe leaving is also the best choice.

Your boyfriend is very smart, he will definitely have a foothold in society in the future, and the money he spends now is to earn more money in the future, how can he gain a foothold in society without his current friends and relationships in the future?

It's really a little stingy with your loved ones, you two can find a suitable opportunity to sit together and talk about this issue, (instead of blaming him), blaming him will be counterproductive, many things can be discussed, don't worry about it, then everyone will be better!

How many times have you been married...

If you feel that he can't satisfy you materially then separate, what's the use of you whining here...

Let's talk to him.

In fact, friends are more valuable than many.

You should continue to be with him, it's normal to have no savings for two years after graduation, don't forget what you were with him for in the first place, a person's ability is not proved by savings.

I think you can continue to be with him, after all, it's normal to have no savings just after graduating from college, and then start working, there are many places to spend money, such as: rent, etc., so it's normal to not have a little deposit.

Two years after graduation, I am still in the working stage, and it is normal to have no savings at this time. So you might as well give more patience and encouragement, and believe that your boyfriend will prove to you that he is a potential stock.

It's been two years since my boyfriend graduated, and he has no savings at all, of course, he has to continue to be with him, not long after he graduated, it's normal that he can't save money.

Don't continue to be with him, for a girl who seeks stability, her boyfriend has not saved money for two years after graduation, which shows that the two of you have too different views on money.

Yes, whether there is a deposit or not does not mean anything, after all, everyone's life is different, and some people do not find a suitable path after graduation, so there is no deposit.

I think you should continue to be with him, because it is normal for a recent college graduate to have no savings for the first two years, and you should give him more time.

If the boy is very motivated. You can be together without a deposit, after all, you still need to struggle for yourself in the future, but for two years, it is normal to have no deposit at all.

I think we should continue to be together, as long as your boyfriend is fighting for your future, and there is no deposit now, it does not mean that there will be no deposit in the future.