My boyfriend depends on me for support but often dresses up for a lot of money, should I break up wi

Updated on psychology 2024-07-18
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Of course, this kind of boyfriend is going to break up, is it okay to keep it for the New Year if you don't break up? Although such a boyfriend didn't cuckold you, but what he did was no worse than cuckolding you, a man like him who even abused his girlfriend's money before marriage, how much can you expect him to cherish this family after marrying you?

    And to be honest, I look down on people who pretend to be big and big. There is one thing that is particularly true in the horoscope theory, that is, Scorpio looks down on people who pretend to be forced.

    If you have money, you can naturally spend it as you like, even if you overdraft your living expenses for the next month, as long as the money is yours, you can enjoy it as much as you want, but what's the matter with spending your girlfriend's money indiscriminately? What's more, he's still a man, shouldn't men have their own self-esteem? Don't men hate eating soft rice because they don't have the ability the most?

    How can a person like this who needs a woman to support but doesn't care about the fact that it is his girlfriend's money, squanders it at will and pretends to be a large sum?

    I have to say that this kind of man is not only looked down upon, but he can also see that he has no self-esteem at all, and he has no sense of responsibility as a man, I think even if you get along again, your boyfriend will not be very good to you. So break up with him quickly, and try to get back the money he should give you and get it back, don't let him take advantage of you so much, although it seems that you shouldn't be too entangled in money, money will also make the relationship deteriorate, but you must know that brothers settle accounts, even the closest relatives, and the monetary interests between each other should be calculated clearly.

    Or to put it another way, when he doesn't care about your money and your feelings, and starts spending your money indiscriminately, or even when he needs you to support it, your relationship has already deteriorated. Break up with this kind of man who has no pursuit, no sense of responsibility, and no sense of responsibility as soon as possible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Break up directly and let him stay away, why is this kind of person still staying? Tie the knot? Are you sure you'll be able to live well after you get married?

    Are you really sure? If a man needs to take a girlfriend to support, it doesn't matter, it's good to work hard, or it's okay to be hit or something, a period of decadence or something, it's understandable. If you've always been raised by your girlfriend, you're still pretending to be big?

    That kind of person just uses you as an ATM, this kind of person basically spends all your money and breaks up with you, don't believe it, you try, you tell him that you owe a lot of money in your family, and now you have to work hard every month to pay off the debt, let him find a job to support the two of you, this kind of person will be 99% angry and quarrelsome, and finally break up directly. He's basically just for the money, and if he really works hard to support the two of you, then your money can be saved for the two of you to get married, or for emergencies. In this way, this man can shoulder the responsibility and let you entrust you for life!

    If you can't help it up, hurry up while it's still early, the long pain is better than the short pain, sooner or later there will be such a day, if you get married and have children in the future, wouldn't it be more difficult to separate? If he doesn't change, will you really be able to feed him for the rest of his life? Can endure this kind of person for a lifetime?

    Will you really be happy when you two are together?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think for such a boyfriend, you should give him a certain amount of time so that he can reform as soon as possible, if he still does not seek to improve after this time, you should make another plan.

    Because love originally needs both parties to pay together, especially a family, it must require both men and women to work together to make money to be able to support all expenses, but your boyfriend himself has no income, relying on your salary to support him, which has already violated the original intention of love, after all, as a man should make money to support his family, so that it will be in line with the logic of love, but he relies on you to support, but he still does not want to make progress, take your hard-earned money to pretend to be big, this is the most deadly, After all, as a weak woman, it is not easy to support two people, but he takes your money to squander it without income, which has actually lost the nature and obligations of a man, and has not fulfilled the responsibilities of a man at all, so this kind of dereliction of duty and behavior should be corrected as soon as possible.

    So in this case, you must let him make rectifications in the shortest possible time, whether it is in terms of thought or action, you must be a down-to-earth, dare to pursue the pursuit of young people, because only down-to-earth, face the reality to fight for the life you want, can give you love, a faithful reliance, lay a solid foundation for the two of you to live happily in the future, let him learn to be a qualified boyfriend, a qualified husband, So as not to make the two of you feel out of balance in the process of falling in love, so as not to confuse your responsibilities and obligations.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Break up early, stop losses in time, and after a long time like this, he will feel that you should give him material things like this to show off and let him pretend to be big. And there is a problem with a big money like him, the two of you don't agree with each other, and you will score sooner or later, so it's better to stop the loss in time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This kind of boyfriend is unreliable, break up as soon as possible, it won't bring you happiness, a responsible boyfriend won't let you feed, let alone pretend to be big, love you will earn money to support you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can talk to him first, and if he often cheats others by pretending to be a big sum, you should break up with him decisively.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Break up, the soft rice man still loves to pretend to be forced, this kind of man is really useless.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course you have to break up, such a man is unreliable, and if you don't hear it, you just eat soft rice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is suggested that you can have a good talk with Hehe, and see if he can change some of your requirements for him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you think about it carefully and whether you can accept it like this, the conclusion will be clear.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He is with you because you raised him. What do you want him for?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is such a person worthy of your love?

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard to tell the truth! If you don't break up, you will keep it for the New Year, and wait for him to bring you back a sugar daddy? Grasp the sloppy and hurry up the minutes.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Have a good communication with him. You can give him some time to support himself with his own hands and abilities. No matter how much financial support you give him, if he is mentally an unsupportable Adou, then such support will only hurt him, instead of loving him and helping him.

    If he still doesn't self-reflect and don't work hard, then leave decisively.

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