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Yes... It's always to remind myself that they are no different from me, that everyone is equal.
Self-esteem is given by oneself, only oneself looks down on oneself, and generally high-quality people will never despise others at will.
I used to be the same as you, just went from the township to study in the big city, and there was always an inferiority complex, but then I gradually found out from my friends that really high-quality people will never look down on people, even if you do something that doesn't feel too generous and not too chic, no one will say about you, you may think about how others should look at me, how to laugh at me... But the truth is that no one will pay that much attention to you, and no one will despise you for something that is not too excessive.
So I sincerely hope that you can overcome your low self-esteem, and self-confident people are the most attractive.
A simple way to increase your self-confidence is to pronounce the words: "Brother... Replace the "I" in the language with "brother" and "your brother". It's effective.
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You have a tendency to have low self-esteem. There is a saying that tells you, look at yourself in the mirror every day and say: I am healthy, normal, great, and powerful! What are you afraid of! Fuck it.
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The mentality of inferiority comes from the failure of life, it is not enough to just think about it (maybe I said it too directly), what we need to do now is how to make ourselves outstanding in one or some aspects, so it is difficult to think about inferiority.
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Friend, this is the same as being born.
Bai has nothing to do with it, I am also du was born in the countryside and everything.
Don't use money to measure it. Just because you are not born is inferior to others. Self-esteem is not given by others, but earned by oneself.
If you want to live better than others, you have to fight for it yourself. If you're there every day complaining, you're never going to be superior. Calm down, think about what you need, aim for the best, and then work hard.
You have a smart mind and a healthy body, these are your greatest treasures, so there is no need to feel inferior, be confident, and go through each day well. Don't waste any more time. I don't know until it's over!
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Hi, money can't be a substitute for everything, since you know self-du
own situation, then zhi must work hard, struggle, self-reliance, specialized.
Rely on your own true ability to achieve your ideals, life is very fair for everyone, you see the bustling stores on the street, you see those successful people are very beautiful on the surface, but you know how much sweat and effort they have put in behind it, maybe it is a hardship that ordinary people can't imagine. You don't have to envy others, you don't have to feel inferior, you can only have negative emotions, be optimistic, be strong in the face of life and career, and hope that your friends can cheer up, believe that you can change yourself, and you can do better!
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Learn to encourage yourself! Self-confidence is the bridge to success, and optimism is the cornerstone. Who says rural people are bad? I'll send him to....
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Because you have an inferiority complex, you always care a lot about other people's opinions, don't be inferior, come from the countryside, what's wrong, many people are from the countryside, and they are vain.
A person who loses his self-confidence loses the opportunity to succeed in courting.
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What you said is true, a person's personality is inseparable from the environment in which he lives, and it is very simple to change this situation, go out and run more, communicate with people more, of course, I am not talking about virtual networks... You will get used to it when you see more, and reading more books may help you in your heart.
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Hehe,Actually, it's all a personal mentality... Whether or not you have money is not an element that determines the state of mind. Most of the people in China are ordinary people, and those who feel superior to others are not qualified. You have a good mentality, everyone is an ordinary person.
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Oh, your friend's inferiority complex comes from your lack of self-confidence! Think about what is the most honorable thing you have ever done before, and think more about it when you have low self-esteem, so that you will feel like you are still great ! Don't always think about your flaws.
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In a word, you have very few friends and rarely communicate with others.
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Why do you think of yourself so lowly, just think of yourself as arrogant.
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Low self-esteem is a competitive mentality. The result of constant competition and comparison. It's the same with self-confidence.
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The first choice is to come out of your own heart and make better results, and increase your confidence.
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If you don't spend pocket money, you can become rich.
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It really needs to change the mindset.
But I can only say that since it is a chat, of course there will be one person who takes the initiative, which is very normal, if it is not you, it is the other party, in fact, there is no need to think so complicated. Try changing your mindset.
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Be confident, smile, and every time you take the initiative to say hello, it is implied that the person who takes the initiative to say hello is superior.
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Live for yourself, you take the initiative to greet your friends every time you see them, and you will get used to it after a long time.
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Let yourself always take the initiative, and your mentality will change slowly.
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If you are cheap, you are invincible, and the thicker your face, the more successful you will be. Chinese.
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Rich and status, fools can afford it, it's as simple as that.
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Let's go find some friends with similar status and status, and then slowly change your mentality!
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To be superior to others is to put in more effort than others, and inferior self-esteem is not allowed.
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Adjust your mentality, what you said is artificially divided, in fact, whether people are happy or not lies in their own hearts, and coarse tea and light rice may not be a blessing. Finesse and food are not necessarily a disaster.
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Adjust your mentality, cherish what you have now, strive to make yourself better, and don't care too much about your status.
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In the final analysis, it is actually a matter of mentality, and a good attitude is the high profile of life!
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In a normal mind, everyone is equal, but the difference is their attitude towards life.
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With the mentality of ordinary people, you will be happy.
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Mentality, Ma Yun is not worried, impossible.
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Money is not everything, but no money is everything.
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The best way is to change the inner cognition (to others, to themselves, to events), the cognition changes to change the mentality, and the mentality changes to have the corresponding action change. This is called "cognitive-behavioral".
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It depends on the specific form, and you can't tell what form you are. If it's a character that is too sensitive, has low self-esteem and is insecure. Then this is called an overly sensitive and introverted personality.
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To put it simply, you just don't have self-confidence.
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Create a good image, don't talk to someone about something, people ignore you, that's a bad beating.
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You have an inferiority complex! It is more practical to see a psychiatrist.
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Be calm and don't think about other issues, so this is not the case.
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Think of it this way: I look for you because I look down on you, and I won't look for him if I look down on you.
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It's the New Year, be happy, don't think about those unhappy!
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If you want to be a boss, you are inferior first. It is also called politeness. Chinese virtues.
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It's not inferior, it's born with arrogance, but it's definitely not arrogant, if you don't want to speak, it's best to smile heartily, and express friendliness is not just by greeting.
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Then don't take the initiative to talk to people!! I didn't feel that way, but I didn't take the initiative to talk to anyone!
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Do what you have to do and don't think too much!
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In fact, if you really love him, then you have to make him happy and help him find the happiness that truly belongs to him. There is a love called letting go, for various reasons, people who truly love each other may not necessarily be together; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; If you don't love her anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love her, you should want her to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop her, if you prevent her from being truly happy, it means that you don't love her anymore, and if you don't love her, what right do you have to accuse her of changing her mind? Love is not possession! Beg.