I m his second girlfriend, but I ll always care about his past

After all, the past is the past, and it is said that he can't forget it because he has paid a lot, and in the face of the present, it can only be said that it is an immature psychology, and it is impossible to completely forget some things, which can only depreciate those things that were once important, and when the value of those is not significant, it will naturally show your weight. Therefore, don't ask him too much but will promote his thoughts, change yourself appropriately, let him get supplements and satisfaction from you, you should care about him, communicate with him, understand his past to fight for your present, let him know that you are better than his ex-girlfriend, reality is the most important, since some things are irretrievable, thinking is in vain, do your duty, everything will pass. Think about it from a different perspective.

What about you? If there is such selfishness and memories, it is normal if there is, then you are the same. As long as you get along well in reality, you don't have to worry too much, your happiness and happiness will unconsciously fill the vacancy in his heart for a long time, work hard!

Everyone has a deep impression of their first love, you have to know! The first time is often the purest and most beautiful, and you always bring up his past to wonder where you are in his heart! You have to love him well and help him forget about his former girlfriend!

Time will tell! Believe in yourself and believe in your lover! Your love will make him forget everything!

Hmph Then don't be together, you can find someone who doesn't care about anything to fall in love.

Do you say that such a good man with affection is not worthy of love?

It is possible to forget a person, but it is not easy to forget...

No one can forget the past.

It's just a good place to put in the right corner of your heart.

You always "think of his past, intentionally or unintentionally", and you are doing yourself a favor.

You can only make yourself the most important person in your life right now.

Moreover, there are some things that you want to grasp in the sand, and the more you want to grasp it, the less it will remain in your hands.

Won't care. Because both men and women are likely to change in subtle and slow ways.

When you ask her about her past, she can be truthful, and if she cares, don't become boyfriend and girlfriend, it will have an impact on the future.

In the beginning, I will care, but if I like it in the future, I will not care, but if the other party has someone from the past in his heart, he will care. Everyone has a past, as long as the past is not a problem, I don't think there is any need to care, the past is the past, and I have a past, will the other party also care? When two people are together, the important thing is the present and the future, if the other party has already let go of the past, why should they be obsessed with their own lack of dust, and use things that have nothing to do with themselves to affect the present and the future.

I think I should look at my own and each other's past objectively. If I love him very much, I won't care about his past, because his past has nothing to do with me, I care about his present and future, as long as he truly loves me.

If one day, I know that he is still in contact with his ex-girlfriend, has a close relationship, and pretends to be dismantled and leaves without looking back, the best choice for me is for me to leave, because I don't want to be with a person who betrays love and has no dignity, which is the biggest insult to me. We look at him as a person, look at his character, and look at his future! People are not saints and sages, especially when they are young, they are full of enthusiasm, sometimes they can't grasp themselves, they make mistakes, they recognize it, they change it, they are good comrades!

Since this question is asked, it means that there is a person in the heart of this situation, and at this time, we must be optimistic about this person's character, which is the key, if it is the kind of "dog can't change the way to eat", how far away are you!

It's easy to say, but not much is really done. When the two of them are sweet, they can't feel it, but once there is a conflict, they just wait to turn over the old accounts. Love is selfish and domineering, because love is more than in the past because it cares, which is normal, just don't be endless, the other party thinks once or twice that you are still very happy because you care, and after many times, you are tired, and you don't want to explain anymore.

I don't think this is what everyone wants to see, because it is a lifelong regret to lose the people who should be cherished in the past.

If you truly love each other, don't care about these past events. It's the right thing to do with your own love.

I wish you happiness and peace!

These thoughts of yours are a manifestation of perfectionism. In fact, you have to understand that none of us can change the past, we can only say seize the present and grasp the future. You don't do any good to the past, or to your boyfriend, you can only say that it will be harmful, you think, what you do will definitely affect your relationship with him, even if you don't show it in front of him.

It will also affect your mood. How much will be revealed. Accept what can't be changed.

Change can change. It's okay to read a little more books, because sometimes good books can change a person's point of view, don't be bored there all day long. There is not the slightest point.

Now on, get rid of the unnecessary garbage in your brain. Women should be confident and cherish themselves. Read more good books.

Elevate yourself. Shift your mindset. Trust you to do it.

Memories may not all be good, his memories with his ex may be painful memories, I think you must find a boyfriend who has never been in love, do you have a balance in your heart, then you will break up with him, perfect love has nothing to do with it sooner or later, who can guarantee that the person you meet for the first time is really suitable for you, if you just love yourself, just hope that your first love will also find a first love, it will be too narrow, if that is the case, I advise you to break up with him, because in the end you will be more and more painful.

Everyone has it in the past, as you said, you also have a first love, the feeling of first love is probably not forgotten by anyone, because it is the purest mutual love, so this kind of thing needs to be relieved, you love him, you have to tolerate everything he has, of course, if he does something wrong, let him be punished, love needs to pay, not blindly too extravagant, many things are like this, cherish every second with him. I hope you are happy with yourself

If you don't love him too much, how can you care so much about him, so you can adjust your mentality appropriately.

If you love someone, you should be more tolerant and understanding, everyone has a past, you should not dwell on the past, but you should care about your present and future.

No, because it looks small, as long as their relationship is not messed up, that's fine, if they mess up, then you just break up, this kind of man is not worth it.

It's boring, it's divided, do you love him? If you don't love it, just garlic you love, does he really love you?

You can say that you think too much, or you can say that you don't think too much, the key is up to you!

Well, it's a bit much, and now this is normal.

Don't think about it much, it's necessary when you break up, this kind of man is not what you are destined, find someone who loves you!

He had a girlfriend, you all know it, why are you still together? Doesn't that mean you love him, and you don't have to think about anything else. As long as you still love each other.

Of course, I think too much, today, with the development of communication, almost everyone can't hold a person's hand and be wild, don't think too much, it's just that he really loves you now.