Will Twilight Love really meet true love?

Twilight love can meet true love, but the probability is very low, at this age, many times it is to ask someone else to do something, or just want to have a partner to live.

Why is it so hard to find true love at this age? Personally, I think there are a few reasons for this:

Be wary of each other.

Because of the inconvenience of life, just to live together.

Conflicts between children.

Maybe it's because these middle-aged and elderly people have experienced the vicissitudes of the years, many of which are failed marriages, so they will be wary when they remarry, even if there is no failed marriage, because they are widowed and looking for their other half, they are also vigilant, always thinking that the other party will try to do something to themselves, and they can't be good to each other wholeheartedly, after all, the emotional contribution is mutual, and if one party has reservations at this age, the other party will also have reservations.

I once saw a 70-year-old man on TV looking for an aunt who was less than 60, and the two of them were together The old man always felt that the aunt was trying to make his money, but the aunt said that she really liked the uncle, whether the aunt was sincere, I am afraid that only she and God know, and finally the two separated because of suspicion.

Many unsuspecting elderly people may not have love, they are together just to support each other for the rest of their lives, such as middle-aged and elderly men need women to take care of housework, laundry and cooking, women hope that men can have the conditions to make their lives worry-free, and the money they save can leave a little more assets for their children.

I've seen more harmonious twilight love of the elderly roughly like this, they live together, women do housework, men play boxing every day, play chess, it's good, but to say that the relationship is only they know how deep, in my opinion, it's okay to have, it's okay not to have.

If it is against the children, it will be more difficult to do, I remember watching TV once a man in his 80s and an aunt in his 70s received a certificate without the consent of his children, and then the children of the aunt objected, and the children of the uncle also objected, and the uncle secretly added the name to the aunt into his own house book, and then the uncle left, and it also caused conflicts between the children, because the property was in court.

Although there are very few twilight loves of true love, it has to be said that there are still happy twilight loves, because they are loved enough by their families, they will also give enough love to the newly formed other half, and they will love the children of the other half, and they are not as defensive as a reconstituted family.

My father has a colleague who is 55 years old and found a 49-year-old aunt, the aunt was widowed because of a car accident, and my father's colleague died because of his wife's serious illness.

So I think you can still find true love in twilight love, as long as you have a shining point, the other party will still be attracted!

"Twilight Love" will meet true love, but in my opinion, the probability is very small.

1.Why is there a twilight love?

The other half of the old man is gone, the children are not often by their side, they are very lonely, and their hearts yearn for someone to be by their side, so this is also a big reason for the emergence of twilight love. So I prefer to call "twilight love" "looking for a wife".

2.There is still a real "twilight love".

Most of the older generation of people get married and follow the tradition to get married and have children, there is no so-called love at all, they have spent most of their lives, watching their children have also started a family, and they have no burden, in their free time, it is difficult not to think about whether they have any regrets in this life. Then I will have a very young enthusiasm to make up for my regrets.

The movie "How the Little Turtle Grows Up".

The sweet love between the old man and the old grandmother, you can go and see it.

Twilight love also has the opportunity to meet true love.

My cousin-in-law's mother was a very beautiful woman who loved to dress up when she was young and was also a very active person. The people around her like her very much, but her husband is a very silent person, and the husband and wife don't seem to have much in common.

Soon after the birth of my little niece, the couple chose to divorce, and after the divorce she met a retired old cadre, and the two quickly fell in love. The daughter-in-law has too many comments about the affairs of her parents-in-law, but I know very well, I remember that once my cousin said that she found that her mother had become younger after remarrying.

A good marriage can make people happy, and so can twilight love. The children of the aunt's remarriage partner are all abroad, and they don't have much opinion about their union. And my cousin-in-law saw that my mother found happiness after the divorce, and he was very supportive of them.

So their love is not hindered, and it is also the final decision made by two very mature people.

Twilight love can walk together without too much resistance, most of the time it is to find a partner, but there is also a chance to meet your true love. If this person happens to be very compatible with many of your interests and hobbies, they can also accompany each other. How can you say that this is not love?

Because there are practical examples around me, I believe that twilight love also has the opportunity to meet true love.

It's hard to meet true love. Compared with young people's love, it is easier to "follow love", and although "twilight love" also has the word "love", it seems to have little to do with abstract "love". Although many single elderly people often talk about "fate", the content of this romantic word is full of "realism" - house property rights, retirement salary, physical condition, children's situation, personality and temperament, living habits, and even consider whether the reason for being single is widowed or divorced, the nature of work before retirement, whether the children's income is high or low, etc., making the "fate" of the elderly difficult.

At present, more than ninety percent of the middle-aged and elderly people who are single and choose a mate in China will choose to live together and try marriage. This makes "twilight love" more like a "probationary period" after a "recruitment", it is very easy to divide and merge, and behind the seemingly chic, in addition to causing a series of disputes, it also makes the hearts of the old people close again and again.

Everyone wants to have a happy and fulfilling love.

In order to obtain a happy and fulfilling love, each of us is striving for it. ......However, real life often does not go as we wish, and many people do not find their true love until they are old. For these old people, they hope to find their true love ...... through twilight loveWhether this wish can be realized needs to be analyzed from the following aspects:

1. The elderly also have the right to pursue love, and it is entirely possible to find true love in twilight love.

Everyone has the right to pursue love. The same goes for the elderly.

Therefore, for the elderly who have not found true love, it is their right to continue to look for love and find their own love through twilight love, and the elderly have the right to pursue true love and obtain happy love.

Therefore, it is entirely possible for twilight love to find true love.

2. From a realistic point of view, the probability of finding true love through twilight love is not high.

From a practical point of view, the probability of twilight love finding true love is very low.

The reason why this is the case is that for the elderly, after years of experience, their understanding of life will be more profound, and at the same time, they will be more individual......This makes it difficult for the two parties in twilight love to truly achieve emotional integration. ......Therefore, there are only a few cases in twilight love where you can meet true love.

3. For the elderly, the content of twilight love is completely different from the love of young people.

The love pursued by young people is romantic love.

The love pursued by the elderly is the relationship of mutual affection and support to old age, which is completely different from the love pursued by young people. ......Therefore, the true love found by the twilight love of the elderly is different in manifestation from the love pursued by the young.

Through the above analysis, it can be seen that the elderly also have the right to pursue love, and it is entirely possible to find true love through twilight love. ......However, due to various factors, the probability of the elderly finding true love through twilight love is indeed not very high, and the parties need to have a clear understanding of this.

I think you can meet true love, but the probability is relatively small.

When people are old, they realize that in this world, the closest person is their wife. However, older people can really hold hands.

There are very few people who accompany them to the end of their lives, how can they spend the rest of their lives when they are left to be old and lonely? Dong Yulin, a psychological expert, believes that even if the concept of "twilight love" is accepted, because the elderly have rich life experience and life habits that are difficult to change.

It is also difficult to choose a new other half.

There is a friend surnamed Yu in Dongyulin, who is the CEO of a company. He divorced at an early age and had a daughter born abroad.

Live. In recent years, Mr. Yu began to think about finding a partner. At the end of last year, Mr. Yu met 50-year-old Lin Nu online.

The other party is also divorced, has a car and a house, and has a daughter who is married. After meeting, Ms. Lin's demeanor and body talked.

I don't have to pick the appearance. After dating for about a month, small stories around Ms. Lin's life also popped up one by one.

Come: Her house suddenly fell into a property dispute; The mother is sick and the operation requires a sum of money; My daughter is getting divorced and plans to start a business on her own, and she needs a small amount of money .......At the beginning, Mr. Yu also paid 100,000 yuan to help her solve her urgent need. Can.

Yes, when will such a "fire" be extinguished? Obviously, Ms. Lin did not come for Mr. Yu, but for him.

With his money. Dong Yulin asked Mr. Yu to think about it, what is the purpose of his remarriage? Mr. Yu hurriedly stepped on it.

A kick of "hard braking:

A survey shows that at present, at least forty percent of the elderly are only in love and do not get married. This avoids the spear of property division.

shield, but there are also corresponding risks.

The 72-year-old Su was the head of the technical section of the factory before he retired, and after the death of his wife, he felt deeply lonely.

went, fell in love with his former beloved apprentice, Sister Wang, who was divorced, and spent three years of happy time. I don't think about it, old.

Su died of a sudden illness. Because she was in too much of a hurry, she didn't leave a word about Sister Wang's future living arrangements. That's it.

After Lao Su's funeral, Lao Su's children did not allow Sister Wang to continue to live in Su's house.

When people are old, if there is someone by their side, it is a good thing for the elderly and their children. But if there is no basis for love.

The chances of getting divorced again are also very high, and you will be hurt one more time. Dong Yulin suggested that the old remarry.

People must fall in love because of love. Only by maintaining physical and mental pleasure can the remarried elderly prolong their lives, which is also the sons and daughters.

Most wanted to see.

Yes, but not every "twilight love" can be encountered. Love, it itself has no age limit. Even if people are dying, they can still pursue beautiful and romantic love.

Love is not a young person's right, but everyone's free pursuit. As long as you like this person and others like you, then you can be together "without violating your principles". In the past, when the thinking was more outdated, the pursuit of love by older people would be looked down upon.

This is a kind of shackles and rigidity of thinking. With the development of the times, many people are becoming more and more open-minded, and there is no obsolescence in the past, but more modern openness. The morning sun has the splendor of the morning sun, the midday sun has its scorching heat, and the dusk has a warm and gorgeous sunset.

Although it is approaching the "night", the splendor of the sunset still illuminates half of the sky. However, the essence of the vast majority of twilight love is just a "transaction". You like me, I like you, it's an illusion, and the truth is that everyone is heading for money.

This led to such a result, the end of twilight love is just "coming in a hurry, rushing away". For "twilight love", we need to look at it from two perspectives: first, these two people belong to "half-passers".

The so-called "halfway couples don't last long". In this world, the more people who are related to the "halfway", the more unreliable they are. Just imagine, even the original partner may have a change of heart, not to mention a halfway person who doesn't know each other and can't figure out the details?

Secondly, there is the "twilight love" itself, which is nothing more than a curtain of "material transactions". Women need money, and men don't want to be alone. In this way, the two parties achieve the purpose of "trading" and thus live together with each other.

In the drama "It's All Good", there is a line that says it well, so what does she want from you? The picture is that you are old, the picture is that you don't take a bath, and the picture is that you are gone after two years, and the house belongs to her. These words actually tell the truth of "twilight love".

No romance can be pure. Especially in this complicated world, most people have their own small abacus and have their own goals.