Please talk about the pros and cons of falling in love in junior high school

Junior high school is very ignorant, junior high school falls in love because it is ignorant and boring, girls don't hold what naïve ideas are there when they go to college and get married with their boyfriends in the future, the world is very big, and boys will be obsessed with you? Of course it is possible, but the funny thing is that it is impossible for someone to see through such a world in junior high school, and when you grow up, you may find that there are really many handsome guys and beauties in the world, and men will not be able to control it. To sum up, Leigh:

Men and women are bored in life, and at the same time they can talk about their youth under love and pastime, as a boy, they can immediately "grow up to be a man" if they have a strong "means", and they know something about men and women; Disadvantages: Don't hold the childish idea of being forever, you haven't seen all kinds of society, (male) when you grow up in a few years, you will find that there are a lot of good girls, so the women I talked about in junior high school were sad, I don't know if the questioner is a man or a woman, but this is also the idea I experienced in junior high school, and now I am a sophomore in high school.

Advantageous: learn to deal with the relationship between men and women, know how to be considerate of others, help each other in re-study and life, and confide in each other when you have something on your mind. When someone pays for being coquettish, you won't be alone. It's troublesome to get pregnant after cohabitation.

Disadvantages: Delay your studies, go to society after graduation and find that there are people who understand, care and take care of you more than your first love.

So if you think about it carefully, I didn't have a partner in 8 years of study in order to study medicine. Now the foundation is relatively solid, it is very convenient to learn other research courses, and it is also quick to be promoted by the leader.

Suggestion: Help each other together with parental consent. Women should look for women who are 2 years older than you, so that they can take care of you. Male: Find someone who is filial, sensible and knows how to manage money. This gives a better chance of parental consent.

Satisfied.

Pros: 1: Conducive to the common development of spiritual life and material life;

2: Be able to broaden your social surface and facilitate the accumulation of contacts;

3: It is conducive to establishing a common life goal and using it as a driving force to move forward;

4: Enrich extracurricular life and relieve tense learning pressure;

5: Build a strong foundation for future love.

Disadvantages: 1: It will affect academic performance to varying degrees;

2: It is easy to steal forbidden fruits, and safety measures are not in place, which is easy to cause physical and mental harm.

3: Puppy love is easy to cause a series of campus management order destruction;

4: It is easy to cause violent conflicts on campus and endanger personal safety;

5: It is easy to lose morale and lose direction.

Profit can make you mature and not be so naïve.

Cons affect learning very much.

It's better to wait, don't follow the crowd, have your own judgment, and study hard in junior high school.

You're only in junior high school now. It's not suitable for a relationship. Your main task now is to study well. Admission to an ideal school in the future. There is no object to engage in at that time. So you shouldn't fall in love now, the main task is to concentrate on studying hard.

Actually, it's very inappropriate. It's best to fall in love in college, junior high school is too young, and high school has to be studied. In fact, if you study well in junior high school and high school, it is not better to fall in love when you get to a good university.

I fell in love when I was in junior high school (now a Ph.D.), and my personal experience is that although it is beautiful, most of the boys at this age have no sense of responsibility, except for the late-maturing boys, who are introverted and more shy. The important thing is to find the right person, the right person will make you have a good memory of having love from school uniforms to wedding dresses.

What is suitable? You have to use time to prove, remember my words, girls should have self-respect and self-love. There is also a look at his usual personality and whether he is self-motivated.

If he treats his previous partner badly or says bad things about his ex, then listen to me and don't look for it, and try not to look for it if he has a bad temper. From school uniforms to wedding dresses are ideals, and respecting the heart is king.

Hello, of course it's not suitable, you're still young, you don't know anything, you still have to focus on your studies.

This is the best is fate, the perspective of parents and teachers is actually not good to fall in love, because in the case that the child does not have a complete three views and cognition of things, it is easy to do stupid things because of feelings, for the other party to die or live, pregnant, for the sake of feelings and then delay learning repeatedly, so most people are indeed not suitable for early love.

But early love is indeed good, if parents can have the right guidance, children will not hide a lot of things, will not cross the bottom line, together can encourage each other to learn together, then early love is really pure and sweet, as well as the child's emotional intelligence, empathy ability has been greatly improved.

But how many children can tell their parents about these things? Won't it really delay studying, won't you cross the bottom line and do stupid things-.-