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First of all, tell yourself that you care, which means that your heart is not big enough!
There will always be all kinds of unsatisfactory things in the words, some people sprinkle salt and some people splash water, but these are all stingy and easy to envy you.
You don't have to argue with this kind of person about the theory, many things are not explained, which is the best explanation!
You can ignore the unfriendliness thrown by others, not everyone can reply, be a generous person, don't care about external pressure, keep silent, don't argue, and over time those who say bad things about you.
If you feel bored, you will be gone!
Learn to be still and be kind to yourself, if you care about other people's bad words, you also care about your own poor spine, go your own way, and don't care what others say!
Many times we have to think with a wise mind, what do we care about, and what can we do if we don't care? In fact, it's not that we don't care, the important thing is the weight of the person who speaks, whether the person who speaks has positive energy, whether he is really good for me, whether he cares about his words and can grow and progress, then we must care about the words of such people. If it's a sarcasm to fight trivial nonsense, we don't have to care too much about being too entangled, go with the wind, it's going to rain and the mother is going to get married, let him go!
Five words floating in the sky, that's not a thing!
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Cultivate more hobbies and interests, and focus on your career. For what others say, if it is good, learn from it. If it's not good, throw it away like a shoe.
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And I think if you're in the right mindset, you don't care so much about what other people say, and you have to make sure that you have a good mindset, that you control your emotions, and that you don't get swayed by the emotions that other people influence you, your own emotions.
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Think of it as a potato.
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Say no indirectly, not too directly.
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Looking at people, in general, just be straightforward, don't be too tactful.
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Dear, it's not very easy to say to others, it's just that sometimes you feel that you can't get over the face, in fact, you want to go against your will and make yourself unhappy, why don't you refuse.
It's okay to refuse directly, for example, a good friend said can you help me take off the courier, you can say I don't go to that piece, you can go yourself.
Even if you do go, you can refuse to say I can't take it. And I don't come back after taking it and have other things.
Questions. My customers keep sending me unsellable products and expired products, and I'm embarrassed to say no.
This kind of should be refused, forget it this time, the next time he gets the goods, explain to him or note it in the contract, just say that the company's new return.
As for not receiving. You can only bear to take it back.
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