A 36 year old leftover woman s complaint Which four men whose requirements can t be met are really

A 36-year-old leftover woman's complaint: These four requirements can't be "met" The man is really useless, that's because women need more care and not enough money to live.

First, it is materially unsatisfying; second, mentally unsatisfied; Thirdly, the family conditions are not met; Fourth, friends are not satisfied; The fifth family was not satisfied.

Must have a house and a car.

The income must be higher than mine.

Men older than themselves are not accepted.

The man has to stand his temper. If you can't even meet these 4 points, then the older leftover girl won't look down on you.

In our country, there has always been a saying about "three major things" in marriage, which can be regarded as an unwritten custom. But with the different generations of withered bushes, these three things have also changed. From the previous watches, bicycles, sewing machines, to later color TVs, refrigerators, washing machines, and then to today's houses, cars and tickets, in the past, the "three major pieces" were more of a color head, and it was not a big deal if they really couldn't take it out, but now it is different, and many couples will break up their relationship because they don't have the "three major pieces", and eventually part ways.

A 38-year-old leftover woman told the truth: Men can't give us these, I'd rather never marry.

1. House. The house is home, a place to stay, and after a hard day's work, you can return to this place to get rid of your tiredness. You don't have to worry about the house being re-rented, you don't have to worry about the rent going up, and you don't have to worry about being kicked out by the landlord because you can't pay the rent.

2. Tickets. Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, no cherry tea, everything costs money. While the economy is developing rapidly, the cost of living is getting higher and higher, and it is really difficult to move an inch without money.

And I like to travel, travel all over the country, and see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland; I like to travel abroad and experience different customs and cultures, and I don't want to waste this life. And after having a child, the child's growth and education is a large investment, and if the economy is not enough, your child will fall behind others in everything. Therefore, a marriage without money will only be a bunch of troubles, and it is better not to get married.

3. A sense of security.

I am a very insecure person, which may have something to do with my family of origin. So, if I get married, men must give me enough security, now many men go out early and return late every day, often stay at home for less than a few minutes, and don't even know what he is doing outside, how different is this kind of marriage from living alone? It's just that there is one more marriage certificate and one more person to serve.

Little Bear Conclusion: Now marriage is no longer simply dependent on love can be maintained, as the so-called, poor couples mourn, love is the basis of marriage, and economic support is also a guarantee for the stability and longevity of marriage, no one wants to live after their marriage is not as good as single, the spirit is not satisfied at the same time, the economy is not satisfied, such a marriage is better than living alone.