How to make me not want her! Teach me how not to want her .

Concentrate on your own business, and you won't miss her.

"Teach Me How to Don't Want Her" is a modern poem written by Liu Bannong on September 4, 1920. The full poem is as follows:

Beautiful and touching poems, it is heartwarming to read.

The author, Liu Bannong, was born on May 29, 1891 and died on July 14, 1934, a native of Jiangyin, Jiangsu, formerly known as Shoupeng, and later named Fu. He was a pioneer of China's New Culture Movement, a famous writer, linguist and educator.

Liu Bannong, Hu Shi and Shen Yinmo at that time were the initiators of modern Chinese new poetry. Their primary task is to break the rigid rhythm of ancient poetry and the outdated style of literary language, and write new poems with a flexible conversational, natural and simple style. It added a magnificent poem to the May Fourth New Culture Movement.

Teach Me How Not to Want Her" was written by the poet in 1920 when he went to study at the University of London. When you see the title, most people associate it with love. I'm going to tell you, in fact, she is not a love poem, but a homesick song.

It is a portrayal of the wanderer's affection for the motherland and his relatives living abroad.

Knowing his father Mo Ruozi, just as his daughter Liu Xiaohui said:

This poem is not only one of the best masterpieces of modern poetry at that time, but more importantly, it pioneered the use of the Chinese character "she".

Before the May Fourth New Culture Movement, there was no distinction between male and female third-person "he" in Chinese. From this poem onwards, the use of "she" to refer specifically to women gives "her" a special meaning.

As soon as the word "she" was introduced, it was warmly supported and praised by the majority of intellectuals. Because of the appearance of "she", the author and the reader have a tacit understanding, and the writing is more concrete. Women appear to the reader in her unique identity, no longer hidden, standing from behind the scenes to the front of the stage.

As a result, the poem is of extraordinary historical and creative significance.

For more than a century, the character "she" has occupied an indispensable place in Chinese characters and has been widely used. Now "she" not only represents women, but at a certain moment "she" is also a symbol of the motherland and mother.

Today, when we reread this poem, we have a better understanding of the poet's creative mood at that time.

Motherland, mother, whenever and wherever I am, taught me how not to want "her"!

Calling How I Don't Want Her is the name of a song that literally means missing someone.

If a man is tempted and emotionally attracted to a woman, he will never forget it, he will think of each other from time to time, and even feel that time has passed very long, and he wants to see her soon. When a man falls in love with this woman, he will become unable to extricate himself, two people are in the same city, it's okay, when you miss her, you can go to her at any time, if two people are separated from each other and can't see each other often, you will miss it very much.

If a man and a woman get along, there are some misunderstandings or contradictions, or some other things, and the man and the woman are separated, but they can't let go, and they will still miss it in their hearts, even though the woman has left, they can never let go. Sometimes, when a man is in love, he will have a very strong longing in his heart, even if he has just separated from a woman, he starts to miss it again, he can't sleep, and he thinks of her.

Missing a person's performance

When a man misses a woman very much, he can't tolerate others, even if there are other people of the opposite sex who want to contact him, he will refuse, and then go out for a walk alone. When he walked outside alone, in fact, his heart was full of the person he missed, and the picture of getting along with her would always surface, and then unconsciously walked downstairs to the other party, watching quietly, waiting, hoping that the other party would appear, but not going up to disturb the other party.

True love is restraint, if a man walks downstairs to a woman, but does not go up, quietly watching the other party go upstairs without disturbing, it is true love, and the thoughts in his heart are getting stronger and stronger, this contradiction, love is not seen, thoughts are not disturbed, just do not want to burden the other party.

Tell Me How I Don't Want She was written by Liu Bannong in 1920 while studying at the University of London, England, and is an important poem widely circulated in early China. Because of its harmonious rhyme and fluent language, the poem was composed by the famous linguist Zhao Yuanren in 1926 and widely sung. Liu Bannong pioneered the use of the word "she" in this poem, which was widely praised.

Original text of the work: There are some clouds in the sky, and some breeze is blowing on the ground.

Yes! The breeze ruffled my hair and taught me how not to want her?

The moonlight is in love with the ocean, and the ocean is in love with the moonlight.

Yes! It's a honey-like silver night.

Teach me how not to want "her".

The flowers on the surface of the water flow slowly, and the fish on the bottom swim slowly.

Yes! Swallow, what do you say?

Teach me how not to want "her".

Dead trees shook in the cold wind, and wildfires burned in the twilight.

Background:In 1920, he went to study at the University of London in England and devoted himself to linguistic research. The title of the poem was originally called "Love Song" and later changed to "Teach Me How to Don't Want Her".

Before May Fourth, there was no distinction between men and women in the Chinese character "he", and Liu Bannong pioneered "she" to refer to women in "Teach Me How to Don't Want Her", which was widely recognized by society. In 1926, Zhao Yuanren composed this poem and it was widely circulated.