What should I do if my son grows up and has a family because of the conflict with his mother over wo

Your post is short and I don't know your specific situation, so I can't give a direct suggestion. Here's what I wrote to another mother who was in conflict with her son, whose son wanted to fight for herself, while the mother thought they had created good conditions and wanted her son to listen to her. Here's a little bit of advice for them, maybe to give you some reference.

Happiness in life should indeed be obtained by one's own responsibility and dedication, and people must be self-reliant in order to gain respect. It is good for children to have their own intentions to struggle, and life should be through their own efforts, and they should have the life and career they deserve, rather than relying on their parents' "charity"."。Now there are many opportunities for development, and children should be allowed to exercise well, accumulate steadily, work hard, and lay the foundation for their own life, with this foundation, life can rise steadily.

Some parents hope to help their children grow and create good material conditions for their children, but instead they develop their children to be idle and unable to do things. To put it mildly, parents are simply pushing their children into the fire pit, raising their children to the point where they have no ability to live, and saying "for the good of their children". Can parents survive and live forever and make their children happy for a lifetime?

We see many examples, parents have created a lot of wealth for their children, children do not know how to live and operate, nor do they know how to cherish, after the death of parents, the family property is quickly exhausted, and children do not know how to do things, and the result is only reduced to the point of going to odd jobs, day by day, parents see this situation, can they not be vigilant?

I don't mean to blame you in the slightest in this statement. It is only provided for your reference. It is important to know that parents all love their children, but the wisdom is different, the methods are different, and the consequences are very different, parents, to be wise, for the sake of the long-term of their children, to cultivate their abilities, instead of cultivating their dependence on their parents and idleness, idleness.

As parents, you should respect your child's ideas in your child's career, and if you want to give advice, you should also discuss it with your child. There are some controversial topics that can be left uncontested.

Let's understand each other and put ourselves in our shoes. After all, the work is done by the son, so parents should also respect the child's choice. Children should also be considerate of their parents, whose lessons are not something that can be understood at your age. So let's calm down first and think a little more for each other.

Parents quarrel over work problems, what should you do as a child to alleviate it? Take the initiative to ask them about their problems, help them find solutions, or persuade your father or mother not to hurt their peace because of work matters.

1. Take the initiative to ask them questions and help them find solutions2. Tell them not to hurt their peace because of their work3. Help them calm their emotions

As a third party, analyze the reasons for their quarrels, and then ask them to think about the problem from each other's point of view, don't quarrel, can't solve the problem, and then calm their emotions.

As children, they should be a bridge to alleviate the conflicts between their parents, communicate with their fathers and mothers separately, and let them find common ground to solve problems at work, so that they can work together.

As a child, you can relieve your parents' emotions through some parent-child activities, or take them on a trip.

It's a good idea to ask your parents to be open and honest about what they think about each other, which should alleviate this problem.

We should persuade them to reason with them, and we should share the burden for our parents when we are tired from work.

1.You can suddenly change the topic, such as by sharing interesting things that happened to you at school to make them happy.

2.Cook a dish they all love to eat and use it to dissipate their anger.

I think that children must play a role in persuading peace in this matter. That is, when the parents quarrel, the children must persuade in the middle.

I think I should give them some advice, and if there are too many problems at work, I can also let them go out and relax, and be there for them as children.

It's a good idea for your children to talk to their parents separately and tell them how you really feel so that they can be more restrained.

As a child, you should pull your parents to sit down and talk, and solve the conflict between the two people, so that it can be alleviated.

As a child, of course, you should persuade your parents more and not always have conflicts because of work problems, which is very unworthy.

I think it's best to let them all calm down and then sit down and talk calmly.

If you stop it in a way that is even more extreme than theirs, your parents should not look at you as dangerous.

After they are calm, sit together and explain to them the importance of family harmony, give them about 30 days to think about it, and if they still can't reach a consensus, then suggest that they divorce (of course, a strategy), which will bring them the importance of their hearts, it's all up to you, come on.