Why is it so difficult in other people s things that seem to me

It may be difficult to explain specifically, but we can analyze the reasons from two aspects, first, people are born in different environments, and from the family level, we know the behavior and thinking of parents.

Some of it will be copied to the children, and if the parents are in business, then there will be a business atmosphere in the children's family. People who have lived in this environment since childhood, must be extroverted when they grow up, and they will soon be established when they enter the social communication circle, we all know that one of the most important conditions for business is to communicate with each other, and people with this personality are most suitable for communication, which is a congenital factor that some of us do not have! So naturally things will be different in this regard!

This is determined by the circumstances of birth.

Second, social experience, there is an old Chinese saying that the children of poor families are in charge of the house early, and I think this good saying is already very clear! We have a lot of people who feel difficult to do things, this sentence is problematic, in fact, it is not that he is difficult to do things, it is that everyone is difficult to do things, because people who think it is difficult to do things have not experienced it, so he is not only difficult to do one thing, it should be said that it is difficult for her to do anything, such people lack experience, have no responsibility and responsibility, and need help from others for everything, which is cultivated from childhood. Just like today's children have grown up in greenhouses without experience, and even have no ability to take care of themselves, if this kind of life has not changed until he enters the society, I believe it will be difficult for him to do anything, because he is too dependent on others!

On the contrary, since childhood, there is the ability to take care of himself, everything is done by himself, from the mind there is a concept that must be solved by himself, such a person will face anything bravely when he grows up and enters the society, because of the experience since childhood, she has many ways to solve the problem, although she will also encounter difficulties will be brave to face, which verifies a game, difficulties are like springs, you are weak she is strong, and in turn you are strong she is weak.

Hello: 1, it is because you are different from others, everyone's interests and hobbies, and their ability to do things are different. This is the reason for the subdivision of occupations in modern society, where people with different strengths can exchange labor with each other to improve work efficiency and reduce service costs.

2. Most things seem easy, but it is not easy to do them. This is the reason why the superficial appearance of things is not simply consistent with the internal substance.

3. Some people's characteristics are strong ability to do things, and the so-called strong ability means that the success rate of his work is relatively high.

Because everyone is different, there may be things that are easy to you and difficult to others.

Every time I shut down the battery, I would only step on one left leg, and I would never stand up straight.

The car was so heavy that even if I held on to the handlebar on the back seat with one hand and the front of the car with the other, I couldn't pull it back.

It seemed like a simple move to my mom, but I found it extremely difficult.

It's also very difficult to ask for help from others, and I'd rather be alone for a long time than ask for help from others.

But some people are different, what they are best at is to analyze who can help him with this matter, and then all kinds of soft grinding and hard bubbles, playing emotional cards, and then showing weakness, in order to push the matter to the other party to do, even if the process of asking for help to solve it is enough for him to deal with things by himself and go out for a walk for ten turns.

Now, when I am older, I have less enthusiasm and more rejection.

After refusing, I found that others didn't feel anything, and I was relieved.

I used to be very sensitive, even if someone else had a look or a word, I could care about it for a long time.

Some people are different, and they can come out very quickly.

I couldn't do it before, but then I talked to someone, and she kept struggling with what her colleague said, guessing what the other person was trying to say, and she couldn't eat.

Because I was also present at the time, I didn't think that the other party was expressing what she guessed (of course, it is possible that I can't detect it with such a dead brain).

This kind of over-interpretation is actually an additional burden on oneself.

Come back and figure it out.

Everyone is so busy, who cares so much about other people's affairs, and the person who said it may not remember what he said ten minutes later.

Why should we get along with ourselves and keep it in our hearts?

So now I've learned to selectively forget.

When I deliberately practiced for a long time, I found out.

My memory is really bad, hahahahaha.

Then, I began to envy people who have a better memory than they remember.

It's a never-ending cycle.

How to take the bus and how to eat fast food, these things that many people are accustomed to are widely popular after being made **, which is surprising. ......The reason why this common-sense knowledge is so popular is because everyone has their own unfamiliar territory, everyone wants to get the tricks of life, and we are far from being as familiar with everyday life as we think.

1. Everyone has their own unfamiliar areas, which is a normal phenomenon.

Although each of us has different abilities, one thing is the same, that is, it is impossible for each of us to know everything, and there are always some areas that we are not familiar with. ......These and unfamiliar areas may be very high-end existences, but they can also be common-sense knowledge. So don't be surprised when we find that some people are not familiar with very simple things, this is very normal.

2. We all like to learn all kinds of life hacks to make our daily life more convenient and fast.

We encounter various things in our daily lives, which require us to take measures to deal with and solve them. ......In the process of solving problems, if we take the right approach, we can do more with less and increase efficiency. ......For this reason, each of us likes to learn various life hacks to make our daily life more convenient and fast.

3. We are far from being as familiar with daily life as we think.

Although it seems that all these things are simple and easy to master by land, in fact, our familiarity with daily life is far from as high as we think, and there are many people who are not familiar with many things ......Because of this, so many people pay attention to those who introduce common sense of life, and learn unfamiliar knowledge from early Li Liang. This is very normal.

Sometimes, we don't seem to be able to do something that seems to be easy for others to do, as the saying goes, it is not difficult for those who know, but it is not difficult for those who are difficult. For example, some people have a hard time learning English, mathematics, etc., but this does not mean that they are not good at learning, it may just be because they are not proficient enough. To borrow a sentence from "The Oil Seller", "There is no other, but the hands are familiar."

Don't be discouraged or feel inferior when you find that others have done something but you can't do it no matter how hard you try, because there are things you can do that others may not be able to do, on the contrary, don't be arrogant when you can do what others can't, because what she can do may not be able to do.

Don't compare your life to others, because you don't know the whole of their life. Never compare your love story to the movies. Because those things are just written by screenwriters, and yours is written by God.

Don't regret what you've done. I just regret that there are some things that I didn't do when I had the chance!

Many things are easy to do, but it is actually very difficult to do, to see others do some work, for example, others do dozens of things at all, I do a dozen I am tired, practice makes perfect, so everything is easy to do through long-term practice, and hard work is the most important thing

Others are very simple to do, but they don't know what they can, generally there are a lot of troubles, and they are not good at it, and what others are good at belong to this aspect, such as don't play games very well, and you don't know how to play, so you will feel that others are very simple to do, but you can't.

Exercising is easy for others to do, but I can't stick to it.

Everyone has their own strengths, and it will be difficult to pluck other people's strengths from their own weaknesses.

There are so many things like this in life! In the eyes of others is easy to do things to their own but feel very troublesome, the personal level of ability between people is indeed not comparable, for example, in our daily family almost every family will have a bicycle needs to be repaired, some of the male owners in the family can repair it by themselves, and some people's very small problems have to go to the car repair shop to spend money to deal with. It's really common to see things like this in your life!

There are many things that are easy for others to do, but there are actually too many things that you don't know, for example, it seems that some people are familiar with the computer, as simple as eating, but for some people, it is still more difficult than climbing to the sky.

There are also people who talk endlessly, as if this kind of speech is very natural, and the eloquence is very good, but for some people they do stutter, and that is a very difficult thing, if they want to treat me as a thing, so this is a lot of things that seem to be simple to others, but they can't.

And this also depends on everyone's interests, hobbies are different, but some people who like things, if they are just interested, then he looks like he will work hard, and then do well, but some people, he is not interested in those aspects, so he does not study hard, and then he will not go and it is very difficult, this is the difference between people.

There are many of these things, such as cross-industry careers, that is, you don't know anything about the industry, so it's easy for others to do it. You don't know at all, or even don't understand it at all, this is cross-line, so every industry has the rules and foundation of each industry, so not everyone knows this, this takes time. This is the time that each person needs is different, and his ideas are different.

This is very good, so it is easy to encounter things that you don't know how to do, but others do it easily.

There are a lot of things that other people do that are simple but I don't, like tying my shoes. Ride an electric car.

Man is not omnipotent. There are a lot of things that are easy for others to do. And I don't. Because everyone has their own specialty. And everyone's major is different.

Writing English essays, kicking three times in a row, capturing the teacher's heart, etc., are things that are easy for others to do, but I can't.

Those seemingly simple push-ups, others can easily do 30, I do two arms without support, I look old, I didn't exercise when I was young!

It's easy for others to do it, but what I don't know is dancing and doing sit-ups. Seeing that others really do it easily, you just can't do it well. But it's okay, just believe in yourself and have self-confidence.

Angry people come in, others do it, and in an instant she does very difficult things by herself, such as going to bed early and getting up early.

For example, cooking. It seems that deep-fried ribs are simple. In fact. It's still going to be difficult for me to do. It takes a period of practice and hard work. You learn 1 point.

What are the things that others do easily but you don't. People don't have the same IQ. There are a lot of things I don't want to do, but I'm going to do my best to be the best version of myself.

It's easy to do everything by yourself, but it's the hardest when you can't learn it, there are many daily things that are easy for others to do, but it's difficult to do them yourself.

I exercise a lot, I thought I was working out very well, a girl, plank for 30 minutes, 45 minutes done, I, plank before I could stand up, collapsed, I once suspected that my weight was too heavy, my arm could not bear it.

Take one of the simplest movements, which is push-ups, watching others sit is quite simple, but when you do it yourself, it is a little difficult.

Hello! It's just repairing electrical equipment, you don't seem to be able to do it, but others can do it easily, and it's just trying to do a good job.

Some things seem simple and easy to do, but they still can't be done, such as playing table tennis, square dancing, etc., the movements are simple, but it is difficult to be coherent and proficient.

A simple thing is easy for others to learn, but it is not easy for oneself, this person is not clear, everyone's comprehension ability is different, others are easy to do, and it is not easy for others to learn more. It's easy to do it a few more times, and he does it himself three times when he does it once, so he learns it.

This is for sure, people are like this in life now, watching others do things, speaking is very simple, at that time, the whole internship only knew that some things have to go deep and deep basic skills, just like others have done one minute on the stage and ten years off the stage is this truth.