What the hell is wrong with me So contradictory

It's not a contradiction, it's a dare not face it

In fact, the thinking in junior high school and now is different, did you tell him before that you liked him?

Now that you hear that he has a partner and don't dare to face him, or do you keep his image in junior high school, do you think it's better to keep him in your memory forever? Or should you be bold enough to ask him out and come up with a definite answer? Let me help you analyze the difference between the two situations:

Continue to hide in your heart, you will always live in the world of memory, you will run away when you meet him, or you will overcome yourself, ask him out to talk, say what you want to say, you will become very relaxed, even if you can't be together, you will definitely be very good friends, and then start your life again, be yourself!!

It seems that you are really contradictory, there are only two ways to solve your situation, one is that you try to chase him, but according to your current situation, it seems relatively slim; The second is to fall in love with another person, but this is also something that can be met but not sought. Figure it out for yourself.

You still care about him, but at the same time your subconscious mind is suggesting that you can't do it.

Dizzy, the love of children is so pure.

If you're 5 years older, I guarantee you'll be seduce you the day he sees you running away, haha!

Hehe: Just like me.

You're still liking him.

It's just that you don't want to admit it.

You're still a little tempted to forget about him.

Keep running, there's no other way! In fact, isn't this a kind of beauty? Just believe that tomorrow will be better, whatever he does.

Because there will be misunderstandings between people, and misunderstandings will produce contradictions. If you look closely at life, you will find that many conflicts are caused by misunderstandings, and the terrible thing about misunderstandings is that even the closest people, including parents and partners, will be estranged and even unable to get along with each other.

So, how does the contradiction arise? Because we "admit delusion as true", regard delusion as sincerity, and use delusion to understand and recognize everything in the world, we will regard the phenomenon of illusory impermanence as a permanent real existence, and we will also be confused and wishful thinking to regard our own interpretation and conjecture as the whole of the facts, and we will persist in turning illusion into truth and admitting falsehood into truth.

At the same time, two people who love each other are most likely to have contradictions, the so-called love is easy to get along with each other, after all, life is not an idol drama, and it is impossible to appear in the TV series.

After all, two people have grown up in different cultures, educations and other environments, so they will have different attitudes towards things, and there are essential differences between men and women in their thoughts, which will lead to conflicts.

After getting along for a while, two people will understand whether it is suitable or not, if it is not suitable, although they love each other, but the bumps and bumps in life will also affect the love itself. In the end, after a long time, the original strong love has been wiped out to the bone, the contradiction has never been resolved, and it is possible to leave in the end.

If two people only have a slight contradiction, and can continue to spend sweetly in the adjustment, then the two should be more generous for the hard-won love, more tolerant and understanding, and understanding each other's difficulties, then the love can be longer. But it is impossible for delusional lovers not to have contradictions between them, and in philosophical terms, contradictions are the forces that move things forward, and they must exist.

In philosophical terms, life is full of contradictions, there are contradictions from time to time, everyone's ideas are different, and when mutual incomprehension and compromise cannot be made, contradictions will naturally arise.

It is impossible for two people not to have any contradictions. It's not terrible to have contradictions, but what I'm most afraid of is not knowing how to solve problems and not knowing how to communicate, so it's easy for two people to fall apart.

Man himself is a contradiction, and contradictions are everywhere. If we don't have contradictions, then our society won't progress.

Because you lack communication and tolerance, the main reason for conflicts is that you have different views and concepts, resulting in ambiguity, so having good communication and tolerance between two people will reduce the conflicts between each other.

There must still be contradictions, and if there are always them, it may be because the two have incompatible personalities, habits, and cannot reach a consensus in all aspects of life, so it is better to break off such a relationship.

There are always contradictions that may be due to the disagreement of the three views, you have to understand each other, think about each other from each other's point of view, tolerate each other, and solve contradictions.

Everyone is an individual, everyone has different ideas, different personalities, you have differences, but you don't accept both sides' opinions.

Everyone is a different existence in the world, and when people get along with each other and have different personalities, there will definitely be contradictions, which is inevitable.

Everyone is unique in this world, and different living environments, different personalities, and different education levels will lead to conflicts.

Maybe it's because your three views are not the same, your thoughts are different, you always feel that you are right, and you don't accept each other's views and opinions.