After reading this, I want my mother to give me a brother, but I don t know if it s too late

I'd like to help you analyze it specifically: After reading your question, I guess if it's correct, what you mean by "lover" should be a third party. It's that you're unmarried, and he's married.

If so, then, I would say that your lack of clarity in positioning is causing you this confusion at the moment. As a lover, I think he must love you a lot, so you have this real idea. Your thoughts should be happy from the bottom of your heart for him, after all, you are willing to dedicate yourself to him and promise to raise your children, which is not easy for you.

However, as far as he is concerned, you have positioned yourself in the position of "second wife" which he does not want to see. He is good to you because he hopes to have the same kind of joy with you as a wife after work, not because he hopes to get your crystal. That would be very detrimental to his current position.

His disagreement is understandable. can't say that if he doesn't agree, he doesn't love you, since he regards you as his lover, what he thinks is that the two of them don't have that kind of "tired" so-called "sense of responsibility", so that everyone can communicate more easily. Therefore, if you really love him, don't drag him down, even if you come to raise your child, but this child will eventually recognize his father, when the facts between you are discovered, it may be the end of your life, not only that, but also involves a lot of legal issues, these may be conflicts that he can't deal with.

If you really want to give birth to him, then let him divorce, so that the child born will be justified. As mentioned earlier, this is the reason why you are mispositioned, and lovers must abide by the rules between lovers. Otherwise, it's not a lover.

I hope you understand what I said, and I bless you at the same time!

It's too late, haha, I can only have a younger brother, hope, thank you.

Getting drunk is not a good thing.

At the age of fifteen, it is time to learn to take care of oneself, and many people who are almost twenty years old and want to be independent parents do not agree. Encourage her to go and make up for the lack of your brother's heart, but it's best to ask your father first.

Summer vacation. Your mother also feels guilty about your brother. If you really don't worry, you can go together.

I think I should help your brother's kids.

I just want to ask, what about his father?

Are you and your brother half-sibling?

Your mother is disgusted with the poor and loves the rich It is recommended not to worry too much about the mother After all, it is not easy for the mother to raise herself Housework is open Since it is so unpopular at home, then go back to your parents' house a few times less Mother actually complains not about you It is your husband who can't bring you material enjoyment This is a very clear thing If you drive home with a lot of things, is your mother still accounting? It is recommended that you go back to your parents' house a few times Support your husband's work more Let your husband continue to improve at work You take good care of your children at home and run your own small family well Treat your own husband well, if your mother's family is a source of unhappiness, let this source stay away from you, and fulfill your filial piety to your mother, if you need to go home, buy something, give your parents something, talk a few words and leave, be diligent yourself more than anything else.

If you can, don't live together. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really unsolvable, and I also have a headache.

I can understand your feelings, everyone doesn't want to see their parents wronged, especially outsiders like sister-in-law, who come to their own house to point fingers, which is even more unhappy, but I think this kind of problem still has to be brought forward by my brother, no matter how much you say, it is better for my brother to say a word, but you also have to treat your sister-in-law as a family member and be more tolerant, after all, it is now a family.

To be honest, it's really hard to deal with, after all, you're going to get married, and if you quarrel with your sister-in-law, you'll only mess up the problem. Your mother doesn't let you quarrel, which means that her old man is wise, in the final analysis, it is your brother's reason, and his attitude determines your sister-in-law's attitude. All you can do at the moment is to communicate with your brother, reason with him, and tell him about your responsibilities as a child, and only if your brother changes, your sister-in-law can change.

I understand your mentality, after all, you are a family now, be more tolerant, if you have the conditions, you can live outside, out of sight, not upset.

Say it in front of everyone during the meal.

Oh my God, how can there be such a father-in-law and mother-in-law, how can your brother take care of the children if he is not married, doesn't this make your own children suffer? If you don't come, you won't come, what's the big deal, your child was conceived in October, do you go to work? You must make your own money, you can't be controlled by them, you said that if you help you take care of your children now, you should take care of your brother when you are old, but the in-laws who do this kind of thing have nothing to say, the key is what your husband says.

Even if you are born later, you may be a sister.

What do you compare to your own family, how boring, some only children don't have the ability to enjoy companionship.

The first one is more pampered, most of them are like this, and my eldest daughter is very sensible when she is naughty.

I can't decide this order myself.