Everyone has shortcomings, what to do with people who keep hitting you with your shortcomings?

First of all, you must have a good mentality, you must have self-confidence, you must believe that you are unique, everyone has shortcomings, you must learn to accept your own shortcomings, accept him, don't care about what others say, just understand yourself.

The second self is yourself, there is no need to look at what others think of you, it does not mean that you are like that, everyone has their own beautiful side, but you can also tell him a sentence, "When you point one finger at others, there are four fingers pointing at yourself!"."Don't think about it either!

Thirdly, if it is an acquired disadvantage. Just change it.

If it's born.

Just think it's a treasure.

Be calm. Let others see your generosity and confidence!

You can turn some small shortcomings into humor when playing, but try to correct the big shortcomings as soon as possible, after all, shortcomings are harmful to yourself and others. If there are some stubborn shortcomings that cannot be corrected at the moment, please accept your imperfect self and set yourself a long-term goal to rediscover good habits, cultivate new strengths, and magnify your strengths. The person who constantly hits you about the shortcomings of others is a kind of snob, not necessarily a bad person, and just wants to cling to the golden branches and jade leaves.

If you don't know how to tolerate, you won't end up well.

I think it's easy to discourage you. Therefore, it is better to stay away from such people, because a person actually needs the encouragement of the other party. Only the more encouraged you are, the more confident you may be, so try not to socialize with such people.

Don't speculate more than half a sentence, so, don't pay attention to it, usually say hello less, try to avoid, there is no need to needle the tip of the wheat mang, there is no meaning, I usually pay attention to change such a really bad habit.

First of all, you can not treat your own shortcomings as shortcomings, you can first beautify them as advantages, and then criticize the other person's shortcomings. Some people just like to improve themselves by hitting others.

Then you will change all your own shortcomings, and then use other people's shortcomings to hit others.

You can fight back appropriately, and then work hard to improve your own shortcomings.

Give someone a taste of their own medicine.

This kind of person is of low quality, stay away from him.

I think there is no such thing as a perfect person, because the biggest flaw of a perfect person is that it is not aware of its imperfections. In other words, everyone has certain shortcomings, or some shortcomings.

You can see that you are a person who strives for perfection, and this pursuit is not a bad thing. However, sometimes, it may make you feel right to think that some discomfort is right.

Why do you say that people with short-sighted eyes are not perfect? How do you define perfection? How can it be a shortcoming for others to say that you are gentle and elegant?

They're just showing what they think of you, and they're saying a temperamental feeling that you're giving them. You are misunderstanding this.

People always have strengths, and you may not be deeply aware of your own strengths. You can find out slowly.

Let go of those somewhat one-sided thoughts, and carefully consider some of your definitions of perfection, do you think the perfection in your mind will exist in real life? Are these perfections helpful or meaningful to life? And then come back to thinking about this question of yours.

I think you'll have the answer then.

Because they don't love you, you don't matter to them.

.1. I don't want to spend much money: it is determined by realistic conditions, which is neither a character problem nor a shortcoming.

As long as you work hard to learn some vocational skills and knowledge and increase your personal social value, you may be able to earn a lot of money in the near future, and then you will spend a lot of money;

2. Looking for a girlfriend is not tall enough: the basic purpose of finding a girlfriend is to have a partner who goes to honor and disgrace together rather than a decoration, husband and wife are not only intimate relationships in life, but also allies in career.

3. There should be principles, purposes and plans to do things, and there must be a determination to persevere to the end for determining what to do.

Make money and don't make enough money and are not willing to spend money; Not tall enough to find a girlfriend; The character of doing things is too easy-going and gentle, and there is no rigidity that a man should have, and he can be easy-going when he should be easy-going, but he can't be tough when he should be tough.

Everyone does have a lot of shortcomings, how to face them?

Acceptance, self-acceptance! Yes, I'm not tall enough, so I might have to be better with girls, and yes, I don't make a lot of money, so I might have to work hard in the future. Yes, I'm reluctant to spend money, so I might have to pay more attention in the future, and be careful when I spend money on my girlfriend in the future.

Those who please themselves are invincible.

1. We must realize that there is no barefoot in gold, no one is perfect, and human shortcomings and imperfections are the nature of human beings, and everyone has shortcomings and defects. It is not man who has no faults, it is God.

2. We need to recognize what our shortcomings and advantages we have, and we can list our strengths and weaknesses through SWOT analysis.

3. We need to highlight the advantages and manage the shortcomings. In other words, we should not magnify our own shortcomings, but should magnify our strengths, face our shortcomings, and try to avoid doing work and things that involve our weaknesses.

4. We must also learn to transform shortcomings into advantages, which requires continuous self-improvement in introspection and learning. In practice mistakes, we can elevate our own shortcomings into strengths.

This question should be analyzed in several situations. ①.It may be that I have more shortcomings than strengths or no advantages at all, but he can see and point them out, and I think this is a help to me, and I should thank him for his integrity and selflessness, and to look at myself and correct my shortcomings.

There is a kind of person who is narrow-minded, short-sighted, out of jealousy, or in order to achieve his own goals, accusing others behind his back, making up bad words, this is what we often call a "villain", for such a person we try to avoid him, as long as he is happy, then let him say it, time will tell. ③.

There is a kind of person with well-developed limbs and a simple mind, who is a follower of the clouds, and this kind of person does not need to pay attention to him at all, so as not to waste time.

The world, all living beings, everyone has a different growth environment and life background, because of the family, education and other aspects of different influences, thinking and pattern are different, we do not understand each other on the premise, do not make arbitrary comments, decisive characterization, a stick to beat people to death, we can control our own mouth, but can not control the mouth of others, let us still hold understanding, tolerance, sincerity, compassion for the heart, to treat everything! Thank you! Wishing you happiness and happiness!

1. Being able to say but not doing is not true wisdom.

2. Listen more carefully to what others have to say, and don't rush to express your own opinions.

3. Why do you want to hold poison in the same bottle? In the same way, why should you be full of troubles?

4. If you can't get something, we will always think that he is beautiful, and that is because you know too little about him and don't have time to get along with him. One day, when you dig deeper, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined.

5. In this world, there is only smoothness, and there is no perfection.

6. Practice with patience, be willing to be indifferent, and be willing to be lonely.

7. Living for a day is a blessing and should be cherished. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found someone who had no feet.

8. If you pay more attention to others, you will have less energy to reflect on yourself, you know?

9. Don't keep your eyes open so wide, let me ask you, a hundred years later, that one will be yours.

10. I want to know about the swords and robberies in the world, but I listen to the sound of the slaughter in the middle of the night. Don't just blame yourself for being sick and calamity, but look at how many beings have died under your sword?

11. Hating others is a great loss to yourself.

12. Everyone has life, but not everyone understands life and even cherishes life. For those who do not understand life, life is a punishment for him.

13. People who think they have wealth are actually owned by wealth.

14. Attachment is the cause of distress, let go of attachment, you can be at ease.

15. Fate is not to get by, to follow the path, but to do your best to obey the destiny of heaven.

16. Don't be too sure of your own opinion, so you will regret it less.

17. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.

18. It is shameful for a person to cover up his shortcomings by hurting others.

19. People in the world are responsible for the law. Those who practice are responsible for cause and effect.

20. When you are poor, then you use your body to give, such as sweeping the floor, sprinkling water, carrying things, etc., which is also a kind of charity.

21. A person who is full of jealousy, does not confess in his heart, and speaks incorrectly cannot be regarded as a person with good facial features.