What does the appearance and departure of the villain mean?

Let's start with the definition of a villain:

The so-called villain refers to those in the unit, 1Speak ill of people behind your back, make a small report, 2Sow discord, two sides and three knives, 3Unthankful, a set of people. People after a set.

4.Flattery, bullying, arrogance, etc., we all say that they are villains in the workplace.

There is also a kind of that I don't know if it's a real villain, or a fake heart and a quick talk.

1.Speak ill of people behind your back, and make small reports.

It's like there's such a person in every unit, and we call it a villain.

However, the so-called villain we call is often the boss, or the leader's henchman or eyeliner.

Bosses or leaders need such eyeliner to understand the work status of employees.

Remember, when I first started working. At that time, I just arrived at a company and took my training instructor, and Tutor Zhang thought that I was quite aura, so he wanted to train me, so he dropped me from store A to store B.

She also revealed to me that she wanted to cultivate me. In addition, Mentor Zhang often helps me with my performance. That's why I'm outstanding.

Just arrived at the company for a quarter. The general manager talked to me and said that I was going to be promoted, and when I was happily waiting to be promoted, because I was so excited, I told the good news to my good friend Liu Dan, who joined the company together.

Liu Dan asked me how I did it, and I told my good friend the real situation.

The next day, a new official took office. Early in the morning, the sun was exceptionally bright, my heart was as bright as the sun, I sat on bus 672, enjoying all this wonderful thing, ding ......

I received it, the tutor's **, the tutor informed me, I didn't use it, and said I. Why do you tell people everything?

I was stunned. Before he could reflect anything, the tutor hung up**.

When I reflected, I cried all the way on the bus, from the middle point to the end.

I hit **. To my good friend Liu Dan, she said that she was "straightforward and fast-talking".

told her master that her master had been in the company for more than 5 years, so he was not convinced. I found the manager.

I didn't say anything, I knew she was, and she was outspoken.

Then I left that company and the manager kept me. But I think it's very uncomfortable.

It doesn't matter what kind of villain you encounter, or if you have difficulties. I think when dealing with villains, keep these three points in mind. It will not be calculated.

1.Remember: Speak simply.

2.Behind the back, colleagues always only praise others.

3.Praise him, praise him, kill him, so that he doesn't know what his surname is.

4.Do your job well and don't leave others behind.

5.Find a way to be a confidant of the leader.

Villains, sometimes needed. In the way forward in your life, maybe he will laugh at you, ridicule you, and hit you, he just looks down on you, but it is precisely his attitude that makes you always maintain a self-motivated and self-disciplined heart. Especially when you are at the peak of your life, it is inevitable that people will be in high places, it is easy to make mistakes, and it is difficult to maintain rationality and sanity all the time.

It is possible that you will be indulgent, lazy, and willful, but when you think of villains waiting to see your jokes around you, you immediately dispel your thoughts, and instead become more self-disciplined!

Three scenarios:First, the work results are always snatched away by colleagues. 2. Whatever you do is wrong. Third, there will always be people at work who make their own small reports.

First, the work results are always snatched away by colleagues.

For example, I worked hard, and I finally got the results to hand over to the leader, but the credit was snatched away by some people in advance. As long as you see this multiple times, it means that you are being watched by villains. At this time, they not only squeezed you, but also recklessly robbed you of the credit.

Therefore, we must have a long-term thinking in our work, and we should not simply tell outsiders what we think and what we do.

2. Whatever you do is wrong.

If we want to develop better at work, we must achieve promotion and salary increase goals through our own efforts, but there is unfairness in work. Sometimes a lot of effort has been put into the project, but the leader is just not satisfied. At this time, everyone should not question their abilities first, but first consider whether there are any problems with their expression, or what is your relationship with the leader?

It's no longer a matter of your ability, you have to talk to the leader. Everyone opens up and sees if the leader has any misunderstandings about you. So, when you encounter such a situation, you have to think about the solution, not just the effort.

Third, there will always be people at work who make their own small reports.

I believe that we will encounter such a situation at work, and we make a small mistake, and in the blink of an eye, we are hit by a wordless little report. Once passed to the leadership, the image is damaged. When you find that there are always villains hitting you for a small report, you must talk to the leader first to avoid misunderstanding yourself because of some gossip, if you don't actively prevent this situation, the consequences must be serious.

For some people who are psychologically distorted and jealous, sabotaging someone else's success behind their backs and seeing someone else suffer is the source of their happiness.

In today's complex interpersonal relationships, it is normal to inevitably have villains around you, both emotionally and professionally. However, the best way to deal with villains is to use your keen eyes to identify such villains and guard against them.

Obviously, the work has been completed according to the standard, but there is a problem when the leader checks it.

How to say that the design is stolen design, the leader always gives you small shoes to wear for no reason, colleagues always say bad things about you behind your back, you finish your work, others always push some work that does not belong to you to do.

The boss has recently started to target you, put pressure on you, pick the bone in the egg, and deal with it! First exclude some people to determine which one it is, and then look for his shortcomings! The premise is that you must do your job perfectly, and then go to the boss to make a report, otherwise your boss will definitely let you go home, the most common is the relative network, for example, the boss's relatives are your subordinates, you also have to remember to pay attention to what you say, don't say anything about your boss in front of him, don't think he will help you say good things, you think too much, the general boss presses relatives under you basically to learn your work, and one day can replace you.

I have worked hard to do a good job, but the leader still finds faults, and the relationship between colleagues is strained.

The work that was supposed to be done was impeccable, but it was still hacked and manipulated.

The most obvious is that someone is informing. Something very secret was known to people who didn't want to know.

Obviously you didn't offend anyone else, but everyone else came against you.

Obviously, you do the most things, but you are not as favored as others who say two words in the back.

Work is for money, and I don't have so much care.

If you do a little thing wrong, the above will know.

1) For jealous villains – learn to stay away from small-minded people

A small-minded person is too sensitive, and once he feels bullied by you, or he has wronged himself on you, he will find a way to retaliate against you.

So learn to identify the cautious people around you and keep a certain distance from them.

(2) For the vindictive villain - learn to keep a low profile

If you are too high-profile, it is easy to attract the resentment of others, especially when your ability is much stronger than others, you must learn to cover up your edge and learn to do things in a low-key manner, otherwise it is easy to attract the harm of revenge villains.

(3) For profit-oriented villains - don't be a good person casually

In the workplace, don't be a good person, especially for profit-oriented people. Don't feel that others are isolated and pitiful, you treat others as friends and talk to others with your heart and lungs.

You're a farmer yourself, but you don't know if the person you're helping is a cobra or not.

(4) For the villain who borrows the knife - don't be the first bird

When someone tells you something heart-wrenching, you must analyze the other person's motives and purposes so that you can tell whether the other person is trying to use you for her own ends.

Don't let you go to the boss for someone else, be his spokesperson, and you will only be hurt in the end.

(5) For self-exclusive villains - there is a way to respond

When it is obvious that the other party and you are not in the same boat, and the other party intends to embarrass you in front of the leader, you must not get excited.

For sarcastic and jealous slander, you can choose not to respond.

For example: your husband gave you a dress on Valentine's Day, you wear it to work in the company, some people say that your dress is so beautiful, you say that your husband gave you a Valentine's Day gift.

Some people say, why is your husband so picky, so I'll buy you a dress.

At this time, you'd better not respond, as soon as you respond, the two people will inevitably get into a fight, and if you don't respond, you will simply look like the other party is very bitter.

Villains can't be destroyed, no matter in any kind of environment, as long as there is a gentleman, there will be villains who will oppose it, but some villains look like gentlemen, but in their bones they are villains, this kind of people are called "hypocrites". Some people say that real villains are easy to deal with, but they are afraid of hypocrites. Therefore, the most painful thing for the vast majority of people is actually the "hypocrite", whose mouth is full of benevolence and morality, and his mouth is wrong, and he is one set in front of him and one behind his back, so it is elusive, you know that someone is a villain, but you have nothing to do with him.

However, from the perspective of cultivation, the villain was specially arranged by God to test the cultivators by his side. When there are villains around us, it means that our cultivation is really not diligent enough, we have not let go of the things that should be put down, there is still a dark side in our hearts, and we have not yet achieved "above board", these situations may not be understood by others, but as long as we carefully examine ourselves and take our feelings, we will find the problem.

Therefore, instead of using various tricks to deal with villains, it is better to clean up your heart and let the sun shine in; Try to let go of resentment and let go of worries; Try not to care about a lot of things that may not belong to us in the first place, and things may change. Therefore, when a practitioner solves the problem of the villain, he must look at himself by looking at himself, knowing that everything is inspired by himself, otherwise the villain with the negative energy will not come for no reason. So, we need to abandon those formal practices and return to our own nature, so that the villain will automatically stay away.

How to get along with villains!

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**Head Joy Life).

In this world, whether we want to or not, there will always be some villains around us.

Getting along with villains is a science. Otherwise, inadvertently, you will offend the villain and bring trouble to yourself.

Handle the relationship with the villain, and the following four paragraphs may be beneficial to you.

Courteously stand. The best way to treat villains is to stay away. If you can't afford to offend, you can afford to hide.

Villain, you can provide for him, but you must not offend.

When it is advantageous, they will take advantage of you and be close to you; When it is unprofitable, they will turn their backs on you and betray you without hesitation.

It is best to keep a certain distance from the villain, don't get close to the villain for a little profit, and at a critical time, become a victim of the villain, catch yourself off guard, and walk around without eating.

For villains, it's best not to be able to afford to hide!

But sometimes, it is inevitable to come into contact with them, so try not to provoke and offend, and just leave as soon as you finish dealing with things.

It is best to cut off the ordinary network information exchange, so as to avoid right and wrong, and I wish you a pleasant life!

There is a good saying, can't I hide if I can't be provoked, stay away from her, it's best to have less contact, and don't contact if you can.

First, try not to offend the villain In life, we would rather offend the gentleman than the villain. Because villains can't afford to offend. Villains are especially good at pondering others, and dare to pay any price for the smallest grievances.

Once you are targeted by the villain, it will be very troublesome. We may be inspired by the story of the famous Tang Dynasty general Guo Ziyi. After the "Anshi Rebellion" was pacified, Guo Ziyi, who was highly meritorious, was not arrogant, and he was very cautious in order to prevent the villain from being jealous.

Once, Guo Ziyi was sick, and a ** named Lu Qi came to visit. This man was a treacherous villain with a bad reputation in history, and his appearance was so ugly that people of the time regarded him as a living ghost. Because of this, ordinary women can't help but laugh when they see him.

When Guo Ziyi heard the doorman's report, he immediately asked his family to avoid showing up, and he was alone in the living room to entertain guests. After Lu Qi left, the concubines returned to the sickbed and asked Guo Ziyi: "Many ** people have come to visit your illness, and you never let us hide, why did this person come and let us all hide?"

Guo Ziyi smiled and said, "You don't know, this person is extremely ugly in appearance and very insidious in his heart. If you see that if he can't help but laugh, then he will be jealous.

If this man comes to power, our family will suffer. Later, Lu Qi became the prime minister, and he tried his best to take revenge and get rid of all the people who had offended him before, but he still respected Guo Ziyi. Don't offend the villain, you can avoid many unnecessary disputes and troubles.