How do you think that people who hurt their relatives with their words and deeds end up being hurt b

1.A lot of times it's like everyone says, there will be karma, so some people will be like this!

2.There is also a possibility that the family will not care about him at all, so he will not get some so-called returns, or retribution and harm, etc.

3.Maybe they will be separated at the beginning, then this one won't, but she will always be lonely, because he hurt through words, then he must have no other results, and in the end, he will definitely regret it.

4.If you redeem this word, there will definitely be no unredeemable results, but there are some words, he will always forgive, because it is a family.

5.It is possible that after doing it, you will regret it very much, and sometimes you just don't control yourself, then you can choose to learn to control yourself more in many cases.

People whose words and deeds hurt their loved ones end up being hurt by their loved ones' words and deeds, and it is more accurate to look at this problem only by using the cycle of karma. It is said that when is the time for retribution, the person who hurts his relatives with words and deeds finally annoys the person who has hurt his relatives, which is also called karma with cause and effect. In order to reduce mutual harm between relatives, it is best not to regard the tolerance of relatives as weakness, and blindly hurt no relatives**.

I can't bear to be hurt by my loved ones, and I think you can be hurt because you care about them, and if you don't care about them, you won't get hurt.

You are hurt by your loved ones, I can't bear it for you, if this is the case, then I advise you not to be with these people in the future.

You have been hurt by your loved ones, and your loved ones' words and actions are too much for you to bear. They hurt you deeply with the most vicious language, then you have to think about what you did wrong, and if you don't, you will be encouraged, but you must alienate this relative of yours, after all, his behavior has caused you a lot of damage.

I think sometimes it depends on the situation, if it's your parents, you have to try to forgive them, if it's other relatives who do such things, then it's unforgivable.

You are accepted by your dearest, the person who hurts your loved one, and it is really impossible to be with him, it is very uncomfortable to be with such a lover.

If something like this happens, it's better to be separated from him for a while, so that it will be better to be calm and calm.

Since your dearest relatives attack you with unbearable vicious language, then you should not be close to him anymore, and live your own life is the only way to give them a fatal counterattack.

If you are hurt by the people closest to you, then you try to stay away, they build their own families and start their own lives, and then make it clear to them to break off the relationship.

Remember, no loved one can hurt you in the name of loving you, but will refute it.

People in my own family hurt their own people, and I don't think my relatives are even as good as outsiders

Being hurt by your closest relatives, if it's too much, then don't pay attention to him.

You can run away from home.

Stay away from this place of right and wrong, so that your ears and eyes will be clear.

Strengthen psychological construction.

Stay away from them.

I was hurt by my dearest relatives' words and behaviors, so that I could not bear the most vicious language, deeply hurt me, if we can't be together, just leave, live alone.

I was hurt by my dearest relatives, and my relatives' words and actions made me unable to bear the most vicious intentions, and deeply hurt me. You still learn to really go.

If a loved one keeps hurting me, then I may stay away from him forever and will not have any contact with him.

Anyone who hurts himself is to stay away, for he has come to take revenge.

Because your relatives are sure that you will not leave her, they will hurt you without any scruples, which is normal.

Because we often face outsiders, we can still retain basic respect and politeness, but for our closest people, the tone of speech is also very casual, and the attitude is relatively poor, thinking that it is our relatives anyway, and we can do whatever we want, but this will often bring great harm to our dearest people, and I hope you will also pay attention to your attitude towards your relatives in the future.

Because relatives are what they care about the most, and people often say the most hurtful words to the people closest to them, and only the people closest to them can really hurt themselves.

Because it is often easier for loved ones to dig into our weaknesses and then inflict a fatal blow on us. Of course, sometimes the relatives are more unscrupulous, so they hurt us the most.

Because there is always a gap between strangers, it is also considered when speaking. But when people face their loved ones, they are unscrupulous. So it's easier to hurt yourself.

Because the closer the person does something sorry for himself, the more chilled he will be, and this scar will always remain in his heart.

Because as a relative, I know myself better, and I am more fearless, so I hurt myself the most.

Because your loved ones are the people you trust the most, if they hurt you, you will be very bad.

Because the most contact in life is your parents, friends in life, they will generally follow your will and will not disobey you, but your parents will let you see the reality clearly, and they will do a lot of actions that are harmful to you.

: Generally manifested in the mental damage to loved ones.

People with paranoid personality disorder are stubborn, suspicious, hypervigilant, narrow-minded, and jealous; Excessive self-esteem, experiencing that oneself is too important, tendency to pass the buck and objectivity, refusing to accept criticism, being overly sensitive to setbacks and failures, arguing, sophistry, and even impulsive attacks and aggressiveness when questioned; There are often certain overpriced ideas and insecurity, unpleasantness, and lack of a sense of humor.

Such people are constantly on the lookout for suspicion and prejudice, acting hostile and contemptuous of the neutral or benign actions of others, and lacking a correct assessment of the context of the situation; Prone to pathological jealousy. Such people are generally self-harmonious and do not actively or passively seek medical help. They are usually found in petition departments or in the context of forensic psychiatric evaluations.

Extension: Paranoid personality disorder is a type of personality disorder, the number of which is unknown in the general population, they rarely seek help from doctors, and if their spouse or colleague accompanies them, they tend to deny or defend them, making it difficult for them to discern the truth. They are often overwhelmed and trapped in unspeakable pain.

According to survey data, the number of people with paranoid personality disorder accounts for the total number of people with psychological disorders, and the actual situation may exceed this proportion because such people are rarely self-aware and deny their biased behavior. When he realizes this problem, it is difficult for him to change.

When you ask for help from the outside world, it is difficult for others to sustain your guidance for too long, and you fall back into the way you used to be. I often dredge myself in many ways to get myself out of trouble, but it's hard. The prevalence is: It is more common in men.

Hello, people with paranoid personality disorder often experience extreme behaviors such as self-harm and suicide. Because patients are cognitively deficient and unable to distinguish between self and reality, it is easy for them to engage in self-harm or harm to those around them in real life. It is recommended that family members care more about the patient, communicate with them more, and intervene in time if there is a tendency to self-harm and suicide**.

Paranoid personality disorder is a personality disorder with pathological stubborn beliefs that tend to go to extremes. 1. Manifestations: Paranoid personality disorder is mainly allergic, suspicious, opinionated and easy to hold grudges. Allergy and paranoia are essential features of paranoid personality disorder.

See if the relatives who hurt you are remorseful, whether they are willing to compensate for his mistakes, the important thing is to look at his attitude, for those who do not know their mistakes and are not straight, I suggest that you collect evidence to sue him, you can discuss with other relatives, you can also let others know how he hurt you, let them know what kind of hateful person he is, make his sins public, find more upright friends around him, relatives to help, discuss how to make him compensate for his sins, there is nothing impossible to solve, hatred can be repaid, but don't break the law so stupid. It is better to settle it peacefully, and the best and wisest solution is to resolve the hatred and minimize the damage. I hope your heart is tolerant of things.

Hatred is terrible, I hope you can defuse it.

In many cases, these are in intimate relationships.

The person who attacks will think that they are attacking unconsciously, and they will not know the motives for what they are doing.

What is it that keeps hurting those closest to us? The reasons may lie in the following:

1.When confronted with TA, you will do things that you would not do to others.

When we are in an intimate relationship, you do things to them that you would not do to others. For example, you may be a good-natured person in front of your colleagues and friends, but you are very angry with those close to you.

This may be because we don't demand the same from them as we do from other people. For example, when you have a meal with a friend, you can ask the other person to order whatever they want, but you can't accept them ordering something that you don't like to eat.

In addition, we will launch attacks on close people because we feel that the relationship is a relatively safe territory, and it is easier for you to express your true emotions and feelings.

Psychological Interpretation: Why Do We Always Hurt Our Loved Ones?

2.They are more likely to feel hurt.

Sometimes, you feel like you're just making an ordinary gesture that doesn't mean to hurt, but you hurt the other person. This is because you are very important to each other, and they want to know and care about you deeply and comprehensively, and they care a lot about what you think of them. Therefore, your words or actions may be interpreted in a hurtful way.

It's all because you are important and special in the eyes of them, and when you behave the same as others, they will understand them in a different way. He has a new hairstyle, and if it is just a common colleague who laughs at him, he may not care too much; But if you show that you don't like it, they may look in the mirror repeatedly and feel frustrated.

3 Behind the attack, we have expectations for the relationship.

Sometimes, aggression can reflect deeper issues in your relationship – distance and power. In any intimate relationship, distance and power are very central factors, showing the equality of your relationship and who is the dominant and controlling party.

The act of aggression is often an alarm that there is a problem in the relationship, and the party who is attacking is using this last resort to reveal the problem and express a desire to fix the relationship. At the same time, it is also a last resort when nothing else works.

Aggression can be a sign of dissatisfaction with the distance in the relationship.

In intimacy, we all want to adjust the distance between each other to the most comfortable state, but this is difficult to achieve in reality.

When you are unhappy with the distance between you and cannot change it in other ways, you may act aggressively in an attempt to bring the distance back to the normal range. If you don't feel close enough, you may attack to get the other person's attention and attention. If you feel too close, you may attack to fight for independence and freedom.

People habitually hurt their closest people, because of these closest people, we usually pay little attention to their inner feelings, rarely care about their inner details, and thus invisibly hurt them, mainly because we don't care too much about our family members and don't care enough about it.

People habitually hurt the people closest to them, this is because people are unadorned in front of their closest people, all their shortcomings will be exposed, and they will not take into account the feelings of their closest relatives, so it is inevitable that they will habitually hurt.

It may be because you are most familiar with the people closest to you, you know the bottom line of the person, you know what will happen after the injury, you know the person, you have no fear, the person closest to you often cares about you the most, generally your parents, siblings, or friends, you get along day and night, it is easy to open your heart and say the truest things in your heart, and you may be the most real in front of them, because you don't need to disguise, you don't need to be like outside, pretend to be generous, pretend to be gentle, and it doesn't matter if you expose your nature. And the closest people often get along for a long time, you will find each other's problems, there may be some trivial things in daily life to annoy each other, and it is easy to break out at a certain point, and then you will be on this point, plus the previous things, the contradiction will continue to deepen, and the harm will naturally become greater and greater. Because you know enough about them and don't need to suppress yourself, it will naturally cause habitual harm.

It may also be that the person closest to you has been with you for a long time, and the other person has been with you for a short time, and you will have this feeling, "I am habitually hurting the person closest to me".

Respondents believe that the people closest to us often need more care, after all, they are our deepest connection with the world, even if you are experiencing ups and downs outside, they are always your safe haven, inclusive of everything you have. If it hurts, apologize in time and believe they will forgive. If you put yourself in their shoes, you might be able to do a lot less damage.

Remember, don't take other people's concessions and tolerance for granted, there will be back and forth for a long time, and mutual understanding and tolerance should be understood.