How to confess to your boyfriend that your family is poor, how to tell your boyfriend that your fami

Updated on society 2024-07-31
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's good to tell the truth, you can say how you went to school when you were a child, how you are now, and the family's economy is not good is one thing, to highlight that although your family is poor, they are ambitious, and they have been working hard and hardworking. I'm sure your boyfriend will understand and appreciate the hardships of your parents raising you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    There is no need to confess, the boyfriend knows.

    Your family is poor, and your boyfriend can already know through your mannerisms and spending power, as well as your spending power, and he doesn't need you to confess, he also knows.

    When in love, most boys don't care about the girl's family background. But when the guy is really willing to marry the girl, he will be particularly concerned about the girl's family background, so you have to let your boyfriend know your own family background according to the stage of your relationship and let him make a choice.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Don't worry about this, just say it! It is very important to be in love with a partner, to tell the truth and be sincere, which is the foundation of marriage and love. Although economic conditions are important, "mutual affection" is even more important. The key depends on what you value as a boyfriend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Straight to the point, if he really loves you, he will have a period of thought struggle and then accept, and in the future, if he has a certain financial ability, he will tide over the difficulties with you, if it is such a boy, then I think you can entrust it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sooner or later, you will know this situation, it is better to face the reality, and just say what the situation is, the longer it drags on, the greater the impact on your interactions.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In your relationship with your boyfriend, be a caring person, look at his views and attitudes towards the rich and poor, if he dislikes the poor and loves the rich, you don't have to find ways to tell him that your family is very poor, and if you plan early, you won't be sad and sad. Find a time to get straight to the point, there's nothing to hide. If he doesn't care about this, let him know about you and your family.

    It's best to be honest with each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If it is true that the family is very poor, tell your boyfriend directly once he asks, and don't hide it.

    If you don't tell the truth, your psychological burden will be great, and you will always worry about what will happen to your boyfriend after knowing it, and you will be very tired;

    If you are going to get married, you should not hide the real economic situation of your family, and at this time, you can also test how much your boyfriend loves you;

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you and your boyfriend have just gotten along, it won't be easy to talk about it for a long time, but since your boyfriend wants to get along with you, he should know something about you, including your family, just as you know something about your boyfriend.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This sentence is related to the situation of your boyfriend's family, don't talk about the actual situation in your own family. It's also okay Generally speaking, the conditions are quite different from others, and it's okay to make it clear to your boyfriend. Because money can be earned, human art cannot be rich, and no poor person can be poor for a lifetime.

    It will change after a certain period of time, so it's okay to hide it and talk to your boyfriend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm a straight person, I will tell my boyfriend about the situation at home, and make it clear that if he really loves me, he won't cut off contact with me because my family is poor. If she is interested in the conditions of my family, then she can only say goodbye.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Needless to say, with your self-confidence, with your self-esteem instead of arrogance, with your independence and hard work instead of dependence ...

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The family situation is an objective situation, and both parties can describe their situation openly and honestly, just like a prenuptial agreement, it is best to explain in advance what the situation in your family is when you fall in love, so that you can get along better, I hope it will help you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Needless to say, you can tell him directly with your appearance, for example, if you dress shabby, and change your mobile phone to an elderly person, these are enough to prove that you are poor.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Confess the family situation directly to your boyfriend, he can accept it to show that he really loves you, and if he can't accept it, it means that he doesn't love you, which can make you see a person clearly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dress sloppily, eat roadside stalls, spend cash, and mostly change.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Just say it, or take it home, do your boyfriend mind?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Does your family's poverty have anything to do with him?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Needless to say....If you don't want to be yourself....He himself will slowly learn that the conditions in your home are not good....If he likes you....Naturally I don't care....You tell him now....It will appear that you have no self-confidence....Even if he doesn't care if your family is poor...He's going to dislike you anymore...Who made you mentally poor!

    It's nothing to be in love....But don't look poor mentally!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If it's true love, he won't care if your family is poor or not, because it's not your fault that you're poor. If he is too utilitarian about marriage and doesn't care about you personally, you will live a miserable life after hiding from him. Therefore, when you meet for the first time, tell the truth, it is best to have fate, and no fate will not delay you both from finding true love.

    Remember, it's not your fault that you're poor, and you'll be happy if you work hard to live. Good luck!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why are you telling the other person this? Do you feel that the other person or his family cares about these economic conditions, if this is really the case, you can tactfully tell him that your family conditions are not very good, see how the other party reacts, and then you can make a decision, whether to continue with the other person or end the relationship? If the other party cares a lot about your family conditions, tell the other party as soon as possible, so that both parties can make the right decision, and I wish you a happy life!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Bring it up slowly.

    Try not to say it directly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It was your fault before, and if you don't say it in the future, it's still your fault.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    How to say it! Tell the truth, find a suitable opportunity, and say it directly, don't hide it!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can tell him more subtly. But if he likes it, you shouldn't care about it, after all, he married you, not your family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If he really loves you, he won't dislike you, just say it!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not that the family is poor, it's that my heart is too small. Some people raise their parents, siblings very early

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Tell him directly, if he cares, it means that he doesn't love you, you know, when you fall in love, you naturally want to find an ideal object, you want to entrust it for life, if, because of your poverty, you no longer want you, then what do you want him to do? He doesn't love you, but loves your family, if he doesn't care, then you can, a lover will eventually become a family.

    In addition, in addition to being angry or proposing to break up with your family background, it is also possible that it is because, your deception, I think, after two years of dating, he should at least have some understanding of your family background, you try to tell him step by step, if he really cares about your deception, you sincerely apologize, if because of your family background, I advise you to dump him as soon as possible, if you are afraid of this, and you can't find a partner, then be independent, work hard, come on, and fight for yourself, superior living environment.

    The above is purely a personal opinion, I hope it can help you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You should have told him the truth earlier, I think he really loves you and won't care about your family's situation, because traditionally, men still support the family! There's no need to tell him about this, I think you should let him know through something inadvertently so you can see how he reacts! True love, I don't think that's a problem.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The family is poor, it's not that you are poor, you just have hands and feet. After all, the family doesn't need your help now! When the parents are old, it is an obligation to support them, and there is nothing selfish or selfish.

    On the contrary, if because of this, your boyfriend minds, then it proves that he does not love you at all, but a villain. I don't believe you can't feed yourselves with your hands.

    The only thing to consider is whether your boyfriend's family will have an opinion on this? That's why you're trying to get along with his parents.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Poor? It depends on how much he loves you. Now people are all right, what to say "if you love, don't abandon it", it's all ethereal, people are so realistic now, don't say I hit you, you said that he might gradually be cold to you and then dump you, even if he doesn't mind, what about his parents?

    Are they glad that you have a lover and will be married? It's not as simple as his own words.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You must say, what is not easy to say, being a man is meant to be honest, not to mention the person he loves, he doesn't mind if you ask him, if you don't mind, just say a little, if you mind, you can think about it again, but what is there if you really love each other.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Poor? If he loves you, he will never care, as a man he should give you happiness, what do you have money for, this is the characteristic of patriarchal society, you should put your mind at ease.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    That's right, I've been dating for so long, you should know something! I don't think a man should care if his woman is poor or rich, he should be able to afford to support his own woman unless he doesn't love her! I have a girlfriend who loves to spend money too much, and she doesn't have much money, and sometimes she is hungry, so I told her that when I can afford to support you, I will marry you, and she agreed!

    The point of this is to talk about the responsibility of men.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Let's see if he cares. But after dating for so long, he will more or less know.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Boys don't care about the financial situation of a girl's family. Love has nothing to do with family background.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When I am coquettish, I say that I am poor! It's the best excuse, and when he asks you back, you don't have to introduce yourself!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If he cares a lot about whether your family has money or not! Then you just tell him directly, I believe that a man will not care if a woman has money in her family!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello.

    Think of it this way, if he really loves you, he won't mind.

    If he minds, it's his parents' business, not his business.

    His parents disagreed.

    So. Do you understand???

    I hope you're happy.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    As long as you truly love each other, he shouldn't care about those family backgrounds.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Choose the right opportunity to confess, tell you what you really think, and if he is really hesitant or angry, leave him.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    When I was a child, my family didn't care about me, and I didn't read much.

    I came out to work very early on my own.

    We don't have any skills, we don't know how to live, and we haven't saved money at all.

    I'm a righteous pauper.

    I saw the age of marriage.

    We don't have anything yet.

    I'm worried about finding a daughter-in-law.

    My baby showed up.

    She doesn't dislike me for being poor, as long as I'm good to her.

    And I don't dislike my situation, I'm no different from an orphan.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Khan, I don't think any boy minds if a girl is poor, at least I don't mind.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Remember, it doesn't take anything to love someone! Love is not measured by money!

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It depends on whether the man cares about that.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It seems that girls should mind boys!

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's been two years of dating, what else can't you say directly?

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    As a boy who often comes into contact with fellow women, I understand how you feel at this moment. If I'm right, it's your boyfriend who pursued you first, maybe some of his virtues did impress you at the beginning, and when he confessed to you, you promised to be his girlfriend, but later in life, especially in the seven long relationships, you found out that he wasn't so perfect, maybe trivial life often makes you quarrel, but psychology has an old love complex, and when you haven't found another object that makes you give up on him, you'll still be with him, This may have become a kind of inertia. So you maintain a friendly love.

    In this regard, if you don't love him from the bottom of your heart, confess to him, which is actually a responsible attitude towards you and your boyfriend, so as not to be unhappy in your married life in the future. I think that a man is poor now, nothing, mainly depends on whether he is self-motivated, whether he is a potential stock, looking for a diamond king, sometimes it is better for you to work with a man to be happy, right?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    As long as your hearts are together, and you think that this person is worth it, don't think so much, many times the external reasons can be ignored, you can use some of your own reasons that you think are worth it to convince your parents that they will understand, and I wish you happiness.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Hurry up and separate, it's hard to maintain a marriage without the support of your family.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Chicken rib love, tasteless food, it is a pity to abandon it.

    Love has nothing to do with rich or poor.

    Marriage is not only a combination of love, but also a combination of two family elements, whether it can be successfully integrated depends on the adaptability of both parties.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's been seven years, it's not easy, how many seven years can there be in life. Please don't give up easily. Confess to him.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Marriage is a lifelong thing, and material security is the minimum.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    First of all, the personality is not compatible is the biggest problem, and again it is the resistance of the family, unless the man is very good, and marriage is not as good as falling in love, otherwise it is still ......

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If what he needs is money from your family, then he eats soft rice.

    Such people don't need to pay attention to it at all.

    If he really likes you, he won't dislike you or anything.

    Nowadays, people are rich and confident. I'm talking about men. Women don't have to care if they have money in their own family. In addition, boys are really afraid that girls will dislike their poverty. You don't need to.

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