Does graduation mean the end of the relationship?

Who said what pure love it is, what's wrong with the third year of junior high school. As long as you don't do too much, are feelings guilty?

I have to admit that in real life, such love is not approved, and the reason is that there are too many people who have no results. None of the people who oppose it want you to waste that heart, but that is a pure and unadulterated relationship Every person who has such a relationship, I ask if you have any regrets?No, there are too many regrets in the love of college students now, and adults even look at status and money (not that this kind of love is bad, but it is much dirtier than the pure feelings that ignore reality).

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I think it's really too childish for you to focus on whether you can be together, and if so, you don't deserve to have such feelings, because such feelings don't belong to selfish people. How to contact and whether to contact is your business. It's nonsense to say what others say, it doesn't matter if you fall in love, like it, or break up.

The most important thing is that you have the right heart. The more you ask of yourself, the less room there is for feelings.

Learn to grasp when love comes, and learn to let go when love slips away. It's not a blessing to take those beautiful emotions as memories!

Don't be afraid. Be brave to love. Even if the result isn't what you want. The process is wonderful.

That's how my first love was broken, but now there are many couples in our class who have continued from junior high school in this way, and it varies from person to person.

The third year of junior high school?It's too small, why !! think about it so much11

If you love him, choose to trust him and trust your feelings. It's stupid, but you're willing to be stupid for him, aren't you?No one will know what will happen in the future, so cherish the present, at least love each other so much now, then continue to love.

First love is so sweet and sour, but it is so unforgettable

Even if they can't be together in the future, they are separated, and he has other girls, so I wish them, love indifferently, love firmly, because of love, so willing to accept everything Hehe, girl, come on!

Yes!Don't have any illusions!You'll be the same!

Yes!Don't believe in childhood feelings

I can't keep it!

In this realistic country, love is often rooted in life, if you can't live together, then love will be difficult to continue, in short, don't care too much about gains and losses, don't hold on to what doesn't belong to you because you're afraid of losing, you want everything to go with your own natural know?

This one is uncertain, you have to see how deep his feelings are for you. If the feelings avoided are deep, although you are separated from the two places, it does not mean that your feelings are extinguished, you have to have confidence in yourself, and you love him, and you also have a certain degree of trust in him. You are in constant contact, and you can strengthen your relationship through contact

There was a classmate who was with me before, and he told me that we finally graduated, and we finally finished. In his mind, the completion of his studies is the end. Of course, there is nothing wrong with thinking so, after all, after 20 years of studying, a diploma has finally freed us from these shackles.

Or rather, it's not a bondage, it's just the freedom that you dream of.

But I don't think graduation is the end. I thought that Bi Sui Yuanye was just the beginning, and there was still a lot of road ahead. As for this graduation impression, I have the impression that I have thought about it before.

I wondered what I was going to do after I graduated. This question has made me think about it for a long, long time, and until now, there is no very positive answer.

This insight into whether graduation is the same as the end has allowed me to face my current self more squarely. Let me think about what I got before I graduated; What do I want to pursue after I graduate?

It's this thinking, this about graduation'Perception has a direct impact and reference significance on the choice of life and the judgment of the road after the Cha people disappeared from me. For me, in thinking, I learned to look at myself, combine what I have learned, and be able to plan everything better in the future.

It is precisely because of this feeling that graduation is not the end of the realization that it gives people a sense of urgency and novelty. Because that's the starting point of society, just beginning, there are always too many uncertain factors. Everything has to be created by one's own hands, everything is unknown, and it is precisely because of this that I have the motivation to choose the path I want to strive for.

After graduation, the relationship should overcome difficulties by carefully planning for the future, empathy, and strengthening communication, so that the relationship can still be sustainable and stable after graduation.

As long as the relationship between the two is stable, graduation is not enough to be a reason to break up. Graduation is just a starting point, although there will be many changes after graduation, such as location, job, and future choices may be different, and these are all tests, all feelings need to go through a series of tests, and after passing the tests, the future feelings will be more precious and will have a good result.

How to talk about a love without breaking up?

First of all, we must know that feelings are not child's play. When starting a relationship, it is necessary to think carefully, take into account both rationality and emotion, and avoid ignoring practical problems as soon as the mind is hot. Good emotions are based on the inner psychological connection between two sexes with mature psychology and sound personality, and responsible feelings can go longer and further.

Second, do a good job of planning for the future of the two people. Economy is the basis of love preservation, most of the students will be independent after leaving the college campus, both parties have to find a suitable job to obtain economic independence, to support and support their love, the city of work, the type of work, the income of the work, are to be discussed and decided by two people, and these need to be considered clearly in advance by two people in the junior year, and then graduate in order to move in the same direction.

Again, learn to compromise and give in. When it comes to a mature relationship, both parties need to be motivated and compromised for the love to be perfect. For example, after graduation, long-distance relationships and other issues need to be discussed slowly by both parties to find a way to solve the problem that is acceptable to both of you, and the necessary compromise and abandonment are the only way to love.

Finally, self-improvement and love preservation. A good relationship state is when two people are moving forward, and the relationship between one person struggling forward and the other person stopping and lying flat is destined to not last long.

Generally speaking, a breakup is more likely, so it is not about anyone, but about a large area of external observation. Of course, there are a few people who don't break up. You ask what you should do, first of all you can't give up your studies, otherwise your future prospects will have a big impact.

As for whether you will break up or not, it can only depend on how you get along in the future, and you can only do so, and there is no need to worry too much about this, because as long as you are willing, and he is willing, you will not break up. But really, will you still be willing to do so in the future? It's hard to say, because the future has not yet arrived, and perhaps at that time your own thinking will change a lot because of the growth of your knowledge and knowledge.

Of course, it is not ruled out that he will also change. 1. Calmly talk to him about the future, and make an overall plan for you, which is also to make him learn to let go of the prejudice in front of him, in fact, there are many ways to coax him, in fact, it is best to be the most specific is not to coax intentionally, but until he is angry, and he has a good overall plan for the future of the two of you, there are many things in the relationship between the two of you and you are not wrong with me, and quarrels are also very routine. Don't run away from contradictions, but actively resolve them.

If a couple is in a different place for a long time, then there may be various conflicts or misunderstandings between the two people. Even if two people live together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and frictions of one kind or another, not to mention that you will not live together for a long time.

So, when there is a conflict or problem in your relationship, don't panic too much in the first place. When encountering problems, don't run away, but actively find ways to solve them together.

Only when you learn to face up to the problems and misunderstandings in a long-distance relationship, and you don't easily ignore the contradictions and loopholes in the relationship, can you make it possible for the relationship to last for a long time.

The reason why many long-distance couples have difficulty getting to the end is often because they ignore the contradictions and misunderstandings in the relationship.

When the contradictions and misunderstandings in the relationship are not resolved and resolved in time, these misunderstandings and contradictions may brew into more and bigger problems or misunderstandings, and eventually lead to a complete breakdown of the relationship between you. Or, you're lucky enough to live in the same place without breaking up.

Therefore, the relationship after graduation has these three options: breaking up, long-distance relationship, and not breaking up with each other and not leaving.

My breakup after graduation seems to us to be not a sad thing sometimes, and we can even secretly rejoice that I am relieved that I don't have to get up early every day to buy breakfast for her, and I don't have to worry about what to give him for his birthday.

Yangyang's love is not true love, no matter how far away true love will try its best to make you make do, not just because distance and pursuit become a reason to break up.

This kind of breakup is normal, it can only show that each other does not have deep feelings, or has been planned for a long time, or it is difficult to return.

It is not necessary to break up after graduating from college, but the probability of breaking up will be relatively large.

Whether to break up or not should depend on the future planning of both parties, whether to go to the same place or not, and whether to choose ideal or love, this is the actual judgment.