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It can be seen that you want to cherish this relationship, but your actions are really sad, if you are telling the truth, then your boyfriend still has feelings for you, but what you do makes him unacceptable, a man's possessiveness is very strong, but you contact his good friend, and even make his good friend like you, which is unacceptable to any man, if it were me, I would also do the same as your boyfriend.
But don't be discouraged, your boyfriend still loves you, but he can't accept you for the time being, if you want to save this relationship, don't turn to others for help, really change yourself, and when your boyfriend sees a different you again, his attitude will still change.
Of course, if you want to cherish it, you can change it.
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There is no grass at the end of the world, a woman like a brother is not worthy of love, one word "cheap".
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When two people love each other, the important thing is that they can get along with each other and be very happy together! If two people are together, they actually feel very tired and tired, and they don't have any fun in life, then why should they be together?
Yes, I know, perhaps, once loved deeply, once happy, once ......
However, you must also know that those good things are already good memories, not good futures!
We want the future, not the past! The bits and pieces of the past may indeed be unforgettable, but we should forget the past rationally and resolutely, and then find the future that belongs to our needs, a better future ......
I don't think you're stupid, I think you're stupid, since you keep saying that you love him deeply.
But I think that's the crux of the matter, and the question is, do you want to accept her or don't accept him? I guess you're asking this question not just to tell us all about what happened to you, but to ask us to brainstorm ways to solve the problem, that love is already mirage-like, or it wouldn't be so great
You're single-minded, but he can't. I don't feel like she's worthy of you. It's true.
You change the environment, who knows what you've done. You will have a new life
A woman who can love with all her heart is a good woman
I think the love you want is very practical Originally, people in love are in a trance and are impulsive Think about it carefully Sit down and say what you think in your heart More practical than anything Understand each other See if this love remembers to continue Come on I support your choice! It's man-made.
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What are the ways to redeem it? There are three ways to redeem it.
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If redemption works, then why break up?
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It is recommended not to lose yourself, and pull it down if you can't get it back.
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I don't think there's anything undoing about this situation.
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Don't consume your enthusiasm in someone who doesn't love you, and if you're so cold to you, it's probably because you like someone else.
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Is it true to break up? Is it properly redeemed?
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Hello, happy with your question.
1. Since you let go, let's just do it, the twisted melon is not sweet, even if you can keep his person, can you keep his heart.
2, since you are so ruthless, why do you want to force yourself to be so sad for him, don't you not let yourself be better.
3, his heart has gone, why bother to stay, cry happily, his eyes are open and it is a new tomorrow, there are many people who are better than him on the road of life waiting for you, why bother to be physically and mentally exhausted for him alone.
4. Adjust your mentality and live your day well.
Contemptible humble opinion, I wish you happiness o ( o thank you.
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It depends on how your things have developed If you can recover it, you still have to try to save it, if you really can't get it back, then quickly cut through the mess There is no luxury of happiness Maybe the next one is more suitable for you (everything is two-sided, find more of your own reasons, you won't regret anything you have worked hard, no matter whether it's right or wrong).
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Give up, leave yourself some dignity, there must be a precursor before the separation, but you don't realize it, the love of two cities, unless it is strong enough, there are many general problems.
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Why do you divide it, you deceive people, you have a husband, right?
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People can't always be in a good mood, since there are setbacks and troubles in life, there will be negative emotions. A psychologically mature person is not a person who does not have negative emotions, but someone who is good at regulating and controlling his emotions.
There are many ways to deal with emotions, but keeping an eye on them is the most important and crucial. Most people are confused and miserable because they are unaware, they can't see themselves clearly, they can't understand others, so they are confused and uneasy. But looking at yourself is also the most difficult thing to do, because the ego is bigger than the sky, and it is difficult for you to let go and become humble.
It's also because we don't know how to adopt our minds, and we are looking for ways to calm down.
The source of negative emotions can be negative experiences, or they can be said to be negative inertia, and the events that evoke your negative experiences are just borrowed catalysts.
If the emotions are beyond the scope of one's control, the best way is not to release or suppress them, but to do nothing, learn to focus first, because when the negative energy is too large, you may not even be able to bear it if you release it indiscriminately, and it is easy to affect others. Repression is absolutely impossible, because the source of the problem is repression.
If you are disturbed, you must first fix your mind, take care of your emotions, disagree, don't judge, let it appear, put your feelings in your heart, and keep your eyes and tears in your eyes, and your breathing is still chaotic. The heart is the largest emotional control center, and in order to stabilize emotions, we must start from the heart and learn the method of centering. As for the method, everyone has to find it on their own.
There are many, many Dharmas, and the key is not in the Dharma, but in your intentions and willingness. I believe that I have the ability to open up the sea and the sky.
We have to be the masters of our emotions and refuse to be controlled. Emotions are not the same as events. It is the emotions that move and break, not the events themselves. We just don't understand, we agree that I am the whole emotional state, asking for hardships, pleasing emotions and impulses, but losing ourselves.
We can calm our emotions and stay awake and autonomous through self-control, which is mature mind management. Self-control is not the same as repression, because the former is an action after awakening, and the latter is a reaction of disorientation. The so-called self-control is to learn a set of emotional processing methods suitable for yourself, once you see that you are attacked by emotions, you have to protect yourself immediately, remind yourself that it is just to use weakness to defeat the pure thinking inertia of reason, and find appropriate ways to disperse the concentration of negative emotions, such as exercise, meditation, yoga, watching movies, volunteering, creating, talking to confidants, doing a spa, dressing up, etc., to bring out all the positive energy.
Helping oneself requires determination and perseverance, and it must be a path that is walked and completed alone, as well as a responsibility for growth. Self-treatment is always the most practical and practical method of self-protection, and no one can rely on it.
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Maybe it's because of your education that he doesn't deserve you, or maybe his family or economic pressure is too great, maybe he already has another girl, he has shown to you like this, he has already shown that he doesn't want to be with you, maybe there are inconvenient things The reason is that I can't be with you, then you can only meet with him, let him explain things clearly in person, if he really doesn't want to be with you, you just let go, if you don't let go, even you may lose a lot, maybe you both let go of each other, You may get the happiness you want, for me it doesn't take too many ideas to love someone, as long as two people can live happily together, they won't care so much, love always makes people lose their minds and whirlpool into confusion, let go when it's time to let go, don't hold on to it, that will make him disgusted with you and have incomprehensible thoughts, don't chase someone too hard, that will make you lose a lot of things you want.