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It's your personality, so to speak"I have my personality, do you want to take care of it? "That's what you think

When you ask this question now, you want to know if you're doing it right or wrong! Isn't it?

Then you can do whatever you want, and see if your friend's idea is right, or your own idea is right

Think about it from another angle, if you talk about other people's shortcomings, others don't necessarily like to hear them. But this disadvantage may be real and an obstacle to your development. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.

No matter what others say is right or wrong, we have to accept it face to face, and then seriously think about whether we have any shortcomings in this area, and if there is, we should be humble and correct, only in this way can we continue to improve ourselves. Don't rest on your laurels and imprison yourself.

I also get bored with people pointing out your shortcomings, and you should advise others to point out your shortcomings in a humorous way that people can quickly accept them, and you also need to understand that no one will tell you about your shortcomings until you have corrected them.

In fact, no one likes to hear others talk about their own shortcomings, because this is their own weakness!

But there's nothing wrong with this, I guess you're still a student, right? When others say that you are inadequate, as long as you can accept it with an open mind, it means that you have grown up!

Hehe, if you keep talking about your benefits, it's that someone else either has something to ask you for help, or your lover, for you to be happy, in fact, think about it yourself, don't always run away.

I like to talk about other people's shortcomings. I also like people to talk about my shortcomings, I think it's because they understand me.

Praise me every day, I think that kind of person is hypocritical.

When others say you, it proves that you haven't done enough, you should be sensible and change, such a person will be loved.

You are escaping from reality, you have to change if you are wrong, and you have to listen to what others say.

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The first is inferiority complex, this kind of people are often very inferior, can not pick out their own advantages, self-evaluation is very low, feel that they are not very good, when they pick other people's things, they will feel that the people around them are not perfect, there are many shortcomings, even inferior to themselves, they by belittling others to achieve the effect of improving themselves, in order to enhance their own self-esteem. The second is that this person may have perfectionism, which is a little better than the above. Because perfectionist people not only have high requirements for others but also high requirements for themselves, but this kind of person is prone to psychological problems, because they always demand perfection, demand for themselves and others, and it is easy to have psychological problems.

Why do some people love to find fault with others, the analysis is too thorough, the third is jealousy, this psychology is actually very common, to be honest, many people may have this kind of psychology, but some are slight, some are serious. This kind of love to pick on others is extreme jealousy, thinking that others may be much better than themselves in many places, and when they find out about their personal shortcomings, there will be a kind of person who is actually inferior to himself.

People who like to talk about the shortcomings of others belong to people who have the characteristics of picky, demanding, and nitpicking, and are often called "nitpickers" or "prickly". These people usually have excessively harsh expectations and evaluations of the things around them, and are always able to find the flaws and shortcomings of others, and constantly point them out. At the same time, they may lack self-reflection and scrutiny, and often fail to realize that they also have shortcomings.

In social situations, this behavior tends to cause disgust and annoyance from others. Because this kind of person's criticism and accusations against others may make others feel attacked and hurt, affecting the relationship between them. Therefore, we should try to avoid complaining, finding fault, and criticizing others, but to be tolerant, understanding, and respectful, and to live in harmony with others.

People with low self-esteem: These people may have low self-esteem and want to elevate their status and self-confidence by belittling others. They may think that they don't have much to do with their strengths and strengths, so make themselves feel better by pointing out the shortcomings of Sakurasunyu others.

Picky people: These people can be picky and themselves and others. They may be overly sensitive to the shortcomings of others, believing that the shortcomings of others affect their own interests and feelings, so they will frequently point out the shortcomings of others.

People who lack empathy: These people may lack empathy and don't care much about the feelings and needs of others. They may think that pointing out someone else's shortcomings is an objective description that won't hurt their feelings, so they won't hesitate to say something about someone else's shortcomings.

Regardless of the type, people who like to talk about the shortcomings of others can have adverse effects, including lower self-esteem and self-confidence in others, and affect the effectiveness of relationships and cooperation. If we find ourselves or someone close to us in this situation, we can try to solve the problem by increasing our self-confidence, increasing our empathy, and changing our way of thinking. At the same time, we should also respect and appreciate the strengths and strengths of others, and create a positive atmosphere.

People who like to talk about the shortcomings of others are generally considered to be aggressive, critical, and self-centered. They may try to hide their uneasiness and anxiety by criticizing and blaming others. This behavior can sometimes be motivated by personal emotional factors such as jealousy or arrogance.

However, everyone has different personality traits and life experiences, and we need to respect and understand them and avoid excessive criticism and accusations.

In fact, I am not running away from my shortcomings, because I definitely know what my shortcomings are, and I am not willing to let others say my shortcomings, that is, I am not willing to let others say that I am not good, because everyone has the need for self-esteem and wants to be respected and liked by others. And you don't want others to point fingers at you. This will put you in a very awkward position.

Don't want to embarrass yourself! When no one is around, everyone can face their shortcomings, but when you put it in front of everyone, you feel that everyone is criticizing you, and the negative impact of your shortcomings is put to the maximum, so when people are told about their shortcomings by others, especially in front of many people, avoiding shortcomings has almost become people's subconscious instinctive behavior. I think this is a normal phenomenon, but it doesn't mean that we don't want to change our shortcomings, maybe we want to quietly seek to change.

It's not that we're running away from our shortcomings, but because of our own shortcomings, sometimes we can be aware of it, and when others say that you have shortcomings, you will feel that you have touched your own pain points, and you will instinctively resist.

Each of us is reluctant to let others talk about our shortcomings, and this is indeed what everyone wants others to praise themselves. Some shortcomings are felt. It's particularly annoying.

In fact, this is indeed escaping from his own shortcomings. When others say that your shortcomings are definitely in your relationship, they generally can't understand it and are reluctant to let others say it.

Because your own shortcomings will embarrass you, you must know your own shortcomings, everyone wants to have no shortcomings, and they also want to correct their shortcomings. Shortcomings are formed slowly, not to escape from shortcomings, but because everyone has face and self-esteem, and others will definitely not be able to get off the stage when they talk about their shortcomings. I only want to know my own shortcomings, and of course I don't want to mention them in front of outsiders, because I will be looked down upon by others.

Everyone is reluctant to let others talk about their shortcomings, because they are running away, and in fact, they are helping you when others say about your shortcomings. So the best way is to learn to accept it calmly, so that you can grow faster. In my heart, I should also be grateful for the help of such people.

So to speak. In fact, when each of us hears our own shortcomings through the mouth, our first reaction is to oppose and question, because that is the level that we can't see, or even if we see it, we don't want others to point it out directly. We are not running away, we are trying to save face.

Everyone is reluctant to let others talk about their shortcomings, it is not necessarily to avoid their shortcomings, it should be their own self-esteem, and they don't want others to say it.

It can be considered that this is the case, after all, people want to save face, and they definitely want to be praised and said to be good.

The shortcomings are their own flaws, insufficiencies. It was pointed out that it was certainly not happy.

But if you want to make yourself better, you must dare to face up to your own shortcomings.

It's really running away from the shortcomings. It is difficult for everyone to discover their shortcomings, and they are unwilling to admit if they find out in time.

When someone says something or someone reminds you, it suddenly seems to be a great enemy. I feel very shameless, and I avoid it even more.

You can only improve if others can point out your shortcomings! to progress!

So, don't be afraid of others pointing out your shortcomings! If there is one, it will be changed, and if there is none, it will be encouraged.

Yes, we are all running away from our shortcomings, we should have a correct understanding, change our shortcomings, and turn them into advantages, so that we can better express ourselves.

It can't be said that it's an escape, people want to develop in a good way, and no one likes bad things to be amplified by others.

I don't think it's about escaping from shortcomings, it's about paying attention to your face, as well as psychological factors

There is a certain truth in what is said, that is to say, people are willing to listen to good words, not willing to listen to bad words, especially when they should do something wrong, they are even more reluctant to listen, but I think I think I am not willing to listen to the shortcomings, I think you will definitely never happen again, you will definitely correct it.

Everyone is willing to listen to praise and praise, and is unwilling to let others talk about their shortcomings, even if it is difficult for relatives to accept, it does not mean that we are running away from shortcomings, but that we have a certain amount of vanity at work.

Each of us is reluctant to let others talk about our shortcomings, it may be that we know but don't like to hear them. So try to say the good in front of others.

Yes, this situation is to feel that you are a perfect person, and you also have a love of face, and you feel embarrassed and embarrassed to let others talk about your shortcomings.

In this case, everyone doesn't want to expose their shortcomings to others, and they will feel embarrassed and embarrassed, and classmates show that our evasion of shortcomings will not allow you to change.

Each of us must maintain self-esteem, so in life, we must avoid difficulties and avoid failures B, B. The pursuit of perfection cannot fail cCompanies always insist on their own opinions and cannot accept criticism from others.

Page: 1 We respect ourselves, we respect ourselves, we should also respect others, earn the respect of others, each of us should maintain our own self-esteem, so in life, we must aAvoid difficulties and avoid failures B

The pursuit of perfection cannot fail cAlways stick to your own point of view and can't accept criticism from othersRespect yourself, respect yourself, and you should also respect others and earn the respect of others.

Each of us should maintain self-esteem, so in life we should a, avoid difficulties and mistakes b, and strive for perfection without fail. Always stick to your own point of view and can't accept criticism from others. d. And we should respect ourselves, respect ourselves and others, and win the respect of others; Each of us should maintain self-esteem.

So, in life, aAvoid difficulties, avoid failures bStrive for perfection and never fail c

Always stick to your own point of view and never accept criticism from othersRespect yourself, respect yourself, respect others. d

Each of us should maintain our self-esteem, so in life we should be;  ；Avoid difficulties, avoid failures; It is impossible to be perfect;  ；Always insist on their own opinions and cannot accept criticism from others;  ；Avoid difficulties, avoid failures bThe pursuit of perfection cannot fail cAlways stick to your own ideas and can't accept criticism from others

Respect yourself, but also respect others to earn the respect of others.

Each of us should maintain self-esteem, so in life, we should:; a. Avoid difficulties and failures; b. The pursuit of perfection will not fail; c. Always adhere to one's own point of view and cannot accept criticism from others; d. We should respect ourselves, ourselves and others, and win the respect of others. Each of us should maintain self-esteem.

Therefore, in life, we should a.:Avoid difficulties, avoid failures bStrive for perfection and never fail c

Always stick to your own point of view and never accept criticism from othersRespect yourself, respect yourself, and respect others. d

Yes, only those who face up to their mistakes can better correct their mistakes and improve themselves.

It's not about running away from the shortcomings, many people's shortcomings are unsolvable problems. Tell everyone, his image will be greatly affected.

Each of us should maintain a sense of self-worth, so in life we should maintain a sense of self-worth. a. Avoid difficulties and failures bThe pursuit of perfection does not fail c

Always stick to your own point of view and can't accept criticism from others. d. We should respect ourselves, ourselves and others, and win the respect of others. Each of us should maintain a sense of self-worth.

That's why in life we should a.Avoid difficulties, avoid failures bStrive for perfection and never disappoint C

Always stick to your own point of view and never accept criticism from othersRespect yourself, respect yourself, respect others. d