The more you give in love, the less you get

Remember, friend, nothing is in vain! There is always a reward for paying, not that the time has not come!

In the face of love, we are all losers.

Sometimes giving is also a kind of happiness! Young man, don't be in the midst of blessings and not know blessings!

Love is not taking!

Give or get, that's a superficial way of saying for love.

When you are immersed in your love life, you can't say that you are not happy, no matter what the outcome, you will do your best to take care of it.

Whether you care or not, you can only say that the hearts of two people can only be parallel and cannot intersect.

The giving of love is immeasurable.

Lad, do you know how much you're paying?

It's not a solicitation.

It's not a transaction, is there a reward for you to pay?

Then I'm going to ask you.

Do you really love her?

Love is selfish, and if you're not selfish, you won't ask the other person for anything in return.

Your object is also selfish, how can you not give you something in return if you are not selfish.

The question is who is more selfish.

To love someone, as long as you make the other person happy, love is not the same as possession.

Love is equal, both of them should give, as for who pays more is a personal matter, it is voluntary.

Not necessarily! But most of the time, no matter how much you give, you get zero. You know, love is not like anything else!!

Because you pay more, so you feel that you get less, in fact, the proportion should be about the same, relativity

The more you give, the more you will love each other, whether this sentence makes sense, mainly considers these factors.

The first factor is that the more men pay for women, women don't necessarily like it! Because some women don't cherish what is easy to get, and feel more eager for not getting it. Men are willing to pay for the women they love, and not all women will appreciate it.

The second factor, if she loves you, it is definitely yes, but if you ask, you should have doubts about your relationship. Then ask your own heart, if you really can't let go, continue to be good to her, maybe you will have the opportunity to move her, or maybe you will feel tired and give up in the end, but at least you will not leave regrets.

The third factor is that sometimes you don't give what she wants, no matter how much you want, it's like she doesn't like to eat apples, but you keep buying apples for her. Sometimes when a woman thinks that you are not suitable for her, no matter how hard you try, it is useless. Maybe she will appreciate you and know you're fine, but she doesn't need to.

Therefore, it is good for men to pay for women, but it must also be done in moderation. If you know that it is impossible to be together in the end, you still have to pay and work hard, sometimes in the eyes of a girl, it will disturb her life, and you will even be tired of these things you do! We all have to know ourselves, and if we know that there is no result, it is better to stop early!

The fourth factor, whether the relationship is good or not is not a matter of how much the man pays, it depends on whether the woman's heart is with you! If she likes you a lot, she won't care how much you give! If some women only value material things, but her heart is not necessarily with you, once there is no material matter, she will part ways with you!

Therefore, men should not give unrestricted for the sake of a woman.

The fifth factor is whether the woman cares about you or not. If she doesn't care about you, then even if you give her everything, she still feels nothing. If she cares about you, even if you give her a very cheap gift, she will feel like she has found a treasure.

I think this statement is very reasonable, if you don't love each other, you can't give a lot, if you love each other very much, then you will definitely give a lot. The more a person cares about the relationship, the more they will give.

The truth of this sentence is that if you give a lot of money and energy to a person, then you will be inseparable from this person, because you have paid a lot to him, so you will be very dependent on the other person.

This sentence makes sense, because the more you give, you prove that you like each other very much, and at this time, because of time, you will only love each other more.

In our love, there is no question of giving more and gaining more than less. Love is a kind of giving, for love, for the one I love deeply for her or him, I think of how to give more, not to repay. The more you give in love, the less you will gain?

Can you tell who pays more, who pays less, who collects more, and who receives less? I can't. Do you think you can put these on the scales of love?

True love doesn't care about that. Don't treat love as a deal, suppose you really treat love as a deal, and you will lose your happiness and the happiness that love brings you.

First: How much to pay, whether you think it is your own situation, or the real situation, after all, as long as I am the most clear in love, sometimes I am also the most ignorant.

Second: Is there such a possibility, that is, the other party feels that he has paid a lot, and he will have this kind of thought, so what is the problem after all**.

Third: How much do you pay in love, from what aspects is it expressed, and will your contribution not have a positive impact, so that it will put pressure on others and even be annoyed.

Fourth: How to weigh the number of gains, is it based on the level of pay, and how much do you want to gain after all? Or how many harvests you will receive, and you will feel satisfied.

Fifth: Do you really have to be so careful in love, you can also be careful, communicate well face-to-face, say what you think in your heart, many things can be dealt with through communication, if you just take a few to communicate, you will only fight in the end.

Love only depends on whether what you pay is worth it, love is on both sides, it is something you are willing to do, assuming that you are "shaving your head and picking a hot head", to pursue those ethereal so-called love that does not belong to you, and pay what you should not pay, there will definitely be no return. Although true love does not talk about paying, as long as you give sincerely, there will be a reward, as long as you pay, it will blossom and bear fruit.

Yes, in love, in general, the more you give, the less you receive; Because for men, they are very rational in their relationships, and they will take it for granted for women's meaningless giving, so women will gain very little.

I think that if you give more in love, you will gain a lot; Because everyone is equal in love, and the other person can feel your giving, and he will respond to it.

It is true that the more you give, the less you gain, because the more you give, the other party will not cherish your good, and the attitude towards you will become worse and worse.

All things in this world are in line with the principle of "no pain, no gain", except for love, there is always uncontrollability in the relationship, and sometimes it really makes us realize what it means to be powerless.

At the beginning of falling in love, women have blind confidence in the future of two people, fantasizing about growing old with each other, even if they have seen too many bad precedents, they do not have a long memory, and always think that their feelings will be exceptional.

So he was willing to give his all without asking for anything in return, thinking that this way, the man would have no reason to leave him, so he became more and more active in this relationship and completely forgot to be reserved.

But the more active you are, the more passive you are, the pay and interaction in the relationship are originally mutual, but the excessive care and enthusiasm you show has given the man enough security and superiority, you must know that human nature is the same, since he does not have to pay, he has completely captured your heart, how can he spend effort to pay.

Your initiative may not be able to exchange for a man's infatuation, but it will give the man enough security and cultivate his inertia in this relationship, and you will only get more and more tired, you will pay more and more, but gain less and less. A man is a very rational animal, he likes you, just because you have the qualities that attract him, if not, even if you take the initiative, you will not be emotionally attached to you, let alone cherish you.

When chasing "Perfect Relationship", I felt that the relationship between Marbonny and her foreign boyfriend Liszt was developing too fast, and Marbonny did not have the reserve of a woman at all, and was basically in an active position in this relationship.

Later, it also proved that Liszt did not take Marbonny seriously, just playing, and Marbonny's too initiative and enthusiasm will make us feel disgusted, because we will feel that she is really too self-loving.

If a woman is too active, she will lower her value, and a man will think that you are pleasing him, but in fact, he despises you in his heart, even after being with you, he will not cherish you, self-love and reserve are the best bargaining chips for a woman.

Ye Sijia is a person who seems to be more cheerful and talkative, but in fact her heart is very lacking in love and uneasiness, this is all due to her original family, Ye Sijia has been talented and intelligent since she was a child, but her parents are really limited, and the attention and love given to her is too little, in the whole family, she can't feel a trace of warmth and love, and all she gets is only the complaints and accusations of her parents, which causes her heart to be very inferior.

She has always been unwilling to fall in love, and has a negative attitude towards feelings and marriage, because she doesn't want to live the life of her parents, and she doesn't want to have a child similar to herself.

It wasn't until I was 24 years old that I met my current boyfriend.

Feelings are not fair: a relationship is never fair, some people pay more, some people must pay less, some people love more and more, and some people love less and less. The most important thing in how to bring this relationship back into balance is to have less others in your heart and pay more attention to yourself.

Put your limited resources on yourself, improve yourself, and make yourself excellent. Pay less, so that the other party can understand that their own pay is not cheap, but necessary; It's not that I need it if I want it, and I throw it away if I don't want it, but I give it to you if I want to, and I don't want to give it to you, and I won't rush to catch up with you. In that way, the feelings will slowly be balanced.

Feelings are like a scale, often offset, but as long as you know the right balance and keep him upright, you can make this relationship better and better.

Feelings are not exchange value: some people's feelings are blind, they blindly give, blindly love, and later, unconsciously realize that they have been damaged, but they can not learn from experience, but they have been constantly circulating the system, waiting until they are scarred, only to reflect where something is wrong. Falling in love is an essential step in a relationship, this is because you really love the other person, but if you love so deeply that you lose the most basic judgment, then you may be led by the other person, and later on, you don't even know yourself.

When two people are together, it will be easier to be changed, and all the other person's lifestyle will subtly determine you, whether it is strengths or flaws, you can influence.

At this time, if you are still in a blind relationship, in the end, you can become less and less like yourself, you will find that your former friends will be reduced by half, is this kind of relationship correct? In fact, this feeling is wrong. A better relationship is to be able to maintain oneself and integrate well with each other, rather than simply blindly following the trend.

Summary: If you have a relationship and pay a lot, but you get very little, it is recommended that you stop paying and reflect on yourself, whether you have fallen into the blind spot of falling in love, and forget your true self. Feelings are poison, confusing people's brains, on the premise of enjoyment, don't forget to always remind yourself to be rational and calm, so that feelings can last for a long time.

This is not nonsense, Split Luck and this sentence is very correct, if this person pays too much, the other party will not be able to look at you recklessly, and will not have to get the other party's response.

The first point, when you pay a lot, the less you may gain, because your pay is not proportional to the gain, the second point is that the more you love each other, then the stupid party will think that you are a fool, so don't give your feelings easily. Precognition.

No. If you are always just one person in a relationship, it should be difficult to get too much in response for giving too much.