My boyfriend s family is not as good as mine, and my parents mind, what should I do?

There are thousands of forms of love, and others may see you suffering, but you are happy. Either way, the final choice is yours.

1. Don't jump to conclusions, you still have a lot of time.

You can observe the boy slowly. Don't break up immediately or immediately conclude that you have to get married, there is still a long way to go in love, go to run in and observe, work together to see how you can work hard in the future.

Second, how bitter will the so-called hardship be.

You can also go to his house more to see how bad the conditions are, is it in debt? Or the average family just doesn't have as good conditions as your home. If it is the latter, then it is completely possible to rely on two people to work hard, and they will definitely not suffer too much.

And this boy can't bear to make you suffer too much.

3. How to face parents' doubts.

I don't know what your parents' attitude is now, whether they are very strongly opposed to asking you to break up immediately, or whether they talk about it more often.

In any case, if you choose to continue to be with your boyfriend, you will have to pay the price of being bombarded by your family, and both options will come at a price. You can't have it both ways. You have to communicate well with your family, for example, you are still young and unsure, you want to observe and observe, talk more about your boyfriend's advantages, etc.

In short, no matter what happens to us, the family will not leave us. But it's really a pity and sad that the person I really like left because of the opposition of my family.

Keep in love, keep being happy, and keep investigating!

1. How much confidence you have in your boyfriend.

It is said that when your boyfriend is disliked by his parents because of poor family conditions, it is likely that your parents only conclude that your boyfriend's family education is not good because of this external condition, and they feel that his character quality is not good because of the details of his usual contact. How to get your boyfriend back, the first thing is how much confidence you think you have in your boyfriend, after all, your parents are from the past, and you still have the eye to see people, are you just fighting for the sake of fighting? Do you know your boyfriend?

Do you believe that he will never give up no matter how old he is or when he is sick? When you think about this, strengthen your confidence, and then think about how to get your boyfriend back, otherwise it will be in vain.

2. Do a good job in the ideological work of parents.

Parents have suffered in the past, and they deeply understand the truth of "poor and lowly couples mourn everything", so they are actually afraid that you will follow the same old path as them, and they are worried that you will endure hardship, so they oppose you, that is to say, they still hope that you can live happily in their hearts. So if you want to get your boyfriend back, you have to understand this bit of your parents' thoughts, and at the same time communicate with them well, do their ideological work, they dislike your boyfriend's family conditions are not good, in addition to not wanting you to live too hard, there is also an important point that their definition of happiness is wrong. They think that having money to spend, living in a mansion, and driving a beautiful car means that they are happy in life, so the ideological work you have to do is to make them understand that happiness does not depend on how big the house is, but how loud the laughter in the house is.

3. Give confidence to parents.

Two years ago, there was a very popular TV series "Naked Marriage", which tells a story about how a man with poor family conditions can start a family with a woman with better family conditions. At the beginning, the woman's parents also strongly opposed their daughter's marriage to the male protagonist, and in the end, it was the male protagonist's sincerity to the heroine that moved the woman's parents. In fact, many times, the respect that others give us is largely given by ourselves, if you want others to recognize you, you must have the capital to be recognized by others, so when your boyfriend suffers from the opposition of his family, if you want to win back your boyfriend, you have to express your attitude to your parents with him and give them confidence.

In fact, you can tell your parents that people are all developing people, and the current situation is only temporary. You can straighten out your thoughts first, and there are usually parental reasons for disagreeing with your parents.

Most parents will act as people who have come from the past and hope to use their principles to help their children, both financially and emotionally. But now we are all about free love, whether we are married or in love, everyone is free. Therefore, parents give you some advice, as children, I think they have a reason, we can, if what they say is unreasonable, we can only respect it, but do not follow it.

Because our roads were not paved by our parents, but built by ourselves, and we lived the rest of our lives by ourselves.

If you follow your parents' advice and choose to break up with your boyfriend now, if I am not happy in my future marriage, you will regret it yourself. Therefore, it should be remembered that all parents give advice, but the decision is still up to you, and you have to follow your heart. Have a great day!

See if the boy is self-motivated, self-motivated men will not be too bad, the days are passed slowly, if the parents think that he has a good character, just a bad family background, afraid that you will suffer, you can communicate slowly, but also ask yourself if you are willing to accompany him to endure hardships, but girls, you have to believe that your current life is not what you should have, but you are willing. Finally, I wish you happiness, harmony and beauty.

I'm sorry, I'm here to pour cold water on you, I advise you to think about what your parents mean, and don't rush to mend this relationship.

I would even say that sometimes what parents object to is justified, and the feelings that should be given up should be given up.

I'm not materialistic, and I don't advocate foolishness, but what I'm saying next, you should think about whether it makes sense.

It's you, not your parents, who aren't objective.

I know that you are now aggrieved, and even angry, and feel why your parents can't be objective, calmer, and more rational. No, you're wrong, they have to be more objective than you, calmer than you.

Because of the different identities, that person is a lover who gets along with you day and night, but to your parents is just an outsider, a stranger.

For you, he has a lot of advantages, even if there are shortcomings, he can't hide his flaws, and even some shortcomings get along, you feel that he has become his cuteness.

But in the eyes of your parents, this boy may also have strengths, but I'm sorry, shortcomings are shortcomings, and shortcomings are shortcomings.

So we have to understand one thing first, you don't have to be hostile to your parents at first, or think that they are stubborn and look at people with colored glasses.

Because they are the ones who look at your boyfriend with the eyes of outsiders, they may be the objective ones, and they may be the neutral ones who are not emotionally manipulated.

It's hard for parents to object to anything just because they're "poor."

First ask yourself if you really love this boy, then evaluate whether the boy really loves you, and then talk to the family!

First of all, it depends on how big the gap is that the family background is not as good as yours, if it is small, and your boyfriend is very good to you and self-motivated, you can discuss it with your parents, but if you think that the gap is indeed large, then it is necessary to consider your parents' views It mainly depends on your own ideas and considers it carefully.

If you want a better life, you can follow your parents, if you really love your boyfriend, you can also choose your boyfriend at all costs! Anyway, no matter what choice you make, you may regret it later, marriage is a major life event, think carefully!

This requires you to slowly channel your parents' minds, so that they can see the advantages of your men and women, and believe that you will live happily in the future.

Since you have this question, you must have some concerns. Leave it to time, let it be, and see if you will have a problem because of this, and if you can continue.

If it's true love, try to convince your parents that marrying someone you like will really make you happy.

It's good for two people to love each other together, and don't pay too much attention to other people's opinions.

Let's be realistic, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.

If you both genuinely love each other, you can convince your parents.

Parents just want you to live a better life, and if you want to get married, no one can stop you.

Parents are not you, the key is whether you mind or not.