How to euphemistically admonish my father that drinking alcohol is harmful to his health?

We all know that drinking alcohol is not very good for the body, and we all know that drinking too much alcohol can cause many physical diseases, such as liver disease.

Gastric disease, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases.

Wait a minute. Nowadays, young people are one and a half pounds of liquor, and beer can be canned casually, which may be some young capital, and they will not feel uncomfortable in their bodies. But if our father loves to drink, how can we tactfully admonish him that drinking alcohol is harmful to his health?

After all, my father is our elder, and we don't want to be so tough when we admonish them to drink. Before I worked, my father, he was a big drinker. No matter how much his relatives and friends persuaded him, he didn't think so.

Maybe the way they persuaded them was wrong! Generally, he is forced to quit drinking in a strong way, but the effect is particularly poor. At first, I quit for a few days, but later, I drank the wine again.

Until one day, I said that my classmate's father died because of drinking, and I listened to her.

It seems to be because he has a stomach problem, because he has been drinking heavily for a long time.

gastritis from the beginning.

It deteriorated into stomach cancer.

At that time, I was crying and telling him, I am afraid that I will also lose my father, Dad, don't drink! My dad said yes to me.

From that time on, my father, who loved to drink, did not drink a drip. Maybe he's really thinking about his family! I don't want to get sick at a young age because of drinking.

I also persuaded you to drink a little home-brewed grain wine, and don't drink baijiu, because baijiu really has no good for our body. Even when I said that, he stopped drinking and turned drinking into tea.

I think that if you persuade my father in this way, he might be more able to listen. If you scold him directly, he may not accept your attitude and will drink even more. Of course, although I am not particularly tactful in this way, it is much better than those of relatives and friends.

So how did you tactfully exhort your father to drink?

Our family told my dad directly, and so did smoking. At first, my dad didn't listen, but once he got sick, and then he slowly quit on his own, and now he doesn't drink or smoke at all.

If you drink a little bit of wine, it's fine, but if you drink too much, you will hurt yourself. First of all, we have to tell him about some of the harm caused by drinking, such as damage to the stomach, or alcohol poisoning caused by long-term drinking, etc.; Or give some examples of accidents caused by alcohol consumption in the surrounding area.

It seems that it is not easy to quit smoking and drinking, and if you want to persuade your father to quit drinking, you can help him list the people around him who are sick from drinking.

My father was also a frequent alcoholic, and the reasons for each person's alcoholism are different from each other, and I don't know if the reasons for my father's alcoholism are the same as your father's alcoholism.

My father's friends are the kind of people who drink a lot, and once they quit drinking, my father's friends will not be able to quit drinking, and they will not have the same hobbies, so my father can say that he can't quit drinking, and he has been drinking for more than 30 years, and it is impossible to quit, so he can only reduce the number of times he drinks one by one.

Take a stand

This is very important and can only be corrected if you show your attitude towards his drinking, which is to sayFoundation。But don't force itDon't be too direct, preferably in himDrinking alcohol and doing bad things to take a standIn this wayHe can also understand why you hate his drinking

Spend more time with each other

My father once butThere are no normal friends to accompany youJust go oftenMix with those who love to drink, led my fatherFeel right to drink alcohol, can also be seen by the father when he is accompaniedThe quiet and peace of everyday life

Buy good wine

Many people may be surprised, but I've been with my dad for so long, and I know my dad isIt is impossible to quit drinking。Therefore, buy good wineBuy alcohol with a low amount of alcohol, which is the oppositeAvoid him buying alcohol that has a high alcohol content, you can alsoReduce his dependence on alcohol

Understand him

At first, I always thought that drinking was a bad thing, and I kept talking back, but when I got itFather's pressureI take drinking for granted, I don't know what your father is like, my father is a lotNeed to deal with people from his company, the company's business also often has to be handled by my dad, often in itGo out at 4 o'clock。Of course, this is my father, I don't know what your father is like, but no matter what, we are the children of our parentsFilial pietyIt has always been a Chinese virtue, and so has understandingThe beginning of family perfection, if because he drinks then onHatredHe sure isNo, you can'tof, in the Father to usOnly when there is a good impression can the exhortation be more effective, not reallyInverse effect

Don't:Don't confiscate the liquor he hid at home! This is not beneficial at all, but will aggravate the condition, if you can't drink at home, you will go out, who will you drink with when you go out?

It must be with his friends, after a long time, he can't go home, then it's all over.

1. Dad, you are not by my side, take good care of yourself, smoke less, drink less.

2. Sometimes I think I'm too much, but I only do this to the people I care about, dear Dad, don't drink every night, good health is our best capital.

3. You are the one who understands me, whenever I am in a low mood, you will always make me laugh, dear father, you will also pay attention to your health in the future, don't drink all the time, I will also be worried.