What to do if a junior high school girl is chased, how to chase a girl in middle school

In the first place, she cannot be criticized, so as not to provoke her rebellion. In this case, see that the two parents usually have the best relationship with her (i.e., the one who can talk about the problem), find a time to talk to her about it. First of all, you should praise her (you can say that she is beautiful and temperamental), then you can talk about what love is, at what age or stage you can have love, and then clarify what her current task is (of course, it is to study).

Before talking, listen to what she thinks about the matter (e.g. whether you like the boy too) and thank her for her trust if she takes the initiative to tell her parents. After listening, I will continue to talk about the above, and finally the parents put forward their expectations of her (do not use the tone of command)!

If the situation allows, they can also write a rejection letter to the boy together. If the boy is still pestering, find a time to talk to the teacher and the boy together, and ask the teacher not to criticize the boy publicly or privately before the conversation, so as not to affect the girl's learning environment.

As long as it doesn't affect learning, as a parent, you can relax a little, you can talk to them, you can't go too far, just agree to socialize. Because even if you don't agree, you can't help it, you can't be with you 24 hours a day!

This is that parents on both sides of you communicate more with their children, explain the good and bad of love to them clearly, let them realize that it is a mistake for them to be together so early, and take your time...

This kind of thing can only be stopped, and the girl can just ignore it.

Observe... Read more books to educate your children!

You might want to try to spend more time with her.

Get to know her more and pay attention to her.

Don't be too anxious to confess.

Sometimes don't pester girls, girls also have their own space, and they must be familiar with this girl's best friend.

Give girls care when appropriate.

Give a girl a gift that is not too expensive, just some gadgets she likes.

In the process of chatting, you must not have nothing to say, and you must find a topic if you have no topic.

When a girl needs help, she will do her best.

It's best to do something silently behind the girl's back, not directly she knows, let the people around him know and then tell her (at this time, the girl's friend plays a big role, don't act too deliberately).

Quit the habits that girls don't like (such as fighting, smoking, drinking, not staying up all night) If a girl asks you to do something, it is for your good, and if you don't want to do it, you have to do it, if it is particularly capricious (such as eating ice cream in winter, which is not good for girls, etc., you should refuse appropriately).

Keep your distance from other girls.

That's all, if you still have any questions, you can ask me again.

Wait for her after school, help her if she has difficulties, be kind to her

I'm just a freshman in high school, but I still want to say it to you.

If you really love her, you must insist, judging from your narrative, she also has a certain affection for you, which is the premise. Only love that has survived hardships and thorns can be truly vigorous and long-lasting.

You may have some misunderstandings, you are a boy, you should learn to communicate, take the initiative, you can try to maintain the previous relationship, and then slowly try to understand her thoughts.

Remember, if you really like her, don't give up. Many times, it is really only when you lose that you learn to cherish it. I used to really like a girl who was also strong on the outside, she looked lively and laughed, but I think I really knew her heart because we were almost the same people, weird and changeable, and had many of the same hobbies.

To this day, I still think she is the most beautiful girl I have ever met, but for some reason, our relationship has become estranged. You can't imagine how painful it is for you to see your beloved girl every day, but you can only silently watch from a distance, pretending not to care and be indifferent.

Now I can only slowly finish high school and wait for opportunities after graduation. Flowers bloom and fall from time to time, always thanks to the east wind Lord.

I gradually understood that fate is a beautiful dream when we meet, and a bitter memory after parting. Cherish the extra glance in the vast sea of people.

I hope you will persevere, study hard, and it will naturally come to fruition when you get to university.