Do you want to let go of someone who loves me, but is not what I love?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-07
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Love or not, do you want to be with that person? Will we be happy together?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you are selfish, don't let go, people live in the world for themselves, and they must always leave a way out for themselves, even so. No one is in a position to accuse you either. Except for the one who loves you.

    If you care about other people's eyes, if you also have reluctance and sadness in your heart, then let it go, you and he both deserve the best.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is a matter of both parties, if you are still young, it is better to find someone who loves you and you and him, this kind of life is still interesting. If you are not young, then find someone who loves you, and you will get a lot of love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't, because the person you love doesn't necessarily love you, so to love someone who doesn't love you, it's better to accept a person who is willing to give everything for you, to get benefits. Ideals are often far away from reality, whether it is love or marriage, both parties need to cultivate and care, even if they don't maintain it well, how can it last for a long time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This question is like if you are extremely hungry, but you only have one thing in front of you that you least like to eat, will you choose to starve to death or eat it? Well, in the end you chose to eat it, and you survived, but he saved you with his life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let it go, there is a price to pay for accepting such feelings.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't let both of you suffer ...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, otherwise neither of you will be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Falling in love with someone who shouldn't be loved, should you let go, this question, for individuals, the choices are different, for example, some people are born for love, and only love in their lives feels happy, then you say it, you can die for him, and see how he treats you. For example, if you fall in love with a married man, you are a junior, and you think that he is the only person who must be married, you can also say it, maybe he was not satisfied with his marriage at that time, and you also fulfilled yourself, but everything has a price, since you should not love, and you love, or even obtain, then you have to bear the damage that may come to your heart, and even your life.

    As an outsider, I want to know what is someone who should not be loved, everyone is equal, it is your freedom to love her, one thing must have a beginning and an end, since you really love her, you might as well tell her your true thoughts, because you don't know if there are accidents, whether there are surprises, be optimistic, even though you already know the bad ending you will encounter, you also have to tell yourself, put an end to this matter for yourself, and don't leave regrets. But in the end, you make a decision that you hope you won't regret.

    If you are still young, it doesn't matter if you have a dead face, go chase and fight, refuse is nothing, if you are rejected, smile and wave your hand, but unfortunately it will not be you who will spend the rest of my life with me, if you succeed, everyone will be happy.

    If you really like someone you shouldn't like, the thing to do is to recognize your heart, and then make a decision, there is nothing that cannot be communicated face-to-face, and feelings are the same, if you really feel very entangled, don't know what to do, then go and show your heart. To put it bluntly, the other person's attitude will make you more aware of whether your actions are right or wrong.

    Don't be sad if you fail, we are all like this, once we encounter disappointment, we will be overly pessimistic, and we will be sad at the thought of liking someone we shouldn't like, but it doesn't matter, adjust your mentality, maybe something fresher will happen tomorrow. Love is a compulsory course for growth, we are destined to meet such a person who can't love in this life, but you will definitely grow up in this love, because you have experienced true love, that is, you know that there is no result, but you are still willing to persevere with determination and courage.

    That's all for that, I hope it will be helpful to your questions!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First, even if you are both single and you love him very much, and he clearly tells you that he doesn't love you, you must know how to let go and stop losses in time. Second, when you are with someone you shouldn't love, you may have to take a lot of risks and mental stress. You also know that your relationship will not have a bright future and a bright future, so you are depressed and worried all day long, and there is no happiness at all.

    Third, when you find that you are in love with someone you shouldn't love, even if you have invested a lot of time and money in him in the early stage, you have to convince yourself to let go as soon as possible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes. Love that goes both ways will not have results, and the longer you delay, the more inferior you will be, and it is right to let go immediately.

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