How to recover lost love? The text is too long and is sent in two parts.

First of all, I think you should understand the fact that this man has been in love with the two of you since the beginning to the present, which means that he has never been able to let go of the other one, and he can't let go of you, and at the same time he is talking to you about love, he is also talking to another woman, and the reason why he doesn't make a decision is because he is reluctant to give up any of them, and the final result you can see, he finally made a decision, that is, give up on you, I don't know if you can believe me, but the truth is that I have also experienced a tangled relationship, 3 people, it's messy, really You're going to be tired, you're tired, I'm tired at that time, because I'm sinking into a relationship every day, I'm not in the mood to do anything, and I'm afraid of losing, I always feel like I'm going to be cheaper than others, and then I finally made a decision, I'm going to leave this deformed relationship forever, tired, and fruitless, even if he chooses you in the end, are you willing to spend your whole life with such a man who is in love with two women at the same time, and I think you have to be strong and can't let go 1 because you're unwilling 2 because you're afraid of being sad Don't you think your relationship is particularly disgusting Love is a matter of 2 people, 3 people is not love, no! So you have to recognize the reality and let it go, and you will find that after the pain, there is an unparalleled ease You're still a good girl, you're still qualified to be loved by others, not entangled, and only when you come out of this relationship can you really learn how to someone, how to be loved by someone.

Emotional problems are hard.

You first have to understand whether he has hepatitis B, but you have to do it, and if you love him, you have to persevere, and the two of you face it together.

If he loves another girl.

You can't get it back, so try to give up.

I know it's hard because I've had it too.

The ignorance of your youth has made you lost, and now you can only be called a girl and not a woman.

People should look at the opening point, what is yours is yours, and what is not yours must be strived for.

But there are some things that don't have to be fought for.

The world is very big, so don't be fooled by what is in front of you.

I recommend that you at night be looking at it from a distance and you will have a great feeling.

Because the world is still big, it doesn't have to be what you want here.

Think of your lover as your friend.

If you want to change the other person, try to change yourself first.

Others are actually a kind of control, and often many times we are not aware of our own problems. Blindly pushing the problem on the other party, especially people who like to say, I'm not wrong, it's your fault. It's not easy to change yourself, isn't it?

What happens if I don't want him to change anymore, or if I love him the way he is? Also, can you give the other party a little time to transform? When there are some problems, it is a challenge to your relationship, such as the birth of a child, moving, changing jobs, etc., why not stand on the same line together and leave each other time to change.

If when you ask such a question, it means that you have no confidence in each other's feelings, or there is a big trouble in your relationship, I am thinking, there are two levels of analysis and elaboration of my opinion:

1. Love is worth anything you do.

If everyone is obviously in love with each other, but because of some trivial and inconsequential things in life that affect each other's feelings, then please do your best to redeem and remedy, don't leave any regrets, and at the same time, don't miss a relationship because you don't want to take the initiative to admit your mistakes. If that's the case, I have the following suggestions for your reference:

a.Think back to the first love plot when you were just together, try to remember and on the anniversary of the two people, try to create such an atmosphere to remind each other of the sweetness and shyness when they first got together.

b.Try to add some rituals to each other's daily lives, such as setting a few anniversaries that are exclusive to each other, such as a good night before going to bed every day, or a warm "I'm back" when you come back.

c.Quietly accompany the other half, he goes**, you go**, no matter what**, just follow quietly, even if the other party asks you not to follow, you continue to follow, even if the other party is angry, he will be soft-hearted, let you return to his arms, and don't be stingy to take the initiative to admit your mistakes, it doesn't matter who admits mistakes when necessary, the important thing is that he is still there.

2. If there is no love, give up.

The front is that if two people still have love, if two people or one of them has no love for each other in their hearts, then the sand that can't be held, let go of it, you can calm each other down for a while, and it doesn't take effect after a period of time, it can only mean that you should let go of this relationship, and the person who can't keep it, even if you stay, the heart is not here.

If you can't hold the sand, you can put it down.

It depends on whether the reason for your imminent separation is a matter of principle or an ordinary quarrel. There is a lot of coaxing in ordinary noise, and you can influence each other with your mind; If the issue of principle is violated, it will be a bit difficult to recover.

Let's analyze the specific problems in detail, first calmly think about the reason for your quarrel, and then prescribe the right medicine. If you want to take the initiative to redeem it, don't count down the other party's mistakes first, start with your own mistakes, and tell the other party how to correct your mistakes. If you want the other party to change too, just wait until the time is right for you to reconcile and talk to her calmly, and don't hit the muzzle of the gun at this juncture.

Then you can do something small to move her, such as sending her home and buying her breakfast, which are also very useful for you to save your love. Love is not just words, it needs your actual actions to prove.

But if the other party is very resolute in breaking up, and you can't keep it many times, then you should let it go as soon as possible. You may be able to break up peacefully and be friends before the other person is completely tired of you, but if you keep pestering and make the other person dislike you, then you may be strangers from now on.

Since you have found that your love is about to be lost, then quickly find the problem, see what is wrong, find the problem, and correct it immediately, even if you make up for it.

In the case of sending back this love, then you must communicate with the other party sincerely, and enlighten the other party will change.