The experience and perception of family style, and the understanding of family style.

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There are no rules, there are no rules, the country has national laws, and the family has family rules. However, it is rare for families to have family rules that are explicitly written, and most of them are customary family rules.

When it comes to family style, different families have different family styles. The general farmer is based on diligence and thrift, respects the elderly, exchanges courtesies to relatives and friends, lives in harmony with neighbors, and cherishes the old and the poor in the society, which is a good family style.

Family style construction self-cultivation is the first. Iron striking also needs its own hardness, and improving personal cultivation is the continuation of social moral norms and the inheritance of mainstream social values. On the one hand, self-cultivation is to improve personal moral quality and establish socialist core values.

On the other hand, as leading cadres, they should know how to be sufficient, and enhance their political vigilance and political discernment. Wei Zheng said: "You can't be arrogant, you can't indulge in your desires, you can't be happy, and you can't be satisfied."

Leading cadres should deeply imprint in their minds the idea of honesty, self-discipline, self-denial and public service, downplay their personal gains and losses, and realize their personal value in the course of being pragmatic for the people. The construction of family style focuses on inheritance. Traditional Chinese education emphasizes teaching by word and deed, and education is not only the transmission of cultural knowledge, but also the reflection of moral cultivation.

In the construction of family style, the old saying says that the mother is kind and the son is filial, and the brother and friend are the brothers. Excellent personal cultivation can infect the next generation through one's own words and deeds and how to behave in the world. It is inevitable that the family style is positive, and it is inevitable that the righteousness and justice in the children's bones will be affected, and such children will naturally release righteousness when they enter the society, and there will be an instinctive rejection in the face of unhealthy tendencies and even corrupt and speculative behaviors that undermine the party's style and discipline.

The formation of family style depends on the inheritance of family generations and the words and deeds of generations to form. The family style is good, praised by the world, the family members are also proud, and the social status of the family is naturally high.

Through the study of "heirlooms, family rules, and new styles", I will continue to strengthen my ideological and moral cultivation, be realistic and pragmatic to do all the work, establish a good image of Communist Party members with practical actions, and make it clear in ordinary times, rush out at critical moments, stand up in times of crisis, and do all the work assigned to me by the leaders in a practical and meticulous manner.

Life needs a good family style to illuminate and guide, and the connotation of family style is very rich, but these three points are indispensable.

The first is "kindness".

With a kind heart, a grateful heart, and a caring and compassionate heart, we will love the world, the people around us, and all life. A person living in the world is just borrowing a few decades of time from the world, and he must become a person in a limited time to be worthy of his life. Kindness can be said to be the first family style in my family.

Grandparents were kind to everyone around them, and they once warned their children in this way: "Don't do evil things, do many evils, there will be retribution." This kind of family style has also deeply affected me, no matter who I deal with, I am kind to others and do not do things that violate my conscience.

The second is "diligence and thrift".

My father taught me that being upright and thrifty is a good way to live. "Measure what goes in, measure what goes out. "I can't be frustrated by trouble, and I don't want to be happy; There is no money in the official house, and there is no waste of gold at home.

Zhennai's family voice, so I will do it while being filial; Becoming a career comes from the word diligence and thrift. "We can't be opportunistic, unearned, extravagant and wasteful. My father worked in the local agricultural bank, worked diligently all his life, was not greedy or occupied, and was rated as an advanced worker by the unit every year.

In order to raise our six children, my mother got up early and worked hard in the production team.

The third is "learning".

Learning is endless, learning from books, learning from society, learning from others, constantly learning from others' strengths, making up for one's own shortcomings, being a noble person, a pure person, a moral person, a person who is free from low-level interests, and a person who is beneficial to the people. My father used to say to our brothers and sisters, "Knowledge comes from learning."

My father only studied in private school for two years, and later he was able to achieve something in his work because he studied hard, learned from colleagues, learned from books, and learned from practice. Now my father is over 80 years old, and he still insists on reading books and newspapers every day, so he can say "live to be old and learn to be old".

The brighter the family style of the soul, the longer the road of life, and the smoother the road of life. For this reason, I have to continue to cheer for the family style and raise the salary from generation to generation, and I must not let them go out.

I asked my mother, "What is the family style?" "Family style is the invisible force that shapes children.

My mother said: "Family style is the lifestyle and cultural atmosphere of the family. As the name suggests, family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family."

It's that my parents often taught me to do good deeds without asking for anything in return; It is to be honest and not to do bad things; Work diligently, hard-working; We must face the difficulties in front of us with a positive and sunny attitude; Be polite and honest in your life."

I think the family motto is a lesson for the family, and the criticism of the parents when they make mistakes. Family motto, when it should be used, must not be merciful. The so-called "no rules, no circle" is talking about this.

I remember one time, in our math test, my results were not very satisfactory, and I didn't dare to tell my mother, but my mother asked several times, and the results came out? I always prevaricate that I haven't. Mom asked a few more times, I said that the results came out and the test was okay but I forgot to take it back, my mother felt that I was talking and spitting, and I didn't dare to look at her, knowing that I must have something to hide, so I asked me in a stern tone if I didn't do well in the exam and lied, I lowered my head and whispered:

I scored 88 points. My mother criticized me very seriously and said, "I didn't train you for these 88 points, I was because of your dishonesty, you lied and deceived your mother, which is more serious than anything else."

My mother punished me for lying this time, made me stand against the wall for 1 hour, and warned me that there was no next time. After that, my mother pulled me by my side and patiently told me the importance of honesty, the most basic quality of being a man is honesty, if you are not honest, you can't make real friends, you can't do what you want to do, and you can change your mistakes and never make them again. Mom's gentle words warmed my heart, I silently shed tears, nodded heavily and said to my mother

Mom, I'm not going to lie anymore, I'm not being honest. ”

Sometimes when I do something wrong, my parents will not punish me, and depending on the severity of the matter, they will either reason with me or educate me more severely. Another point is that my mother asked me to do what I said, and one of the words she used to say was "loud", which was to tell me that I should be able to do what I said. Mom said that you should dare to take responsibility for your words and deeds.

No matter what you do, think about the consequences before you do it. Even if you make mistakes, you have to dare to take them yourself.

The family motto, which is explained in the dictionary, "refers to the teachings of the children and grandchildren of the counselor to live in the world and run the family and the business". It can be seen that family style plays a very important role in people's growth. Family style, family motto, has the same aspects.

Every family has its own different manifestation. A good family style and family discipline require the joint efforts of everyone in the family, and the bad aspects should be corrected in time, and the good aspects should be continued.

"Family style", also known as door style, refers to the fashion and life style passed down from generation to generation in a family or family, that is, the atmosphere in a family. Family style is a value code for generations of family members.

Family style is a collective identity built on the roots of Chinese culture, and it is the spiritual footprint of each individual's growth.

Family style is a family cultural style that has been passed down from generation to generation and reflects the spiritual outlook, moral character, aesthetic style and overall temperament of family members. Family style plays an important role in the inheritance of the family and the development of the nation.

"Family style" generally refers to a kind of fashion and style that is advocated by parents or grandparents and can be taught by deeds and words and deeds to restrain and regulate family members. Family style is a kind of cultural and moral atmosphere cultivated by a family for a long time, which has a strong infectious power and is the concentrated embodiment of family ethics and family virtues. Family style is a concentrated reflection of the moral level of family members.

As a spiritual force, family style can not only restrain its members ideologically and morally, but also promote the continuous development of family members in a civilized, harmonious, healthy and upward atmosphere.

Family style is like a person has a temperament and a country has a character. In the long-term continuation process, a family will form its own unique customs and style. Such an invisible spiritual outlook, untouchable fashion habits, in a hidden form, exist in the daily life of a specific family, and the raising of hands and feet of family members all reflect such a habit, which is the family style.

Family style can be understood as the culture of the family, and it can be seen as a family tradition and a family culture.

In the extreme, there is no family style, which is essentially a family style.

Family style is different from the moral code and method of life that have been passed down from generation to generation in a family, it is a character trait of a family. Although once it is formed, it will become a resource for education, and it has the significance of influencing and soaking the children of the family, but the family style is a kind of spiritual temperament that can be obtained only through hearing and seeing, which does not need to be deliberately taught or taught, and has the meaning of "moisturizing things silently". The "gradual staining of family style" in volume 91 of the Book of Wei vividly interprets this process.

In layman's terms, family rules can be regarded as textbooks for educating family members, and family customs are the result of long-term education.

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Every good family must have a good family style....In every beautiful and happy family, it will be warm because of the company of parents, and it will also be accompanied by the harmonious atmosphere of family style.

A good family style can make a child grow up well, and I live in such a good family style. At home, my parents will inevitably quarrel because of some bumps, but they never blame or scold each other, and what shows me more is their rational side. Usually at home, my mother will often nag how to respect teachers and classmates at school, and will talk about some truths about taking a step back and broadening the sky, not so much that she is the mother who gave birth to me and raised me, but that she is the first mentor in my life.

Every time there is the most topic at the dinner table, I always feel that this time of day is a summary of the day, of course, the etiquette at the dinner table must be followed, my mother often warns me of these points: don't gobble up when eating, the mouth can't make a sound of chirping, it is strictly forbidden to speak loudly while eating, and you can't ...... with your legs crossed. Although these rules are a kind of constraint to me, it is precisely because of these constraints that I can grow better.

I often hear people next to me praise him like this: "This child is really cultivated and looks very well-behaved." "I think the reason why this child is so praised is because he has been in a good family environment for a long time, and a person's cultivation cannot be fashioned.

Therefore, we must build a harmonious family atmosphere, parents must learn to set a good example at home, and similarly, we must maintain a close relationship with our children, and we must learn to suppress our bad emotions in front of our children.