Is it good for girls to chase after each other? Is it good to chase a girl backwards?

<> has been in a very ignorant state before work, and has never liked people, although I have seen a lot of **, but I don't understand why lovelorn people cry. I wasn't very happy, but I wasn't sad either. The saddest time was when I failed the graduate school entrance examination, but at that time, I only blamed myself for not working hard, and I never felt so dull and dull as I am now.

Crying while riding a bicycle alone, I feel that I am so hypocritical, but I am really sad. I don't know when I'll be able to come out. Humble yourself to the dust.

A few days ago, he told me that it was impossible for me to be with him, and he met me when he was in the eighth life of mold, and begged me to get out of here, but I actually said that I would not leave, and I had to pester him. He said that I can walk decently now, otherwise he plans to fall in love in a few days, and I will be even more ugly if I bring a girl to the unit. I went to him today, and the aunt who went to work with him said that he went out with the woman, and I hated myself so much, and hated myself for being shameless and chasing after him.

I was still helping him go to work this morning, and then I left beforehand, and I went to see him in the afternoon, and my aunt said that he went out to play with the woman. 。My heart hurts, and I have to pretend that nothing happened, crying at the same time, crying breathlessly...

I'm so useless... The first time I like someone, I chase it backwards, and I become like this, hating myself for being useless. . . I hate why I don't look pretty, I hate why my family doesn't have money, I hate why I can't make a lot of money, I always think that if I am pretty, my family is rich, and I am very smart, will he like me.

I even want to confess again, and my confession has been rejected dozens of times, and I don't give up, I feel cheap. . . I didn't dare to think about anything, so I went to bed quickly, for fear that I couldn't help but ask him, did he have a girlfriend... I'm afraid his answer will hurt even more...

I don't know why I like him, his family conditions are good, but someone introduced the blind date to him with better conditions than him, but he is not interested, they are all working people, and they have always spent their own money; He's not ugly, but he's definitely not handsome; He treats me badly, he is always the only one looking for me, even if he is sad sometimes, he will not come out when he looks for him; If someone likes me and asks me to eat, I push it again and again, even though I know that he doesn't like me, but I just don't want to eat with anyone other than him; Every time I go out to play, I basically send him home in the end... Why do I like him... Because he was sad many times, he deleted my WeChat three times...

I put my phone there, he peeked at my Zhihu, and found that the problem I was concerned about was what it was like to like someone who didn't like me, and knew that I was silently listening to the songs he shared over and over again... It's obviously a very disrespectful thing, but he is right, My dad kept telling me that he was like this in his life, he didn't like my mother, only because of my sister, he endured it for so many years, my mother has a bad temper, I understand; A cousin of mine who has a good relationship told me that he was miserable, that he didn't like my sister-in-law at all, and that he only endured it for the sake of my nephew's face; My sister-in-law is diligent, not ugly, and has a good personality, why does my brother dislike him so much... Why do people like it and never want to like it anymore...

<> used to when I was sad, he would send out some chicken soup just right... The man in the town likes to play cards, he doesn't like to like photography... He's fine, he just doesn't like me, it turns out that there are some things that really can't be done...

I don't even know why I like him, obviously he hates me... I know what jealousy tastes like because of him ... I'm jealous of the girl who has a good relationship with him.,I hate myself like this.。。

He said that if I could play the piano, he might like me, but I would only take the exam, and I would not succeed in it. I smiled and didn't speak, you didn't know that I was so big that I hadn't even touched the piano; He said he wouldn't look for me like this, I wasn't pure, I didn't trust others; I can only laugh, if I can, who wouldn't want to be spoiled to be arrogant and simply ignorant. I can only make sure that I will never pay back others, and how dare I trust others so simply, because I have been deceived, because I can't take risks. Wipe away your tears, pretend nothing is wrong, and work hard...

Get a good night's sleep, wake up at six o'clock tomorrow morning, study, exercise... At the age when my peers got married and had children, I actually started my first love, and I still chased it backwards, and I still chased it backwards, and I admired myself a lot. When your own liking is a burden to others, the best thing to do is to let it go.

I didn't feel it when I read these words before.,Now I finally understand.。。。 I wish I never understood ... I try to please people, but I don't always like them...

This life is short and fragile, and there is no eternity, but I still hope to be liked by someone I like. Girls still don't chase boys, it's too undignified and won't be cherished.

I think that the girl who is chasing after him should be discussed on a case-by-case basis, if you say that you also like him very much, you can try to date slowly, if you don't feel for him at all, you may persuade her to give up as soon as possible, because it is not good for anyone to drag it on.

If the girl you like is chasing you, I think this boy is extremely happyI think this is a matter of good luck, because usually very few people can encounter this situation, if you say that you have met it, you must cherish it, as the saying goes, women chase men compartment yarn, this situation is usually only in the case of boys who also like girls. For most boys, if they also like this girl, maybe the woman chasing the man is just a compartment veil.

If you say that you don't like the girl who chases after you, then this is a very embarrassing topic. For most of the boys who are popular with girls, they are more concerned about girls. If a girl is chasing after him, he may agree, but it is actually very bad to do so.

If you don't like girls, but try to have a relationship with them, it's a harm to both parties, so we need to avoid such behavior as much as possible. Of course, for most boys, if the girl really doesn't like it, then there is a high probability that she will not agree, so the woman chasing the man is not necessarily just a layer of veil, if the boy doesn't like the girl, then the woman chasing the man is also a mountain.

In addition, we also have to correct our thinking, there are many girls who think that girls can't chase boysThis is actually a very wrong idea, if you only wait for boys to chase girls, then boys are also trying to find a little better than their own conditions, then most of the boys who chase themselves are a little worse than their own conditions, the boys they like, that must be a little better than their own conditions, at this time we can only accept those boys whose conditions are not as good as their own, so that they will be lost, those boys whose conditions are better we prefer.

And there are a lot of male friends who should also correct their thoughtsIt's not that the girl chases herself, you have to agree, in fact, in most cases, we have to seriously reflect, to think about whether we like this girl, if you like this girl, then the two are of course very good together, if you don't like this girl with the attitude of trying it out, then even if you are not responsible for the girl, you are not responsible for yourself.

Therefore, for the girl who chases herself, I think it should be treated according to the situation, if you also like this girl, then it is okay to be together, if you don't like it, you have to refuse decisively, to avoid wasting the girl's time and feelings.

For the girl who chases after me, I think this girl is particularly brave, and if I have a crush on her, I will agree.

When a girl chooses to give her feelings to me, I feel a sense of pride, and if I have the ability to give her love and confidence, I will be with him.

If there is a girl who chases me, I feel very happy and honored, even if I don't like this girl, I will still thank him. If I'm interested in him, it's going to be a very good marriage.

If it were me, I would cherish her very much, as long as I like him, I would rather spend a lifetime with him, after all, he only likes himself, he can pursue himself, because he appreciates himself very much, so as long as I have love for him, I will be sincere, wholeheartedly with her.

For girls who chase after themselves, some people will cherish it, and some people will feel that they have a sense of superiority. I think a girl who can chase backwards. She can work hard for her own happiness. It should be respected.

If a girl chases you and says that you really like you. Then we should respect this girl, whether you like each other or not. You should all be grateful for his love for you. After all, not everyone likes you.

My words, I will think that this kind of girl is very courageous, although it is said that women chase men, but people who can take the initiative to seize the opportunity are still worthy of appreciation, I will have a certain impression of her, but I will not necessarily agree to be with her.

As the old saying goes, women chase men, if there is a girl who pursues me, if I like him, I will gladly accept it, I will not think that this girl has a problem, the girl who has the courage to pursue her own happiness, is actually a particularly brave and optimistic girl.

Or to put it another way, how would they feel about girls who actively pursue them?

Some people may think that such girls are very brave, and they have the courage to pursue their love, which is a great behavior; Some people will feel that such a woman is a bit cheap.

I think it's quite brave. I have my own opinions. Dare to pursue what you like in love. This kind of character that dares to love and hate is also more attractive. This kind of person will be relatively appreciative. Although I like it or not, we hope to be friends.

If there is really such a girl who will like me, I must treat her as a pearl and love her well, I may not be so good, but I must give her a good love.

The girl who chases herself must first like herself very much, and the girl in love may be looked down upon by others when she takes the initiative, but I think she is very brave and dares to express her emotions, dare to love and act, and has her own ideas.

I think this girl is very nice, very kind, and very sincere, and I feel that this girl is also very lively, and I also like such people.

This girl is really bold, and it can be seen that this girl is really very confident, so she will chase back.

I will look at it with a normal attitude, and it also shows that this girl is very brave in her relationship, so she will pursue it bravely.

There is nothing bad about it, it means that this girl is more generous. Such a girl has a more cheerful personality, and it is happier to be with such a girl.

There is nothing bad about chasing girls backwards, as long as the two people are suitable, have a common language and hobbies, and have the same three views, and then they can get along for a period of time and understand each other deeply before making decisions.

It's nothing, there are men chasing women between men and women, there should be women chasing men, there are two sides to everything, as long as you like it!

I think it's okay, look at the feeling, if you like it, you don't have any regrets for yourself, but you have to master it well, and I don't think it's necessary to chase too much, because even if you succeed in chasing too much, you're not sure about the authenticity of this feeling, so it's better to go with the flow.

Of course, it's good to take the initiative to your own woman, as long as you think you like him, then you should be brave enough to confess to him, people's appearance is not important, as long as you have the brains to make money, such men and women will like it, boldly pursue it, I wish a lover to eventually become a family.

Of course you can, in the face of love, everyone is equal I just chase the boy backwards I chased it for 3 years to catch up As long as you really pay it will be rewarded Remember that there is nothing wrong with loving someone Be brave to love me support you!

I think the girl who chases the boy is actually very brave and intends to pursue her own love, and when she meets the boy she likes, she pursues it, I think this is actually this girl who sees the shining point in you to pursue you like this.

If you also like this girl, then you should accept him, if you don't like this girl, please be sure to resolutely reject him, don't give her any hope, and in the end it will become disappointing.

It is said that women chase men in the veil, I think it is actually normal for girls to chase boys, this is the same as boys pursuing girls, they are all brave to pursue their own love.

It's just that if you chase boys and girls, don't put yourself too low, because if you start from a very low starting point, even if you chase this person in the end, but at that time you have become very humble, and it is very difficult for you to be yourself again at this time, so I think whether it is a boy or a girl, when pursuing true love, you must show your most true self, if the other party accepts this most real you, there will be no friction in the future.

Some people say that girls take the initiative to chase boys, is it particularly unreserved, but I think this is too traditional, but when we pursue, we don't make the other party feel very annoying, or particularly stressed, we can use some more relaxed ways to ask each other's minds.

I think the pursuit of a person's attitude is the most important, must be the most authentic attitude, do not let the other party feel pressure, let alone let the other party feel that you are just playing, and we must be calm when pursuing, do not let the other party feel that you are lost, if this is the case, the second level to the other party may not pay special attention to you, so even if you are pursuing others, you must have a bottom line, don't blindly beg to get the other party's response.