I think my mom is a capable student, is she capable of teaching? 10

Some parents are really lazy, or have all kinds of problems, and are not even as sensible as their children, especially when they are not as sensible as their own children, they will encounter your current state. But she is your mother after all, and there are some things that need to be accommodated, so as to avoid conflicts with her, so as to ensure the harmony of the family, and the prosperity of the family!

It's a pity that in real life, you don't need a qualification certificate, and you can be someone else's mother if you have fertility.

It's not just your mother, 85% of parents in the world don't know how to educate their children.

We, the younger generation, have suffered, and we call on everyone to get more education, so that future children can suffer less. Care.

When we are adults, we can move out, away from them, we will recover, and we ourselves have the ability to educate ourselves. Look ahead. The good and bad of the past are gone.

Everyone's ability and educational concept are different, since you say so, maybe her education method is problematic, or it is not suitable for you! However, you can communicate with her, exchange each other's opinions, and increase mutual understanding. She also learns how to educate and guide children, and you also learn how to be better children, so as to better solve this problem.

I feel that many parents have a lot of children, and in the end, they are not able to raise them, which is very harmful! But sometimes you have to remember that your parents gave birth to you, and you have to thank your parents for being safe and healthy.

I don't know much about your situation, but we all have to have a grateful person, if you want something, you can buy it with your own money, and your parents will raise you with it!

What era do you say it looks like? Today's mothers are healthy and can teach your former mothers. He has so much to do. How can there be so much time to teach you. Children now. It's so blissful.

How can there be so many complaints. She's your mother. That's how you talk.

1 All you are now in adolescence, so sometimes you feel that your parents are not affectionate to you, or they don't care enough about all aspects, so this situation will occur, but every mother loves her children.

Well, there is really no way about this, I used to want to change my parents like you, but then I read a lot of great gods say, in fact, we can never change them, because they have lived with that kind of thinking for decades, just like your children want to change you in the future, do you think you will change? What's more, in the eyes of parents, a child is always a child, and a person's change can only be changed by herself, and it is difficult for outsiders to change a person.

So what you have to do is to do what you have to do, such as study well, read more books, improve your ability, don't care about your mother, she is already that kind of person, what you have to do is to improve your ability to study well, you can also care about them when you have time, all you can do is this, so that your own mentality will be very good, as for them, they raised you, in a way, you should thank them.

Although your mother has no empathy ability and low emotional intelligence, you have no choice, you can only rely on her now, so try to have a good relationship.

If you're friends with your mom like that, that's a good thing.

It doesn't matter, every child has to go through this low period, for example, me, my mother didn't talk about me less, everyone has heard an old saying: beating is kissing, scolding is love, after all, it is the person who gave birth to you and raised you, she always talks about you, indicating that she wants you to be better, she doesn't praise you, it means that your mother doesn't want you to be proud and take a detour. But I don't understand the fact that you are not beautiful, Jie Yi of the soul dressing room said:

What girl is not a little princess in the eyes of her parents? Don't let the princess babysit you! "You can ask your mom for advice, if your mom doesn't agree.

You start crying, crying heartbreakingly, and then crying while saying what you haven't told your mom all along, or deliberately writing a note to your mom.

First of all you have to know that it's not your problem, you're fine. It's your mom's problem, it's that she's not mature enough to impose her own wishes and demands on you, and you don't have to hate yourself for her reasons. Live well and be yourself.

Although you have no choice with such a mother, you must know that you can choose a different life from her, and you can do well.

My mom too, since I was a kid, I don't think I've ever made my mom proud, or sure, because my sister was prettier than me, more capable than me, and would speak. So I wonder if there is a comparison, my mother often says, you are fat and ugly, you are ugly, and you can't speak, my academic performance is good, and my mother has never praised me, and said that I can't find a job, I can't find someone to marry me, etc., etc., etc. It makes me even more afraid to speak in the presence of my mother.

Now I'm married, my son is smart, and my mom says like my husband. The son is handsome, saying that it is like my husband, the interpersonal relationship at home, she also said, your husband does it, you let the family watch it. So far, I really don't know what kind of daughter I am in my mother's heart, and does she regret having me?

Just like today I asked my mother if I needed anything and I bought it back, and my mother said clothes, but you can't wear what you bought. I'm really sad. Sometimes I think about it during the day and dream at night to tell my mother what I really think in my heart.

But when it comes to face-to-face, I don't know what to say, and it seems that there is no chance, no chance to be affirmed.

Generally speaking, women have this kind of performance, one may be the physical and psychological changes caused by the arrival of menopause, and the other may be some psychological distortion caused by the long-term pressure of life and work, such as: the subconscious sadness caused by the sense of loss of life is transformed into a sense of urgency for the education of the next generation, hoping that their children will become excellent; Long-term lack of psychological communication leads to the use of obsessive communication methods such as compulsion and nagging; The gap between the high requirements of the ideal and the cruel reality of the children cannot be adjusted, causing anxiety and irritability.

Like my mom, the blow left me with no self-confidence and never understood what was really going on in my heart.

Read more books, pay less attention to her, she is menopause.

Alas, understand your mother, he knows how to be angry, in fact, he also wants to train you to be a useful person, a person he likes, but he doesn't know how to improve you, so he has to use scolding to solve it, this is still related to his cultural water evaluation, so you have to talk to him, your mother is also pitiful, he wants you to become the person he wants, so that's it, he may only be able to compensate you with materials, I don't know that the soul is also very important, and spiritual food is more important.

I doubt very much that my mother and your mother are sisters、、、 are you talking about my mother, right?

At this time, you can only change the status quo by making yourself a genius.

From your expression, in fact, it can be seen that you are a very sensible child, you did not just think about complaining, but also thought of your mother's good, I think it is your mother has something in her heart or her personality problem, she does not know how to do it is to guide the child correctly, I think in this case you have to take the initiative, take the initiative to chat with your mother, with the right attitude to say your thoughts, tell your mother that you will work hard.

Maybe it's your mom's way.

Everyone has their own way.

But some people are good for blaming and some people are good for encouragement, and you can talk to your mom about that.

Your mother's method of education is a problem, but believe that your mother loves you

There is a kind of teaching called criticism, and there is a kind of maternal love called oppression. You never understood, from a mother's point of view. (Of course, it is not excluded that it is very ironclad and steely, and you expect too much from you, and you don't like your mother's expectations) Sometimes the family is like this, the adults are honest and blame, and the children always run away.

Hope that the son will become a dragon, and hope that the daughter will become a phoenix to understand and communicate.

You have to understand your mother, it may be that your mother's personality is really bad and she speaks very extremely, but no matter what, she is willing to pay for you, and she still loves you in her heart, but she doesn't use the right way of expression, you have to learn to communicate more with your mother.

Duty is also a kind of love, mom loves you!

Maybe she's demanding too much of you, but just wants you to do your best, her approach may be a little wrong, and you lack communication.

College students are good-looking, quality, and very educated, you go to the junior college.

Your mom is right, you can see for yourself.

The words can't be too absolute, but there is a point.

No, look at the people, your mother only saw that some people were like this.

Your mother's mother will not raise children, since it is no longer hard, then you can't just keep going like this, try to live a happy life, improve the relationship between you and your mother, make yourself more comfortable in the relationship, and don't be carried away by other emotions. If you have the financial conditions to make an appointment with a psychological counselor, if you don't have the financial conditions, then read a few books on psychology, such as Wu Zhihong's book.

You can't scold your mother, how hard your mother gave birth to you, you have to learn to love her, respect her, think about how uncomfortable you scold her, she thought that there was also a life in her belly, how could she bear it, so if there are any problems in the future, just say it well, just solve the problem, you can't get into the other party's heart. You have to understand the hearts of parents in the world.

Your mother's idea is not right, you should be assertive about a man, you have to be responsible for what you do, so you have to prove it to him, and the man must be strong.

Hello landlord:

Not assertive. Not capable.

Naturally obedient.

But this person is also useless.

You have to control yourself.

You can't change your independence because of your mother's attitude.

Life is your own, everything is decided by others, but the consequences can't be borne for you, that is, selfishness only wants to control others. You can listen to the opinions of others appropriately, but in the end, you have to decide for yourself, because you have to bear the good or bad of your own life.

Understand our parents and communicate slowly, so that they know that we need to go on our own in life.

It's sad that a boy doesn't have an opinion, what logic does your mother have? Can they support you for a lifetime?

No way? I hope you have a sense of responsibility and achievement.

Prove that this is not the case for her.

In this case, you can apply for the minimum living allowance, and you should go to the village committee to apply. If your superiors approve it, you and your mother will be able to have a living guarantee.

If you don't have a financial ** in your family, then you are a poor household and you can enjoy the subsistence allowance.

Poor households refer to families with living difficulties, without special policy subsidies, and usually families with an annual per capita net income of less than 865 yuan.

If you are not in school and working, you will not meet the relevant conditions.

Generally, now sixteen years old belongs to adults, if you are 17 years old and do not have the economy, you may have to find out the reason yourself, you can go to the local ** to ask.

Count, you say that your mother is disabled, you can apply for a disability certificate for her, and the state will subsidize it, in addition, if you take care of your mother, you don't work and have no economy**. You can apply to the Civil Affairs Bureau for poor households through the village branch. There are a lot of subsidies from the state to benefit the people. It's just that you don't understand.

In this case, you should be a poor economic household and can apply for subsidies.

Hello, your family is a poor household, you can apply for poverty relief directly.

Hello, if it is like your family, you can apply for a poor household, subsidy.

There is no labor force in the family, and there is no economy, so it is considered a poor household, but it depends on the situation, to be honest, poor households are not necessarily poor households.

The can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for the subsistence allowance, which is enough to apply for the subsistence allowance.

You are not yet 18 years old and are underage. Your mom still has a disability. You need to bring a disability certificate and ID card. Go to your local community to do it. You should be considered a poor household.

In your case, you should be considered a poor household, and you can go to the nearest neighborhood committee to apply for poverty subsidies.

In this case, you can go to the local relevant department to apply for a subsistence allowance.

Your situation must be a dazzling poor household. You can register with the community. Then go to the office to register.

According to what you said, it should belong to a poor household, and you can go to the village cadres in your village to apply.

Find the neighborhood committee and relevant departments of the community, and ask for care according to the policy.

You can apply for education relief, you or you can go to your village, and you can also apply for subsistence allowance.

In this case, you can go to the community to register and apply for the subsistence allowance.

The crux of the question is what does your dad do? If he can afford to support you, he is not considered a poor household.

You can prepare your mother's disability certificate, your student ID, or community certificate and other relevant documents to the civil affairs department to apply.

You can also go to the civil affairs department to consult first.

Maybe you're thinking too much......Always over-interpret what others say ......

Mom, if you have any opinions, you won't beat around the bush.

I'm more worried, I hope you can find a good job...