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I'm a girl, my boyfriend is looking for a job, he loves me very much, I feel very happy with him, I have hesitated, but the most important thing for my husband is to make you feel happy, and we are both capable, so as long as we work together, I think I will always be happy in my future life. So you know how to do it.

I just want to tell you that my boyfriend has been graduating for many years and is still in his over a thousand, but I believe him. As long as he is willing to work hard, we will have a better life after all. We have joy in suffering.

If you let go, you will eventually get married, the same, you have to work hard for life and tomorrow, not to mention that you love her.

Selflessness and selfishness coexist, and your mental struggle clearly proves this, letting go is a difficult action, and you should go for it if you have this uniform. The head is broken and bleeding, and besides, is there any ability, men have to hate themselves a little, not a little bit of girlfriend Understand? I've got you for the wedding.

Shanxi Yixiang wedding Liang Yi.

Does she deserve your love, and does she love you? You are a very decent person, but your psychological quality is not good, you are too good and too inferior, and your ability to adapt to the current society is very poor. If it's yours, go for it wholeheartedly.

I know very well your heart, I want to find the object I like, but I haven't found it well after looking for many years, but I have to get married, my parents are old, and I hope you get married soon. Whether it is sacrificing for your family or not, the question is whether you are planning for the worst.

For women, love and family are really important, but women should be strong and believe in themselves!

Women have to be independent and be their own backers, so they won't come! Be strong for those who love you! ~

If you can't even rely on yourself, who else can you count on?

It still depends on you, what kind of life do you want, and you decide whether you want to be separated from him or not, I have also encountered this kind of person, and I chose to break up, because I can't stand a self-motivated person, he can be poor, but he must have the spirit of not admitting defeat Always be content and happy, I think it's the work of the weak, even if you love me very much, it's a kind of bondage, so I chose to give up, as for hurting him, and then he found another one, and then added me to scold me for nothing, and I didn't say a word, and I paid it back.

Money and love must be both. Otherwise, in this cheesy society, sooner or later something unhappy will happen. Most marital disputes arise from life, and life disputes mostly stem from money issues. Sometimes feelings are very small.

It's not money worship, it's just saying some facts that you don't want to admit.

Also, I didn't ask you to divide it, I just wanted you to see your heart. If you want more, I think he may not be able to give you, but he will make up for it with his love, but unfortunately sometimes, no matter how much love you can't give, you will still be disappointed. He's going to be unbalanced, and he'll say to you, "I gave you what I have, and you're not satisfied," but he never knew that even if he gave you a cart of apples, what you wanted was oranges.

He is an emotional man who can give emotional needs, but you know best how to be self-motivated, self-motivation and ability can give you a material basis. Choose for yourself, and you will surely design a lifetime of happiness.

There are pros and cons, it's best to spend enough, love and money can't be separated. You love each other, but you also need money to live, so as long as the man can earn enough to spend, there is no need to be rich.

You won't be able to choose this yourself??? If you want money or people, you can ......... in one sentence

Follow your heart, that is, to choose to cry in the BMW or laugh on the bicycle is a meaning, whether you love or not, your choice is your life's, and the road you choose will be completed on your knees.

Love and money have to be chosen, it will be different when you get married, you will know that nothing is possible without money, before marriage, two people had a good relationship, nothing happened, and after marriage, it will hurt feelings because of money.

If it were me, I would choose love, money can't buy love. Since he loves you, you can work hard together to make life a little more fulfilling.

Love him to share weal and woe, the family is supported by 2 people, he is good to you, you must also pay.

I choose money ... If he treats you well, he advises you not to share, and having money may not necessarily lead to a good life.

Love, give you a very rich one, don't care about you, don't go home for a few days, encounter something, don't understand you, do you want it.

In fact, life is almost passable, and it is best to be plain. I should understand this truth later. If you find a rich man now, she doesn't love you, she doesn't let you, she doesn't love you, it's useless, think about it, you're cold all day long, don't you chill.

So, the most important thing is to find someone who loves you and work together in the future.

Poor couples mourn everything, if you are very poor, your love will be exhausted sooner or later. But if there is only money and no love, it is also very painful. So think about it, I suggest that if you are not very poor, you can maintain a normal life, and then you can be together if you love each other very much.

If you are really poor, break up.

A living example tells you that my sister found a boyfriend who was her classmate, very ugly, and had no money, and she was so self-motivated, and another classmate of my sister was also chasing her at that time, and the conditions were much better, but my sister finally chose a person she loved, not to mention that her husband didn't give her a penny after she got married, and her 8-month-old belly was still at work, and she went back to her parents' house when she was 9 months old. My sister also said that his husband is not such a person, and he cried at the end, what I want to tell you is to find someone who loves himself is much better than what he loves, money, what is not to look at money in this society now, you don't need a lot of money, but at least life is not difficult, which parents want their daughter to suffer with a poor bastard, especially the kind that is poor all day long and doesn't want to do things, Men can have less but can't lack fighting spirit, no matter how good it is to you after a long time, you will be tired, if he is willing to let you suffer with him, this is not called love, He just uses his kindness to you to keep you, tolerate everything about you, and let you lose your temper so that other men can't stand your temper, although I don't know what kind of person your boyfriend is, and I don't know what you think, everything goes with your feelings, but you have to consider your parents, no matter what, your parents will not harm you, come on!!

Gu Liang, poor couples mourn for a hundred days, this sentence can be passed down because of the lessons of the past.

Poor couples mourn everything, and I think love itself is a kind of strength. Although he is poor, but he learns that your parents are not happy with him, is he not self-motivated? I think you get the idea. Love isn't everything.

How can a man not be self-motivated! Settle for the status quo! Even if it's perfunctory, your parents can't do it.

Standing in my position, I have to think about it, to put it very realistically, life is oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, which one can leave money, he can have no money but can't make you suffer, right! Just a suggestion!

No matter what, if he loves you, he will work hard and let your parents accept it.

How do you feel? What kind of life do you want to live in the future? Perhaps he is not sure what he will achieve in the future.

Marriage is a cold thing for many people, most of the time it will not develop according to your expectations, just like if you take care of a fruit tree, it may not be able to pick up the fruit you want, don't care too much about feelings, just enjoy the bits and pieces that marriage can bring you, don't blame marriage for all the troubles, because people will be upset, regardless of whether marriage exists or not.

Go to your bosom friend to cry, and then let your bosom friend go and tell your husband, talk about it well, don't take all the grievances to heart, so that your husband thinks you are weak.

I suddenly understood why I wanted to get married

To see if there is a sense of ambition, women had better be realistic.

Life is still inseparable from firewood, rice, oil and salt, so weigh it yourself.

It can be considered that as long as he is not not doing his job, he can get married, and the money can be earned after marriage, and if he misses this relationship, he will never come back.

It will be because you will get a true love that belongs to you.

The meaning of marrying does not need to be explained at all, he is not poor, you are his greatest wealth.

If you don't have money, you are not afraid, as long as you are willing to work, such a man is a good man. It is because he knows that he has no money. So he cherishes you very much, and he will also work hard to create everything, and you are very happy.

I think it will, and laughing on a bike is always a hundred times better than crying while sitting in a BMW.

As long as you have the ability, the difficulty is only temporary.

That's the case with me, and then I married him, and it's been three years, and I still don't have any money, and now I regret it.

Who knows if he is really good to you, see people's hearts for a long time, and get along with him just talk about it, otherwise it will be too late for you to regret it.

It depends on the situation, and those who are self-motivated can marry.

No, after getting married, it will be a trivial matter of life in firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and sooner or later if you don't have money, you will ...... because of quarrels

If you are not very old, let's work together first! In this process, you also have to know that he is not only good to you, but also self-motivated, if he is only good to you, you may get tired in the future.

Yes, you can work hard together, on the other hand, if a person has money, it is not good for you, what is the use of not caring about you? I'd rather laugh and get tired than cry and enjoy.

Yes, I will work with him to create a future that belongs to us. And never give up.

No!!! After getting married, I will eat it.

As long as he is good to me for the rest of his life, he will marry.

Yes!! The so-called affectionate drink water is full.

Emotions are non-material, love is non-life, such as life is hard, it is not a thing

Yes, my husband and I are married and have children. The two of us worked together, and the economy slowly improved.

If he doesn't pay at all, then what kind of marriage is he talking about? It's not good to raise a son and give birth to one yourself, so why should you help someone else raise it? What's more, it's such a big one, and it's not related by blood.

of ......If you just ask the woman to contribute a part of the money, it depends on the situation. For example, the family situation is not good, or the current economic situation is not good, but because of the objective situation to rush to get married, the son-in-law, the marriage cost of the man has accounted for a relatively large proportion (such as a house, car, high gift money, etc.), the wedding of the man's family is less or unilateral wedding in a different place, etc., the woman is responsible for part of the money. Establishing a family is originally built by two people, and if you can discuss it, there is nothing you can't do.

It is recommended that you check out the recent new TV series Who is afraid of whom in the face of love and you will get the answer.

The reality is indeed a little, one side has no confidence in the other and feels that he can't make money; He felt that she could not fight with him (the man may have low self-esteem); Or maybe you still don't have the faith.

Accept the reality, children, not everyone can afford all the expenses after marriage.

Only if you have money can you give a bride price, and only if you have money can you raise your children.

The vast majority of promises do not need to be kept, and money is the basis of living reality.

Why, I have been in love for many years, and when it comes to money when I get married, my previous promises are not as good as a fart. Remorse.

That's just one side of the story.

If he really doesn't have any money, but he has a lot of ability, that's fine, even if it's renting a house. After all, you have lived with him for the rest of your life, not your parents. If he has neither money nor ability, and is unwilling to endure hardships to make money, then what do you like about him?

It doesn't work to be full of love and water in these years!! If you don't want to suffer too much for the rest of your life, then please break up. If you are willing to die for the people you love, then the rest doesn't matter!!

Divide it! I can't even give you a home, why do you still marry him, and let your family cushion first, because of what he said, your parents don't agree, so you can't marry him. Divide it! My advice.

This depends on the specific situation, to see if he is self-motivated, whether he has a certain ability, if he is really a lazy person, and has nothing, what are you trying to do with him?

If he is a self-motivated person, can endure hardships, is willing to work hard, and is a potential stock, the investment is also worth it.

The rest is up to feelings.

I'm dizzy! Even if you marry such a man, I don't think you will be happy!

To use a woman's money to get married, it shows that the ability is too much!

I advise you to follow your parents' opinions, no parent in the world will harm their children!

A misstep becomes a thousand years of hatred, be careful when he doesn't recognize people in the future, you will be miserable... The incident of the Internet boss is an example of this!

Ask yourself if you care about money or what? Do you really love her? Money is important, but if you really love him, will you hesitate because of these other things?

I don't agree with what this comrade said, love is one thing, marriage is another, you must first have a material foundation before you can consider getting married, as the saying goes, poor and lowly couples mourn everything, if you don't even have a material foundation, you want to get married, you can only two people suffer together for a lifetime, you can't afford to eat, you can't afford to support your family, what else to talk about marriage.

But the landlord, you, also have a long-term vision, to see if this man belongs to the potential stock type, it depends on your vision, if this man is more self-motivated, work hard, there is still a chance, come on.