Some rural relatives are really realistic, have you ever met such relatives?

1.Personally, I think that it is not a rural relative, but most of the relatives are very realistic, when you are not having a good time, no one will help, and there are a lot of cool words; Once your conditions are good, they all come to the knot, they want to get some benefits, you don't give it, and they still talk bad about you everywhere, this is the shortcoming of human nature.

2.People who have lived in rural areas for a long time have more or less a sense of smallholder farming, and they are afraid of living a poor life, so it becomes very realistic, which is also unavoidable.

3.We should look at this problem dialectically, relatives in the countryside also have their advantages, they bear hardships and stand hard work, simple and simple, simple-minded, kind-hearted, etc., without their contributions, the people in the city can not guarantee food, drink, and use, we should tolerate their shortcomings.

In real life, there are many such relatives, and even their dearest aunt may be like this.

Father has 5 brothers and sisters, 4 boys and 1 girl, my aunt is the youngest daughter, very favored, when she was young, she was a little pepper, and later got married and gave birth to a daughter, which is a married little pepper. Divorced her uncle a few years later, and her daughter was raised by her aunt, who didn't have a job and didn't like to go out to find a job. After that, it has been the father's brothers who are filling in the loopholes, whenever the father doesn't want to take care of the aunt anymore, and wants to ask the aunt to support herself, the aunt will find grandma to make trouble, and grandma will find her son to make trouble, and then it has been these sons who take care of the little daughter.

Until the death of my grandmother, I always asked my brothers to take care of my aunt, and the old man's last wish was to be observed. But when I was about the fifth grade, my family and my aunt's family broke up completely.

No one can support the family, can't live, my aunt doesn't work hard every time, she relies on her father to support her, grandma is still eccentric, she is healthy herself, she doesn't work hard, she has to rely on others.

There will always be people who say that relatives in rural areas are relatively wealthy, and they are close to whomever they want, and I would like to say that this has no factual basis, and many rural people do not look at this.

Maybe the reason why someone thinks like this, and says this, is because maybe he sees those rural people who like to do this, and they may see, for example, a person who used to be in the countryside, and then went out to work hard and had a good job, and then drove back to the countryside in a good car.

When some relatives see such rich relatives, they will go over to talk to other people's houses and talk to them. But I want to say that not all rural people are willing to be close to whoever has money, and those relatives who have no money do not associate with each other and look down on them.

The above idea is very wrong, in fact, many rural people are very kind and simple, honest and honest, they don't think so much, they don't have so many thoughts and fancy intestines, they are generally very simple.

On the contrary, sometimes some people in the city may dislike the poor and love the rich, and dislike the rural people. For rural people, they may not have as much money as people in the city, but they are very kind and poor.

I don't want to curry favor with the rich people, to curry favor with the rich people, to pray for some benefit from them. On the contrary, they always have a clear understanding of themselves, they have self-knowledge of themselves, and they do not want to rely on those rich relatives.

They are more willing to use their own hands and hard work to create their own wealth, but they are more intimate and affectionate with those relatives who are not so rich as themselves, and they like to associate with them.

Hello, such relatives in the countryside are all too common. If you have the ability, he will support you, and if you don't have the ability, he will ignore you. Moreover, it will not help you either. At this time, you will find that your relatives are more powerful than passers-by. Thank you.

Yes, there are relatives in the countryside who are quite realistic in themselves. When you are doing well, they all come to talk to you, and they have a very good attitude towards you. When you're having a bad time, they bite you again, hitting you, taunting you, and taunting you.

Yes. Encountered.

Actually, there are also in the city.

Regardless** there are.

He realistically depends on how you deal with it, or rather, how you deal with it.

There is a saying that problems that can be solved with money are not problems, and in the same way, people who can be solved with money will not become a problem.

If you are not afraid of real villains, you are afraid of hypocrites.

When the true face of reality is exposed, there will be a way to deal with it, which is better than a thief.

Rural people are really very realistic, if you are kind to him, he is very good to you, if you treat him badly, he ignores you. Since you mention the countryside, you have to be grateful to the countryside, the farmers, and the relatives and friends in the countryside, whose reality is poor, not that they are not generous, but that their lives are embarrassing.

It is true that some relatives in the countryside are very realistic, because in the face of interests, they will only take care of their own interests. With such relatives, it is necessary to keep a proper distance and try to deal with each other as little as possible.

Encountered. I really couldn't accept it at first, but then I slowly got used to it.

In fact, the reality is not only for relatives in the countryside, but also for relatives in the city.

In reality, in fact, there is nothing wrong with starting from interests, after all, we are in reality. It is understandable that they chose to do so. And if we want to keep the sincerity and warmth in our hearts, we can be ourselves, everyone has their own life.

I have an aunt who is particularly realistic and powerful. She worked outside with my uncle a few years ago, and then she was ready to come back and develop.

My family used to open an electrical appliance store, and then transferred it to her for free. Then they gave the upstairs house to their family as well. At first, because they came back from outside, they accommodated everything. If they don't charge rent, they pay their own utility bills.

That year, I had to check the results of the college entrance examination, but there was no ** at home at that time. I went to her store and asked her if she could check her results, and she said yes.

Unexpectedly, a few days later, she went everywhere to talk, I beat her ** and cost her dozens of yuan, and then scolded and told the people in the store next door. Later, because her store was going to expand, she moved out.

Later, when I came back from college, when I saw her again, she said that you are good-looking now, you used to be so dark and thin, I think you should not be able to find a good boyfriend, just on your terms.

She and my uncle are AA system, which is very trendy in the countryside. My uncle was running the freight outside, and the two of us were running their own business, each taking care of a child. In order to save her children's college expenses, my aunt asked her to join the army when she was in high school, so that she could save hundreds of thousands.

She has a daughter who was raised and went out, and that daughter went to her to play, and she didn't ask her to eat at 12 o'clock at noon, but directly told her to go home, and this daughter will not have anything to do with her in the future.

Her daily pleasure is to make money by herself, and then pick her husband's money, and it has become a habit to pick a little bit every day.

For her own mother, she is also unaccustomed to all kinds of things, and often counts down.

It's been a long time since I've seen her, and it doesn't feel necessary.

Of course I did.

Every year during the Chinese New Year, relatives say something very speechless and realistic. In fact, it can't be considered a reality, it's that their thinking is really backward and solidified. will say that women should not read too many books, and if they read too much and have too high vision, it will be difficult to find a partner, and it will be very troublesome to get married in the future.

It is said that many female doctors are very old and still can't find a partner. Ah, it seems that the most important thing in life is to get married, and everything else that prevents marriage is meaningless. Of course, I will only nod my head perfunctorily, otherwise I will have to fight for the old age.

Relatives in the countryside are very realistic, this is a normal phenomenon, not only relatives in the countryside, but also people in the cities, they are very realistic, they can't move an inch without money, so they have to be realistic.

Some relatives in the countryside are really realistic, haven't you met such relatives? We have no such relatives, we only know between bodybuilders. Very kind and loving, very intimate.

Airport harmony is excellent. But some. Some people.

In reality, most of the people at other airports still have relatives, but some people have been in contact with reality before, and they are not in contact with each other at present. That's what it looks like now. people's minds.

Inconsistent, so there are also such realistic people in the countryside. They are. Xichang's.

Display. So. There is no way.

Only by your own efforts and diligence can you have a good relationship. Alike. Whether rich or poor, it is necessary to have family affection.

Warmth sent to everyone, I feel. That's how everyone is in harmony, you say. Thanks bye.

1. No one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. The meaning of this sentence is that even if you live in the city, you will have relatives to ask you, if you have money, even if you live in the mountains, there will be relatives who will find you, the purpose is to borrow some money, or go to your place to play, anyway, if you have money, you will invite them to dinner. If you don't go to your relatives, you're too poor, and that's one reason.

2. Relatives are weaker than friends. Now that the Internet is developed, many people have gone to junior high school, and they usually talk about everything like their friends, drink together, and generally don't say anything to their relatives, so the feelings will become weaker, and they don't want to leave their relatives, and sometimes they won't say hello when they meet.

3. Relatives and relatives, the closer they are, the more angry they are. Nowadays, young people like to play everywhere, and their relatives will say a few more words when they see them, but the post-90s generation can't hear what these adults say, so the more they see their relatives, the more angry they become, and they don't want to see each other after that.

4. Materialization is too serious, and comparison is everywhere. In the countryside, the level of education is not high, usually at home farming to make a living, idle and bored to discuss the situation of each family, and many people materialization is very serious, some of a lot of comparison, as long as the family is not good, it will become the focus of the village, will be discussed everywhere by the villagers, relatives will also say a few words, young people feel annoyed and do not leave relatives.

In short, relatives are still a little related by blood, after all, these relatives will be called when the family does things, and young people still have to go to relatives more so that they can go. Otherwise, there will be no one to help you with things in the future.

Some people are indeed very realistic. It doesn't matter if this kind of person lives in the city or in the countryside. It's just that the personality is like this.

When I was a child, I was in the countryside, and when relatives came to the door, the countryside was very poor. Mom and Dad always give them something from home. So relatives move around more often.

Especially when there is no money, they will come to the house to borrow it. But the so-called borrowed money is never repaid. Later, life in the countryside gradually became richer.

They also don't have to borrow that money anymore. Relatives have also become strangers and don't move around often. Is this the most realistic.

The first reason: the improvement of living conditions.

In the past, in the countryside, farmers would get together to chat in their spare time, and whoever encountered any difficulties would help together, and they would also follow each other when doing farm work, and the relationship between neighbors was very good, not to mention relatives who were originally related by blood or marriage, and there were many opportunities for everyone to get along.

But with the progress of the times, many people have more employment options, instead of just staying in the countryside to work, many people go to the suburbs or cities to work, everyone has their own careers and lives, and there is not much time to get together.

The second reason: it depends on interests to sustain it.

After less interaction on weekdays, it doesn't mean that the two sides have no relationship, although everyone is not often together on weekdays, but when it comes to the entanglement of interests, relatives will be inexplicably linked. For example, if a relative of a family starts a business or encounters difficulties and needs money, they always feel unsteady when they lend it, and it is not interesting enough if they don't borrow, and some relatives will indeed use "moral kidnapping" to borrow money, which makes people feel very uncomfortable. Or when it comes to dividing property, even many relatives will turn against each other, which makes people feel that "the world is declining".

If you only rely on interests to maintain the relationship, after the two sides meet, they will naturally feel that there is nothing to say.

The third reason: the widespread use of the Internet and mobile phones.

Needless to say, today's young people, many old people and children are even playing with mobile phones, mobile phones facilitate contact between people, but also create a gap in the relationship between each other. Even if it's a Chinese New Year dinner, I will check my phone from time to time to reduce the awkward sense of alienation, which will only lead to a more indifferent relationship.

With the development of society, some problems in human relations will also appear, but I still hope that the exchanges between people can still be more sincere