If you don t want to be kind and be treated as a fool, what are these points to remember?

Updated on society 2024-07-24
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Your kindness must be blind, don't help some people who don't know how to be grateful, when helping others, you should have your own principles and bottom line when you have the ability.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't go too much to others, learn to go to the pros and cons, be kind to yourself, think more about yourself, and figure out the character of the people around you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you can be kind, but you must be specific to the situation, whether you want to be used by others or not, just remember these points.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't take other people's kindness for a fool's sentence:

    1, kindness does not mean stupid, stupid, everyone understands in their hearts just don't say it, don't always take others as fools, those who can't hide it behind their backs are fools.

    2, since you love to lift the bar so much, who is the bar if you don't bar? I don't know how to be grateful if I love to take advantage of things, I don't want to say it openly to save face, I really start a fan, and I take others as fools.

    3, some people don't always take others as fools, I'm good at talking, but you don't want to be someone who doesn't know how to count, there is no such bearish person, I found that some people can't be too used to it, you always take it for granted, how many times, I don't say, I don't have a forced number in my heart?

    4, originally I thought I could be a beautiful woman quietly, without earning or robbing, but there are always people who take others as fools. Suffice it to say that if you have to, then I'm here to help.

    5. Always take others as fools, and sooner or later play yourself in. A gentleman who does not erect a wall of danger will not die if he does not die.

    6, some people, that is, always take others as fools, I don't understand, such people do you really take others as illiterate, or do you pretend to be pure with a shy face, and then look at others' tolerance for you, will it bring you satisfaction?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't take my kindness for a fool and say the following:1. Don't think of people as too kind, or don't be stingy with the greatest malice to judge others.

    2. You can't be beautiful, you can't be kind, don't treat others as fools.

    3. Don't treat kind people as fools, kind people's hearts are like mirrors, just don't say it!

    4. If you want passers-by to be kind, don't take passers-by for fools.

    5. Don't take material things as reality, don't take philistines as maturity, don't treat weakness as kindness, and don't treat good people as fools.

    6. Don't take others for fools, kindness is not something for you to bully.

    7. Don't take kindness as a fool, the world in the heart of a kind person is sincere and simple, but there is no lack of wisdom, but he doesn't like to intrigue with people, and he won't be like a villain who is good at hiding a knife in a smile at people, a set of people in front of him, and a set of cunning behind the ghosts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1. You can't be too kind, kindness is bullied by dogs.

    2. One day you will understand that people can't be too kind, because people will only pick soft persimmons and pinch them. If you are too generous and forgiving, others will not appreciate you, but will become even more violent.

    3. People should have a little temper, being too kind will make you lose your value and dignity, and being too kind is also a kind of stupidity. Remember one sentence: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. Everything is done in moderation, and if kindness is excessive, there is a lack of heart; Humility is too much, and it becomes weakness.

    4. One day you will understand that people can't be too kind, because people will only pick soft persimmons and pinch, if everything is too big and tolerant, others will not appreciate you, sometimes you should have a proper temper, treat some people really can't be too gentle and patient, because being too kind will make us lose our worth and dignity, and being too kind is also a kind of stupidity.

    5. Don't deliberately please everyone, one is that you can't do it at all, and the other is that it seems too fake. Some people love you, some people hate you, and the benchmark is to pass the level in your heart. I have where I'm going, and I know it's **, and no one can shake me; I have a path to take, and I know it's rough and full of thorns, but I'm still going to go.

    Don't just be a kind person, be a kind and powerful person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm not stupider than you, and I'm not stupider than you. Don't think that if I am kind-hearted and tolerate everything, you will treat me as a fool and think that I am a bully. Everybody has the eyes of the heart; Calculate, anyone will. It's just that I don't bother to play with you. I have a shot in my heart and understand the bottom line of being a man.

    I don't have a bad heart, and I don't wear a mask. I live simply, don't think of me too complicated; I don't have any fancy intestines, and I never cheat or cheat.

    In this life, I am a frank and upright person. I am not afraid of anyone, nor do I owe anyone. I am very kind to you, and if I only get sadness, I will choose to stay away; I mean the most to you, and if I am only deceived, I will only turn away.

    I care about you, and please care about me. Sincerity to sincerity, heart to heart for a long time. I gave in to you and was stupid in front of you because I cherished you and was afraid of hurting you and hurting you.

    Everyone has their own bottom line, get along, let's get along; If you can't get along, let's get together and disperse. Don't touch my bottom line at will, I don't want to be hurt, and I can't stand it! Please don't take me for a fool again!

    It's not that we're stupid, it's just that we believe in each other, and sometimes even if we know the truth, we will pretend to be stupid, because we care, so we don't want to expose it, and because we like it, we compromise and give in. It's simply good, you don't touch my bottom line, I don't violate your principles.

    I cherish every relationship, regardless of family, friendship, love, I know how to give in because I care, I am not stupid. Not everyone will remember your kindness to her, maybe she will take your kindness to her for granted, I believe that only parents do not ask for anything in return for their children's kindness, and only parents are stupid to give their children the most selfless love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People who are good do not deceive the sky, and people who are evil are afraid of the sky and are not afraid.

    Good will be rewarded with good, evil will be rewarded with evil, it is not that it will not be reported, the time has not yet come.

    The good is like water, the water benefits all things without fighting, and the evil of everyone, so it is more than the Tao.

    Heaven has no relatives, and he is always with good people.

    If you have a good heart, you will have nothing to worry about current affairs, and if you have a good heart, you will have no hate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In my opinion, no, but in real life, almost all people think so, but it's not that kind people are bad, but the reality is too cruel, too chaotic, and too kind people always think that this society is good, but real social people are not like that, (I think so) But I think it's good to be a kind person, at least not to be fascinated by the world of flowers in the real society, keep a kind heart, be a kind person, this is exactly what this society lacks.

    People who think that good people are fools, and there is a problem with the worldview of their own outlook on life, so don't pay attention to it.

    Make your heart strong. Don't be too kind, and don't be timid. Don't be afraid to cause trouble.

    You can't die when the sky falls. I have a kind personality, and in the end I was bullied by my friends who grew up, and I just wanted her to say sorry. Actually, I want to come back, but it's my friend who has been growing up for more than 10 years, and I can't afford it, I'm not so vicious as her.

    But then I realized that the reason why she dared to bully me was that she thought I was weak, that I was kind, and that I was easy to be bullied. Since then, I've left myself with one aspect of the role, which is viciousness. But I'm different from person to person, and I'll do to others what they do to me.

    I allow others to deceive me for a while, but I am not allowed to deceive me for a lifetime. People are good at being bullied, but this is not the reason why others should be bullied. Be strong, you were born by your mother, not born to be bullied by others.

    First, good people always think of each other well, and the other party itself is not as good as expected, which causes disappointment. Second, the other party always thinks of the kind person as he imagined, so he treats the kind person as he thinks about it, which is called the heart of the villain to take the belly of the gentleman. In fact, kind people are not stupid, they just don't want to accept that the other party will treat them like that, hoping again and again.

    Yes, good people don't have a great sense of defense against ordinary people, and they feel that people in the world are the same as them.

    People are good and are bullied, horses are good and are ridden, not all bad intentions are kind.

    No one will bully a simple and kind girl for no reason, your self-righteousness is a manifestation of self-pity, and thinking that you are stupid is a problem with an inferiority complex. Can you?

    Good deeds in the world, don't ask about the future......Sincerity is spirituality.

    In today's society, kind-hearted people are more likely to suffer. But there is a good saying, suffering is a blessing, as long as it is not a big deal, just turn a blind eye.

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