I know that if I say too much, I will lose, but I always can t control my mouth, what should I do?

Knowing that if you say too much, you will lose, but you always can't control your mouth, at this time, you should pay attention to talking less and doing more things, avoid making mistakes, and prove it to everyone through your own practical actions.

When you know that talking too much is easy to make mistakes, you should constantly self-suggest in your life, and don't say a lot of things in front of any kind of person, so that you will definitely not be welcomed by everyone. I believe that through long-term self-suggestion, even if I want to speak, I will improve, after all, I know what kind of character I am in my heart, and I am not unaware of myself.

When you can't control your mouth, think about the consequences, not all people can accept such a self, if you want to better integrate into this society, you should have a high degree of consciousness. In the process of getting along with others, many times high emotional intelligence is needed to get along better, so only in the long run will everyone like, rather than being unabashed and causing everyone's dissatisfaction. To truly gain the respect of others is to know how to speak in a measured manner, to be able to have enough self-consciousness, and to think more about the future before speaking.

Although our mentality should be positive, as people who can't control their mouths, we should think about things as bad as possible, so as to better regulate our behavior. If you always think too much about things and think that the other person will not mind your actions, it is easy to make mistakes in your words.

No matter what position and height you are at, you should keep your mouth shut, so that you will leave a good impression on others, which will be helpful to your own development. A truly capable person will not easily say something that is not guaranteed, but let everything he say be confirmed.

1. Don't comment on the rights and wrongs of others.

The first thing a person needs to do is to take care of himself. In life, if you can control your words and deeds, you will be a person who has a very strong cultivation.

Unfortunately, in real life, many people can't manage themselves well, and they like to manage others. Especially relish the rights and wrongs of others, which is actually a taboo in interpersonal communication.

First of all, the rights and wrongs of others are other people's own affairs, and they have nothing to do with you, and if you comment at will, you will not only show that you are rash and uneducated, but also show that you are impolite and disrespectful to others, and it is extremely unwise to do this kind of practice that is not beneficial to yourself and harmful to others.

Second, "He who is right and wrong must be right and wrong." If you judge the rights and wrongs of others, in the eyes of other bystanders, you are also a "right and wrong person". Why do you want to do it?

To be a man, to be a kind person. Don't comment on the rights and wrongs of others, but accumulate virtue for yourself and make good karma for yourself.

2. Don't defend yourself.

If others have prejudices against you, it is useless for you to justify. Don't try to change others, you should learn to turn inward and change yourself.

Summer insects can't talk about ice. In the face of summer insects, you talk to it about the ice and snow in winter, how cold it is, can it be convinced? It thinks it's always hot, and you're just!

There are many three-season people in the world, they are short-sighted and narrow-minded, and you can't change the reason they believe in death, so why bother asking for your own trouble?

Those who are clear are self-purifying, and there is no need to prove themselves.

A truly insightful person never argues with others, but from the different opinions of others, reflects on himself, introspects himself, changes if there is something, and encourages him if he does not.

You should change the way you speak, and when you want to speak, you should have a strong psychological cue, and you should also think about the end of talking nonsense, so that you can change your situation.

Every time you are talking, you can pause for 10 seconds, think clearly before speaking, and don't let yourself open your mouth when necessary, you must meditate in your heart, this time you can avoid saying too much and losing too much.

Usually talk less, when you speak, you must think first not too recklessly, and sometimes you have to read more books to calm yourself down.

Think about it in your head before you speak, and then say what you say when you're done, so you can control it.