After experiencing emotional abuse, do you choose to talk to your friends? Why?

Any relationship has sweetness, and there will be pain. In the sweet time, many people wish the whole world knew, but after emotional abuse, some people may choose to confide in their friends, while some people will choose to suffer silently. So, after feeling emotionally abused, do you choose to talk to your friends?

Why? I don't choose to talk to my friends because I feel safer than it is to talk to my friends.

In real love life, no matter how much two people love each other, there may be quarrels and some stumbles. Maybe a small thing will make you feel emotionally abused, and then it will become painful and uncomfortable. At this time, many people may choose a more relaxing way, that is, to talk to their friends and express their pain.

After receiving comfort and relief from friends, I may feel much better.

But talking to a friend can have a series of serious consequences. For example, there are only some small things between you and your lover, but after you talk to your friends, your friends will feel that you have suffered a lot in this relationship. If your friend is someone you can trust and doesn't gossip about your private affairs, then you're glad you have a true friend.

But if your friend is a big-mouthed person, it is possible to tell other people about your pain, your sadness. And in a short period of time, maybe your embarrassment will be presented in your circle of friends. And at this time, how should you and your lover deal with themselves?

Therefore, I think it is best not to choose to talk to friends around you after emotional abuse. If you really want to talk to someone, you can try to talk to a stranger you don't know on the Internet, and after talking, your emotions will be vented, and maybe there will be nothing wrong. And the stranger doesn't know you, don't worry, he preaches about you.

I hope that everyone can protect themselves, try not to be abused emotionally, and after being abused, there must be a good way to deal with it.

I'm not going to tell my friends. I think that in today's society, there are actually very few true friends, and if you tell others about your grievances, or say that you are unhappy, they may make the other party laugh at you.

If I feel emotionally abused, I will choose to talk to my friends; Because this can relieve the bitterness in my heart, can help me get out quickly, can make me comfort, and make my heart feel better.

I'll talk to my friends; Because when I was emotionally abused, I was very sad in my heart, and I wanted to find someone to talk to and relieve my pressure.

I don't talk to my friends; Some people are more introverted, I choose to self-digest, and I have fewer friends.

After emotional abuse, I personally don't choose to talk to my friends.

First: many people in the process of falling in love, two people will inevitably have bumps and bumps, there will be contradictions, at this time most people will want to talk to friends, but also to relieve their anxiety, but also want their good friends to give themselves an idea, may feel that talking to friends can alleviate their inner pain, but objectively speaking, I personally will not choose to tell my friends about my emotional problems, because of the things between me and the other half, Only the two of us know, and when I tell my friends, I will generally exaggerate this matter because my negative emotions dominate me, then my friends may think that I made a wrong choice, and may even persuade me to break up, which is actually counterproductive, because at this time, the two people may only have conflicts because of some small problems, so it will be easy for friends to misunderstand, and it is easy for this relationship to be affected externally. Because it's impossible for our good friends to fully understand my relationship status.

Second: If you talk to your friend after feeling hurt emotionally, will your friend be willing to listen? This time is what we need to judge, after all, when we are in a bad mood, we are full of negative energy, and these negative emotions will also be passed on to friends, but we also know that under normal circumstances, of course, we want to hear some happy things, and the other is how to deal with good friends after listening to you?

Should she give you an idea, or should she think of some other way to solve it? After all, only two people know about emotional problems, and other people have no way to intervene to deal with them, so I personally think that it is not recommended to talk to friends after emotional frustration, on the one hand, it will also increase the burden on friends, and friends do not know how to help you, and secondly, friends may also misunderstand the feelings between the two of you.

After emotional abuse, under normal circumstances, I will not find a friend to talk to, because in my impression, my emotional problems, rely on yourself to heal, say it, it is useless, it is possible to make others laugh, it is possible that my concept is incorrect, from another point of view, if you talk to a friend, the friend can share your pain, he can give you comfort, so that you can get out of the pain as soon as possible, so it may be better to talk to a friend.

I will choose to talk to my friends after emotional abuse, because I think it is better to say it, and it is very uncomfortable to hold it in my heart, and my friends can also give me some advice, I can comfort myself, anyway, I think I will feel better after talking to my friends.

After being emotionally abused, of course, you will choose to talk to your friends because your heart is too sad, and then there is someone to accompany you to drink your own sadness to share, or you want others to come up with an idea for you.

If you keep it in your heart, it will cause some damage to your body and mind, which is not conducive to the healthy development of your body and mind.

After emotional abuse, I won't tell my friends, because after you talk about your misfortune, they won't really empathize, although they say comforting words on the surface, but the person who really feels sorry for you is probably only yourself!

After being abused, I will choose to talk to my friends, and after talking to my friends, I can get the comfort of my friends, so that my mood will be much better, my mood will naturally be cheerful, and I will get a solution to the problem.

After the emotional abuse, I will definitely go to the dormitory with my friends, because only by telling my friends will my mood improve.

I probably won't say it, unless yes, I will choose to say it when I can't stand it myself, because I think it's a very dishonorable or unspeakable thing, and I feel quite ashamed, and I don't want them to look at me differently.

If it's emotional abuse, I'll tell my friend, it's better for a good friend to say something like this, and if you talk about it, you'll feel better, and he'll give you some advice.

You will choose to tell your friends, if you don't say it, you feel very uncomfortable, and if you say it, your friends will comfort you, and it can also enhance your feelings, and it will give it to you.

Personally, I don't talk to my friends, because I think when two people get along, there will definitely be contradictions, quarrels, and sadness, but what do these have to do with friends, and let friends worry about it, and it would be good if they could digest it. And some of your friends don't really want you to be good, they just want to see you laugh.

I feel that ordinary friends will not say it, if you are a girlfriend, you can confide in him, because it is very uncomfortable and painful for you to hold it in your heart. But ordinary friends are different, if you confide in him, maybe he is comforting you on the surface. Some people behind your back will laugh at you and even spread your words as a joke.

Yes, you can release your stress and let your friends come up with ideas so that you can find a suitable solution.

I won't tell my friends, maybe my self-esteem doesn't allow it, I feel like a special failure, I can't even hold a man. I'm supposed to swipe similar emotional issues across various platforms to see how to fix them.

Yes. The relationship between the two people is very good, because the other party will share any topics with him, so he will also tell the other party when he encounters any problems.

In fact, I think if I have a very good friend and girlfriend, I will definitely tell him that because if you don't release your emotions for a long time, it is easy to get depressed, and we have to learn to release it, so that our feelings will become better.

I will choose to tell my friends, if I don't say these things, I will feel very uncomfortable, and I will be very aggrieved.

Everyone will experience different emotions, there are successes and failures, we summarize the failures and tell them to your friends. Able to be effectively relieved. There is no such thing as not being able to get out.

I won't, and I feel that it's hard for others to empathize with my own feelings, and I can only come out of this situation by myself.

What is abuse? If you are experiencing violence, please ask the police uncle for help as soon as possible.

If my relationship is abused, I don't choose to talk to my friends because I don't think people can help me and may laugh at me.

I would choose to talk to my friend because I couldn't handle this emotion alone, so I would ask my friend what I could do.