How to become important among friends and why are friends important?

If you want others to pay attention to you and care about you, you first have to be close and close to others. In interpersonal terms, there is not necessarily a return for giving, but without giving, it can almost be said that there must be no return!

When others are in difficulty, sincerely care about others, take the initiative to join when everyone talks and laughs, express their own opinions, don't be too afraid of sometimes saying the wrong thing, it is common to disagree with others, as long as you are not open-mouthed, sometimes frankly say what you think, it is also a way to make others feel good about you. Because the "good old man" is often not the most popular. People who have their own principles make people feel real and easy to get close to.

Don't wait for someone else to take the initiative to be with you, you have to adapt to the surroundings. When you see people you know, say hello and pay attention, smiling is the easiest and most practical communication skill.

You may not be the kind of girl who is very delicate, cheerful and lively, but that's okay, make friends with sincerity, and others will always find you good. Pay more attention to what everyone is watching and like, and don't let yourself go too far It's easier to communicate with others with a little more talk. It's okay to be inconspicuous for the time being, to let everyone know about you, it's up to you, pay attention, only you can change the status quo.

Go in a good direction!!

Please more friends, give more gifts to friends, don't be stingy with friends, pay attention to the occasion, time, place, content when talking to friends, just pay attention to these points

Socialize with friends more, treat friends with sincerity, friends are in trouble, as long as you can help, don't stand idly by. And be more tolerant of your friends, so that after a long time, they will feel that you are a trustworthy and trustworthy friend, come on!

A friend is someone who accompanies you when you're lonely and lonely, someone who can drink with you

Real friends get along with each other, no need to deliberately disguise, no fear of losing face, no need to please politeness, use their most comfortable way, they can be more relaxed with each other. You don't have to wear a mask, wrap yourself in a shell, and display the beautiful scenery in front of people, which is the most comfortable state for a person. And real friends get along with each other, and they know each other clearly enough, and they don't need to pretend.

1. Friends will make us happy, the use of making friends is that it will make us feel happy, before making friends, we will also feel happy, but after making friends, we will have more happiness, and this more happiness is what friends bring to us.

2. Friends will make us not lonely, before we don't make friends, in our leisure time, we will have times when we feel lonely, but when we make friends, we will not live as lonely as before, make friends, let us feel that we will not be lonely.

3. Friends will help us resolve difficulties, although making friends is not to help us resolve difficulties, but when we are in difficulty, friends will selflessly stand up to help us, will selflessly stand up to help us resolve difficulties, make friends, will make us feel very warm.

I think that when the psychological age is low, friends are very important, and many of your own psychological mechanisms in this period are not perfect, if you do not have friends in this period, you must have a huge impact on your personality, such as the common rejection of strangers, low self-esteem, naivety, and idealistic ...... that are detached from reality

After the mental age matures, after you are mature enough, the group of friends will become less and less important in your life. It takes energy to maintain friends, and some people can really do it without friends, because in their free time, they can arrange themselves very properly, and quite have the state of enjoyment, or peace with loneliness, and can always solve things by themselves, rarely need the opinions of a third party, not stubborn, not do their own thing, is their own social experience is rich enough, and the perspective of looking at things is diversified enough, and they don't need other people's opinions as a reference. In this state of mind, many people will not take the initiative to pay energy to make new friends, if at this time, the old friends gradually drift away for various reasons, until there is no friend in the address book who can chat in real time, probably will not feel anything unusual.

It is difficult to cultivate the grass at the end of the world, and it is difficult to find a bosom friend in the world!

For the sense of rice pairing, travel friends, there is really no need, there is a posture that would rather be lacking than excessive! For drinking friends and dinner friends who don't understand themselves, even if they sit face to face, they still feel a distance of 108,000 miles, and at this time, they just feel that it is better to stay alone!

That's where I'm now.

When you're mature enough, of course it's good to have friends, and it's okay if you don't!

When you are immature, afraid of loneliness, and need to hug someone for warmth, friends at this time are really important!