What are the characteristics of a woman who works hard , and I hope you don t occupy any of them?

From a socio-psychological point of view, the more insecure a person becomes, the harder they usually try to control everything around them. However, many times it is unsatisfactory, as if you are holding water with your hands, and everyone holds on tightly, and the more water flows out. These women, who always want to control everything, will eventually find that they have found nothing, so they try to control everything again.

In this week and again, how many people have personally shaped themselves into the "bad fate" in other people's mouths. Xin Meixiang in "Hello, Old Times" is such a living example, growing up in an unhappy family, his parents are patriarchal, and he doesn't care about his study. After being transferred to Zhenhua Middle School, a key middle school, she saw all kinds of outstanding students, and slowly, she hoped that she could become more and more like them.

Especially Yu Zhouzhou, who is good at learning and training and is also liked by Lin Yang, has become Xin Meixiang's goal - she wants to have everything that Yu Zhouzhou has. So he gradually studied hard, found Lin Yang to make up for his homework, and even kept up with Yu Zhouzhou in terms of dressing and matching. As a result, her strong desire to control forced her to write a report letter about Yu Zhouzhou and Lin Yang's student's early love, causing Lin Yang and her to break up - her beautiful youth seems to be like this, ending in a farce here.

Although Xin Meixiang came to a good school, she didn't feel happy, but she still felt that she didn't control her life. After graduating, he ran an architectural decoration company, and he was hands-on in everything, and finally lived a hard life of daily communication, hangover, and communication. She is insecure, she wants to be in control, but there are some things in the world that can be completely controlled, but there is just an endless pursuit of control.

Perfectionists can sometimes promote growth, but if they strive for perfection too much, they can have bad effects. Just as a person is not a sage, no one can guarantee that he will be perfect when he does something. But there are always some women in life who pursue perfection in everything and everywhere, and always give people a sense of discomfort in every detail.

Like Wang Shengnan in the TV series "Youth Pi", she is such a woman. In order to achieve the ideal home, she established a variety of rules for her husband and children - wash and disinfect their hands as soon as they enter, strictly prohibit eating fried food on the side of the road, keep their hair too long, and go to the bathroom for no more than five minutes......

Of course, the relevant regulations of "exterminating humanity" cannot be implemented, and there will often be a picture of "harmony but three minutes" at home - one second they are happy, and the next second they are restless. What Wang Shengnan doesn't understand is that the most ideal home should not be perfect, but happy. In front of the person who wants to love, these extremes and non-extremes have become no longer critical.

The so-called: know how to advance and retreat, know how to choose, that is, smart people.

Prefer to nag.,Do everything yourself.,Strong personality.,Selfish.,Unreasonable.。 I don't have these characteristics because I'm a lazy person.

Always nosy, if you are wronged, you will swallow your anger, very hardworking, and sometimes you always love to worry.

I don't know how to love myself, I always worry about others, and after I get married, I always pay attention to my husband and children, and I don't pay attention to my image and figure.

I think the characteristics of these women are that they are too good at doing everything and will do everything themselves, they have no obvious sense of boundaries, they don't know how to reject others, they are overly unconfident, and they always like to please others, which leads to their lack of refusal when faced with other people's needs.

I care about everything, I have to do it myself no matter what I do, I always love to worry about others, I always help others when they need help, and I am too strong.

I often miss my lover, I love to worry about others, I help others with everything, I like to do everything by myself, I don't like to fake my hands to others, and I don't like to trouble others.

Always frugal, reluctant to spend money on himself, not confident in himself, always worried about a little thing, no guts.

Don't worry about other people's things, don't let go of power, love to complain; Women are too independent, and men are useless in the family; Put yourself in the last place and put your son and husband first.

They are always very strict with themselves, strive for perfection in everything, want to be positively evaluated by others, they are always kind-hearted and good at thinking about others.

Always like to worry about others, always pay attention to others, never on their own body, not on their own image.

Women are too concerned about selling sedan chairs with too many things, they are always full of a sense of responsibility for life, and they are full of bad sails and no control over the things around them, and most of such women are working hard.

It should be that he usually likes to be nosy, and his emotions are more sensitive, and he is not willing to be generous and likes to be careful. That's why I'm going to get very tired.

There are too many pessimistic emotions, too high self-requirements, not knowing how to reject others, and being too sensitive.

Wang Lan was born in the 70s of the last century, after she graduated from junior high school, she went out to work in a factory, although she was a little tired, but she could get a stable salary, Wang Lan was very satisfied and satisfied with the current situation of life. After that, Wang Lan met an ordinary boy, who was very ordinary, ordinary in appearance, and average in work. Wang Lan felt that person was very good, so she married that person, and after marrying him, the two lived a plain life.

At that time, not long after China's reform and opening up, there were many business opportunities. At this time, there are often very good friends who come to her, and they will say to Wang Lan, "Wang Lan, you have to find a way to make some money, let's start a business together, now the business is very good, as long as you bear hardships and stand hard work, you will definitely be able to make money, which is several times more than you have been working in the factory." Whenever she hears her good friend say this, Wang Lan will immediately beckon, "I definitely don't do business, there are risks in trading, and now I have a good job."

More than ten years have passed, these good friends of hers have become CEOs, driving luxury cars and living in single-family villas, while Wang Lan is still renting a house, she sighed, "Women really can't be satisfied with the status quo, stick to the old rules, and work hard all their lives." Women who work hard are usually conformists, they think that they are doing well now, they have a good job and a stable income, although it is not high, but it is no problem to make ends meet, if they are not willing to be mediocre, go into business or do other things to try to succeed, it is very likely that they will not succeed. If you fail, you will lose a lot of money, and you may also be in debt, so it is better to stick to the old ways.

This is usually the case with hard-working women.

Ma Hong is a rural woman who has been farming in her hometown in the countryside for so many years. She has been planting the land for all these years, and she has been planting corn kernels and wheat. Some of Ma Hong's relatives and friends often persuaded her, "We can also make a lot of money from farming, don't keep planting these crops, you need to try to grow some crops, such as watermelon and strawberries, etc., so that you can make more money."

Ma Hong just doesn't know how to adapt to the situation, "What's the use of planting these, farming is naturally about planting corn and wheat." Ma Hong has worked hard for decades, and her quality of life has not improved.

Women who work hard, their temperament usually does not know how to be flexible, when a road does not work, it is very likely to go through, but women who work hard usually choose this road, and if it doesn't work, they also need to take this road. Like Ma Hong, the advice given to him by her relatives and friends is very good, and she can earn a lot of money from farming, and she can grow some crops, but she does not listen to persuasion. A woman who doesn't know how to be flexible is destined to work hard for a lifetime.

1.Too diligent, don't mess with nonsense, do everything yourself. 2.Hard-working, grievance-giving, don't dare to resist, and listen to other people's arrangements for everything. 3.Pants Chang people with strong self-esteem are afraid that others are better than themselves.

If a woman works hard, most of them are too weak and let others bully. If you don't know how to think about yourself, your mind is easy to be controlled.

Very anxious about his family, very worried about his husband, very worried about his children, and also very concerned about his family, everything will be for the sake of his family.