What is the psychology of a boy who speaks very ugly and likes to hurt others?

Some boys are the kind of cheap character who likes to hurt people, and some people say that some boys will deliberately hurt you if they like you, but the person concerned can't feel love at all, so what is the psychology of boys who like to hurt you?

Why do boys like to hurt girls?

1. It's this guy who really hates you.

2. He wants to get your attention mainly to see how he hurts you If his words are rude and unreasonable, annoying, it is estimated to be the first situation, if a girl always likes to damage a boy, the kind of joke, does it mean that the girl likes the boy.

Guys like to damage your psyche?

Maybe he thinks he's happy to tease you, he likes to see you angry, brush up on the sense of existence, you have to remember that if you like you, you will be killed, and the damage depends on what kind of damage it is, and the personal attack should be countered head-on and then ignored, if it is to tease you, you start to respond, then your story begins.

What does it mean that boys like to hurt you?

1, this man knows that this woman likes him anyway, so he is unscrupulous, deliberate, and bullying.

2. Many boys like a girl, so they deliberately use this bullying (harmful) way to get her attention, and want to achieve what they want through unique means.

Why do boys always lose girls?

1. The extent to which a boy harms a girl, if it is within the scope of acceptance and joking, then the boy should have a good impression of the girl.

2. If the boy has been hurting the girl between the couple, then if he likes you within the acceptable range, if he occasionally makes you angry, then he is not sure, and if he often makes you angry, then it means that he may start to dislike you.

This boy wants others to know that he is a "cow". When he spoke, he felt in his heart that he was always right. But for this kind of boy who likes to hurt people, it is actually a performance of no quality, so it's better to stay away.

There are two kinds of men who have been scolding and grumpy for a long time: one is this grumpy man, who is very strong and has achieved certain results. Therefore, he often sees that no one is pleasing to the eye, and likes to find fault with others. If it becomes dirty, it becomes a straw;

Another kind of person is a person who has little ability, but is soft and afraid of hard, in the face of the weak, he is stronger than anyone else, and he scolds when he opens his mouth at every turn, but for people who are stronger than him, he will automatically close his annoying mouth. No matter what kind of person you are, scolding is not advisable.

If a man speaks badly to death, I think the best way for this kind of man is to ignore him, because you can't control his mouth, so your best way is not to listen to him, ignore him, and then don't contact him, then you can't hear, and you won't be upset, if this man is very close to you, then you'd better persuade him, so that he can change her habit of speaking badly in the future.

If he speaks like this to everyone, it means that he has such a personality.

If he only treats you like this, then congratulations, this boy likes you, but most of the Chinese people are not very good at expressing love, so they can only use you to get your attention.

In terms of personality, it should be said that he is very straightforward, and he likes to choke people, be unforgiving, and be sneering!

Each person's personality is different, and the personality determines everyone's attitude towards speaking and doing, among which there will be people who speak well and badly, so what kind of character is it that hurts people? Are people who speak badly have low emotional intelligence? Naxun.

People who speak hurtfully generally do not consider the feelings of others, have a straightforward personality, are snarky, and deliberately target. People who do not consider the feelings of others are more selfish, and they ignore others while taking care of their own feelings, so they often lead to saying something nasty. Straight, on the other hand, don't think too much, to some extent it's very similar to the situation of "disobedient words", they don't use tactful words to express it, and speaking too bluntly will make people feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable.

The above two kinds of unpleasant people are relatively easy to correct, but some people who speak unpleasantly are not simply because of their personality and inadvertently hurt others, but deliberately use language to attack. This kind of person is more bitter and mean, and he can't see the good of others in his heart, and he is more glassy.

When others are doing better than them or achieving more than them, they will say something demeaning about the other person out of jealousy, which is also a means for them to comfort themselves and satisfy themselves by belittling others. Or maybe they are more glassy, sometimes the other party obviously has no intention of targeting, but this kind of person will think that he is a victim through brain supplementation, so he will fight back with ugly or weird words.

Everyone will praise people who can talk with high emotional intelligence, but people who speak hard cannot all be summarized as low emotional intelligence. This is actually related to personality, just like the three personalities mentioned earlier: not considering other people's feelings, straight, and snarky, the first two of these three personalities are actually a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, but the last one is a kind of snarky but cannot be explained by low emotional intelligence.

This kind of person does not say it unintentionally, but deliberately says it for something or a certain state that happened to someone, and its purpose is to make others feel uncomfortable, which will make them feel satisfied or build self-confidence, so it cannot be said that they are also low emotional intelligence.

But this is a deformed idea, and the best way to satisfy one's heart is not by striking or belittling others, but by enriching one's own life and the world. In the same way, building self-confidence is not achieved by belittling others, but by making oneself confident through one's own strength.