It s been 20 days since I was separated from my girlfriend and I regret it so much and it s very unc

I don't think you need to chase it, maybe your girlfriend loves you very much, but she is still very hesitant to take you to meet your parents and decide to marry you. Therefore, if you can't change your current state, even if you chase it back, it won't be of much use, and the contradiction will always exist.

Do you regret that the medicine is sold?

That's out of your actual actions

There is no need to continue, not at all.

This girlfriend of yours treats the problem of feelings really too much, which may have a lot to do with her being adopted, growing up a child in an abnormal family, there are more or less problems with the health of the heart, and the shadow of childhood will accompany you for a lifetime, this is a reality, and it is something that ordinary people can't understand.

If she loves you very much, and in order to make you forget her, she told you that she wants to be with her ex-boyfriend, which may be a bit credible, but the fact is that they are really together, so it is a lie. It doesn't matter what they've done together, and you can't see it, you just listen to her.

You said she found the best excuse to break up, but I think she found the cruelest excuse. Maybe she's not a kind person, maybe she doesn't love you very much, otherwise how could she be willing to hurt a man who loves her so much?

She has an estrangement with your mother, or there is a misunderstanding, it will be difficult to get along with each other in the future, you have to suffer from splinting, you are not married now, it is difficult to understand.

She told me not to be in touch with her, not to be too in touch, what are you going to do? It shows that this girl is selfish and only thinks about herself, has he considered your feelings?

After she leaves you, she will also be sad, this is human nature, after all, you have been together, just like you, your own sadness is only known to you, but from your description, I also feel that her love for you is far less than you love her.

Your mother, as a person from the past, an elder, should be more accurate in her view of marriage issues, believe her, no parent will harm their children.

When it is broken, it is broken, long pain is better than short pain, there are many good girls in the world, why bother on a tree, so do it yourself.

So why did you earn it!!

In fact, you have the answer in your own heart, ......

Leisurely and depressed, this kind of woman will not be happy if she finds it.

You already have your own answers, but you just don't want to accept them yet.

From the beholder, your girlfriend is a very hypocritical person, in fact, everyone is more or less selfish and hypocritical, you have to respect your own ideas, but I want to warn you, if you speak up and get back together, you will be in such a position in the future, you will be in such a position to be a head lower than her, and you will be passive in everything.

Go with your feelings. But now that you've taken that step, don't regret it. There is no regret medicine in life. Once something happens, a lot of the outcome changes. Life is rare not to choose, but to stick to your own choice.

Follow your heart, feel right, do what you want, and do it boldly.

If you really don't have feelings for your ex-girlfriend anymore, it's better to make it clear as soon as possible. You still care about her not eating well, which means that you still care about her as a person, after all, they have been together for so many years. But judging from your narrative, you don't want to go back to her.

If you really feel that this relationship can't and doesn't need to be maintained, make it clear to your ex-girlfriend that women's feelings are always more fragile than men's, not to mention that you have someone who loves you, and she hasn't (?) And women are less likely to let go of a relationship, they crave stability. So, you still have to have your own feelings, whether you really want to let go, if so, tell her as soon as possible, I already have a love, we are really not suitable.

In fact, this is a very simple thing, if you have strengthened your beliefs and feel that you are completely let go, then you can explain clearly to your ex-girlfriend, don't drag the mud and water, otherwise the other party will feel that you still have her in your heart, and you will be even more entangled, and in the end it will only make both parties miserable; The desperation of the present is also for the sake of being able to live a good life in the future.

Secondly, if you haven't sorted out the relationship between you and are not sure what kind of relationship you want, it is recommended that you observe for a period of time before making plans, after all, you have been together for 3 years and know each other better.

In the end, I wish you happiness no matter what decision you make.

We don't count, do you think it's like a home with your ex-girlfriend, or the current female skeleton is like a home, two people living together is not necessarily to have the same thoughts and hobbies to be happy, as long as two people are the same to work hard for two common families, it is also very good, different people have different thoughts and hobbies, this matter depends on how you treat it, you have to determine which one you love more, life is like that, two people have been together for a long time, and the bad problems have also appeared, and everyone is the same.

Don't reconcile, I also have the experience of getting back together with my ex-girlfriend, there will be no good ending, she can have the first time to abandon you must have a second time, don't believe in her anymore, don't have any kindness, cherish the person who really loves you, if you lose it, it won't come, this is my personal experience, I hope you cherish it.

You decided to break up because you had a new love, if you weren't satisfied, you shouldn't have been good with her in the first place, do you think this is riding a donkey to find a horse?