My husband suspects that I have an improper relationship with his stepfather, is it sick? Is it beca

Updated on society 2024-04-16
62 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Say something that's not so acceptable.

    Maybe your husband is not close to his stepfather and does not trust his stepfather, and you and his stepfather have been together for a long time due to work, so it is normal for your husband to be suspicious.

    On the bright side, it's also about loving you and caring about how you don't.

    At this time, you still have to think about it from your husband's point of view, and push yourself and others to resolve the conflict between you faster.

    Therefore, I have to wronged you to prove your "innocence", and it is still easy for the family to communicate. Of course, it is certainly not enough to just talk, but also to rely on action.

    About the car, a good conversation about the family can also promote the relationship between the husband and the stepfather.

    In short, the bell must be tied to the bell, and you have to open this knot yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Kiss! When he thinks so, it really seems obscene, and it is also a sign of lack of self-confidence.

    However, if you were him, would you be indifferent to these things?

    It's normal to have these thoughts. The key is the communication between the two of you, your attitude towards him, if you can care about him, you won't think so, right? Even if you have these ideas, it doesn't matter if you explain them clearly through communication.

    Isn't that life?

    Happiness is earned through your own efforts, and strive to improve the understanding of both husband and wife!

    Wishing you happiness! <>

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This kind of question is indeed both embarrassing and irritating. It's really difficult to deal with it. Maybe the reason is that he is not confident as you say. That's what you need to do with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you have to think about why your husband is suspicious of you, whether you are too close to your father-in-law, or there are crazy words in the company, first find the reason, and then prescribe the right medicine, you can deal with it, and at the same time you have to care more about her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My husband is suspicious like this, and now you have to keep a certain distance with a father, and tell her that if you don't believe me, you don't believe in yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If your husband is so suspicious, it is actually a sign of his lack of confidence, and you can explain to your husband that there is no such thing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My husband's suspicion that you are having an illicit relationship with his father may be the most normal manifestation of his heart. So when you get along with your father-in-law, you don't mind, it makes him suspicious, if so, you should make it clear, and then pay attention to the words and deeds of getting along with your father-in-law in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think your husband's suspicions, if it is out of inferiority complex, you can talk to her, if you feel that the two of you have some inappropriate words and deeds, you can pay attention to yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My husband suspects that you have an improper relationship with his stepfather, which is a heart disease. After all, his stepfather is not related to him by blood. It also shows that he has some lack of self-confidence. After all, his stepfather had a company. And he may not have that ability. Husbands and wives should trust each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Are you conflicting in your feelings? Or is there disharmony in the sex life? It should be that your life has changed, so he started to think cranky.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your husband belongs to the kind of person who is more suspicious. He saw that he came back late from overtime today, and he would have some thoughts in his heart. You should communicate well with him so that he doesn't have casual suspicions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After all, it's a stepfather, suddenly multiple men are good to you, your husband must be jealous, don't hang him at this time, coax him well, tell him that you are just a father-daughter relationship, don't think too much, love him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since he thinks so. The easiest thing is to change companies to do it, after all, it's really boring to make the family restless for this kind of thing every day. Also, your husband can also go to his stepfather's company to do it, so you shouldn't doubt it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, your husband is a cautious person, and he loves you very much, so he is jealous, and you should also pay attention to such people, try to minimize the number of times you go to dinner with your father-in-law, and don't go home too late to eat.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, your husband must not be confident; Secondly, perhaps some of your actions or words made him suspicious, there is a saying that "there is no wind and no waves", so you should also reflect on yourself; Besides, your husband may have problems himself, so he will guess the people around him with his own thoughts or practices.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then why do you want others to doubt you, that's why you say that inspection becomes your own conscience?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it may be a little unconfident, plus I think you usually get together too often, or there are some behaviors that he looks uncomfortable with, so he will doubt you, and he should keep a little distance from your father-in-law.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Some people are really unconfident and like to think cranky, but some things are really easy to cause misunderstandings, and if you want him not to think wildly, you had better quit the job.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Those who are clear are self-purifying, and those who are turbid are self-turbid! No, he guessed blindly, it may be that your husband is not confident, after all, he changed the car, his stepfather changed it for you, and you can let your husband go to the next party, so that he won't be cranky!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    How could your husband think that, it's so strange, it's really cranky! It's not that I'm not confident, but I'm suspicious.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think because his personality may be a more suspicious person, you should communicate with him well.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    is not confident, but you try to avoid being alone with his stepfather, if there is contact, someone must be there, even if you are close, you must avoid suspicion.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your husband's heart is too small, I think this should not be his real father, if it is his real father, he will not suspect it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can go to work in someone else's company, do you have to be in another company, you two know if there is anything wrong, your husband will not doubt yourself for no reason, think about it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Paranoia. Such a person does not trust anyone, including himself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Correct it in time, explain it clearly, and don't happen. Only one good happens for each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It may have something to do with your husband's personality, he may be a suspicious person.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Then you should stay away from your stepfather and communicate at work.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    As long as there is suspicion, there must be a reason.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Be careful! You usually get too close to your stepfather! If it's because of work, you are superiors and subordinates, pay attention to the distance of the relationship. Even if you don't have anything, but as a man and your husband, I don't want to see you and his stepfather together often.

    The stepfather is not related to your husband!! To put it bluntly, it's a strange man. Think about it from your husband's point of view, if you have a stepmother, who is capable and beautiful, because work requires you to go in and out with your husband all day long, how do you feel psychologically?

    It's not a question of self-confidence, but a lot of the problems now are not to discuss the current morality with the moral qualities of the past!!

    I'm your husband, and I've had a showdown with you a long time ago! Keep your distance from men who are not related to you by blood! If you still love your husband, please listen to it!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think you, as a daughter-in-law, should keep some distance from your father-in-law, after all, there is a difference between men and women, although he is your father-in-law, but he is a man, on the other hand, he is your elder, you as a junior, you should keep a distance from your elders, you go out to socialize together, I think it should not be, and it is relatively late, your husband does not suspect you, it is strange, any man has suffered his wife to go out with other men, even if it is his closest person, if you usually go out with your mother-in-law, no one will say about you, No one will doubt you, and your mother-in-law didn't say anything just because she didn't suspect it, just because she doubted that the relationship between the two of you would be more embarrassing, and she was afraid of hurting her son, who was your husband, so I think you should keep a certain distance from your father-in-law, so that everyone can live in peace in the future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First of all, you have to pay attention to yourself, have less contact with your father-in-law, especially alone, you and your father-in-law go out to pay, as long as it is a normal person, you buy a car and your father-in-law takes money, which is not normal, if your husband can't take out the money, it is too normal to suspect.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    First of all, this problem is not with you, in the final analysis, it is mainly the estrangement and distrust between your husband and stepfather. If it is a marriage, I suggest that it is based on trust, between the particularities of your family, you can also let your husband configure your stepfather, after all, it is not very suitable to always pull you to go. Finally, I hope that the landlord will have a lively and cheerful attitude and be a happy person.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He didn't do anything wrong, there is no need to be afraid of anything, he can't find any way to doubt it, because it's not the truth, so there's no need to be afraid, he is not confident in himself, maybe you are better than him, that's why he doubts you like this, a lie will never be true.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    There is a saying that is good, the body is not afraid of the shadow, if it is a misunderstanding, it will be solved sooner or later, as long as you pay attention to it, time will prove your innocence, don't explain patiently to your husband because of this, the lie can't stand scrutiny, as long as you tell the truth about everything, it will definitely be clarified.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    In fact, you should still avoid suspicion with his stepfather, especially when you go out to socialize with your stepfather, and come back later, so it is easy to make people think more, if you love your husband very much, you must pay attention to some details. Wishing your family happiness every day.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then try to avoid suspicion, the man doesn't believe you anymore, and it's useless if you talk to him in the end, so avoid suspicion first, prove yourself, after a long time, after talking about it, your husband will believe you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It can only be said that his outstanding ability makes him ashamed of himself and lacks self-confidence.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think such a man really has no confidence in you, and he has no confidence in himself. I often doubt you, I think such a man is not worthy of being your husband at all, because such a man is not worthy of a wife at all.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    After all, this is not his own father, but his stepfather is more or less suspicious, if it were me, I would also suspect that you would be socializing with him and going out for so long and late.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I also wondered, why are you going to socialize with his stepfather, I hope you will consider his feelings, and whether you can buy a car with your own salary, and your father-in-law is also wrong, why don't you give the money to your husband but give it to you directly. Operational error.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    This kind of thing is not something that your husband can figure out alone, and I guess it won't help to sit down and communicate, the most important thing is that if you want to continue living, you have to keep your distance from your father-in-law, or you will probably have to divorce.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Don't get too close to his stepfather, just don't be afraid of shadows.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Is it that he has too much contact with his stepfather, or maybe he cares about you too much. Because your stepdad is too hard.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Now you need to communicate carefully to solve the problem and dispel his doubts, so that the family can be happy, otherwise there will be endless troubles.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's abnormal in my heart, and everything I see in the darkness in my heart is colored.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Don't blame him, he cares about you and makes your words clear. Don't make a fuss about this little thing.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Either he cares too much about you, or he doesn't trust you.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I wondered, your father-in-law went out to socialize, what are you going to do, aren't you looking for trouble.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Let's be honest, don't have too much contact with anyone of the opposite sex, especially this awkward relationship.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Do you usually show yourself in front of his dad?

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    You should call him to see a psychiatrist.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    It might be better to live separately.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    I think there is really a little bit of a problem with you, you won't be mentally abnormal, someone's son and his mother are in a mother-son relationship, why are you here, adjust your mentality, stop thinking nonsense.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    You are too suspicious, it is normal for the mother-son relationship to be close, how can you have this kind of thought, live a good life with your husband, don't think nonsense. This will cause a crisis in the relationship between husband and wife.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    You suspect that your husband has some improper relationship with his mother, so you are very afraid, and if you don't have real evidence, you don't judge other people's relationships casually.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    If you doubt it, but you don't have evidence, if you don't have evidence, then if you don't think about it, then you are in Wu Yan Songting.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Under normal circumstances, there will be no such thing, so it may be that you are thinking too much, so adjust your mentality at this time, or it may be that you see news or related things in this area, so you will have such fantasies.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    I want to divorce him, he doesn't leave, and he interrogates every day, and some things I can't remember for more than 20 years.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    If your own conditions are better, it means that he has no confidence in himself. You should praise him a lot, and praising others is a kind of learning. If you have problems with the way you interact with others, you need to examine yourself. There are many things that are not right or wrong for one person.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    He is not confident enough, many times he will feel that he is not good enough, he will be afraid of losing you, he will always worry so he will do a lot of incomprehensible things, if you don't want to lose him and don't want your family to be scattered, then you have to give him enough confidence, let him be confident, let him know that you love your home, let him understand that you will not abandon him, talk to him calmly, don't be hard, I wish you happiness, I believe that everything will be fine.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    You just have to pay attention to your own behavior, communicate more, and socialize more with others. As the days go by, your husband won't doubt it.

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